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writes:Hiwe have been invited to a friends house for dinner this next week with another couple. the last time we stayed over,we all ended up in the spa and things became steamy, we were all nude.I enjoyed the attention my wife got and at the time she did but she is still a little unsure about doing it again. as anyone any ideas on how i could make her feel more at relaxed about it.we didn't have sex or anything Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2008): You sound like you want to take this couple thing futher. Be very carefull, although the fantasy may be nice, it usually leads to a lot of jealously and mistrust and can break the strongest of relationships.
There is nothing wrong with telling your wife, just as you have told us how erotic you found the situation and how proud you felt of her, but please leave it at that. Do not pressure her into continuing this activity. It will probably leave her feeling ashamed and wondering if you really love her, or prefer the other women to her. You were lucky, you had a sexy experience, chalk it down to fate and leave it like that, do not attempt to push this thing further because it's likely to destroy your marriage and hurt your wife.
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (19 June 2008):
 At the time I suppose it was naughty fun, but perhaps afterwards your wife realised that things could have gotten out of hand. You say you enjoyed the attention shown to your wife, but she is unsure.. dont force the issue and it could cause problems within your relationship. If things got a bit out of hand [sexually] how would you really feel about someone [male/female] being with your wife? What if afterwards she said she preferred this person sexually to you????
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