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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My family is accusing my boyfriend of stealing from our home, can you help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

6 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - A lot of money has gone missing from my family home, my family is accusing my b/f and debating to call the police. Spoke to my b/f and he has denyed it...anybody help?... (35 words)

I can't move past my boyfriend kissing another girl. Can you help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5980 days ago

6 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am having a baby with my boyfriend and I'm having serious trust issues due to his past behaviour and my own. A few months ago, pre-pregnancy, my boyfriend (we are both in our mid to late 20s) of 2 years months kissed a girl at a club while he was drunk. This girl was some... (668 words)

I love him so much, all I do is cry, I'm 32 weeks pregnant and scared of being alone. Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

6 August 2008 (F)

- I'm deeply in love with my boyfriend of 3 years and i am 32 weeks pregnant. At first we were really happy, but now he is being real distant and is telling me he dosn't want to be with me, but will be there for the child when born. He used to chase me and be crazy for me, but ... (169 words)

Sex is great but I can't 'go' - Help?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

6 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my partner sexual realationship is Active!I can't 'go' at all but tho it is great sex, what should i do? And could you still become pregnant in way its just him that 'goes'?... (35 words)

He has reluctantly agreed to an STI test, but seems to be very annoyed at me. How do I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

6 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, Me and my boyfriend have been together almost a year, I am 19 he is 26. we usually use condoms and i am on the pill. recently we were talking about sti testing and he told me he has never ever been tested. I was alarmed by this as i have always been tested and i know he ... (158 words)

He fingered me - Am I still a virgin?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5978 days ago

6 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok...so i am 16...and i kinda went a lil 2 far 1 nite with my boyfriend. i gave him a blowjob and he fingered me...but thats all we did. it has been on my mind 4 a few weeks....am i still a virgin?... (43 words)

We're both married and both completely and utterly besotted by each other.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5980 days ago

6 August 2008 (F)

age - I have fallen in love with someone and don't know if I should ruin everyone's lives by going off with him. We're both married and both completely and utterly besotted by each other. We are not having an affair but he wants to leave his wife for us to be together and I am ... (183 words)

Does this fine lady at work (still) fancy me i.e. Am I still in the game?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

6 August 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi. I've been attracted to this woman at work for the better part of four years. She is polite, dignified, interesting, sexy, very feminine (which acts as a counterbalance to all those power-dressing Germaine Greer types!) and is a genuinely nice and authentic person. We... (483 words)

It hurts when I pee - and theres blood. Whats wrong?!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

6 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I really dont know what to do and need help. When i go to the toilet and pee it hurts and i get a faint bit of blood on the tissue when i wipe. Could anyone tell me what it is... I really need help and dont no what to do, Thanks ... (62 words)

My girlfriend has never had an orgasm in her entire life! Could it be that some people just don't orgasm at all?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5970 days ago

6 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend has never had an orgasm.. Not just with me, but ever in her life. I have had multiple sexual partners in my past and I never had a problem giving those girls an orgasm, my girlfriend has also had multiple sexual partners in the past, and she said that none of them... (233 words)

It's been 3 days, do you think he will ever contact me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5980 days ago

6 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I work with a service where guys who are lonely call for company of a woman. Was called to house of a guy 4 years younger than me who is studying to be a doctor. Into talking/over a drink there was a connection! I offered to strip (there is no sex) and he replied "no u don'... (279 words)

Debatable question: Why do friends want to influence their friends breaking up?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5981 days ago

6 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - why do some friends influence their friends to break up especially when their friends are truly happy and in love is it because they are jealous and or envious of their friends new found happiness.... (35 words)

I'm having doubts about getting married: Advice!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

6 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 18 going on 19 and have this guy we're engaged and i dont know what to do. i have committed myself to him at such a young age. we fight sometime about really stupid stuff. i just want to know what should i do continue the relationship or end it because i do love very much ... (70 words)

Does anyone know of any good ways to reduce the the cramps and general discomfort during periods?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

6 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This is not quite relationship directed, more of an issue of those monthly 'lady problems'! I suffer from quite uncomfortable periods and after 3 years of taking the pill i forgot how unbearable it was when i stopped a month ago. So when i started this week i found it extre... (116 words)

What can I tell her so that she does not feel compelled to reply?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5980 days ago

6 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - my friend, girl came back from holiday and hasn't contacted me. I want to text her showin her i care but i do not want her to reply. Somethin like hope your well etc. Can you help me? Thanks... (40 words)

Should I stay or go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5981 days ago

6 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship for 5 years. We've had our ups and downs but for the past 3 years it's been mostly downs. I've wanted to leave but ultimately in the past when I decided I wanted to go it was me who came back begging and he didn't seem worried in the least. ... (246 words)

Haven't had a period since 2 months ago, tests came up negative, what to do next?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

6 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok readers i'm 16 and me and my boyfriend have been going out for 9 months so before you say i'm too young to be having sex or what ever just know i love him and i'm not asking for your opinon on how young i am ok so we have been having sex and use protection i... (156 words)

What do you do when you feel as though you're in a loveless marriage with a man who is a good provider but totally emotionally unavailable?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5980 days ago

6 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - What do you do when you feel as though youre in a loveless marriage to a man who says he provides me with shelter, health insurance, and pays the cell phone bill and car insurance. but is totally emotionally unavailable. he makes me feel like a worthless person. when i tell... (212 words)

I used to find him attractive! How did my mind change? Now I'm grossed out...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

6 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm not overweight at all, but my boyfriend's thighs are smaller than mine! He looks emaciated, and when we makeout his hip bones hurt me! His waist is soooo small! And get this, he says he's stronger than me! Yet he never lifts weights! He says he's bigger too! I don't th... (233 words)

Can I have a healthy relationship with my boyfriend who lives with daugher and her family?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5973 days ago

6 August 2008 (F)

age - I am in a (5 month old) relationship with a mid 50 year old man who lives with his mid 30 year old daughter, her husband and 2 children (one of which is an almost 2 year old granddaughter that he adores of course). I am very jealous of the relationships with his daughter... (524 words)

Is he being a little over-sensitive that I still had a photo of me and my ex in an album?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

6 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I had a picture of me and my ex in my photo album (we broke up 10 months ago) and my new b/f saw it and got really mad and hurt that i still have it. I'm going to throw it away, i guess i just don't get why he was so mad. i know all of us are entitled to our own feelings and ... (74 words)

He's very distant and won't help me sort out our marriage, his only response is "I don't know!"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

6 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - one month after our one year anniversary, my husband told me that he had been thinking about a divorce. I kind of knew it was coming, since we haven't had sex in over two months, he stays gone out of town for work more often, and when he does come home, he basically just treats ... (185 words)

It's strong smelling. Is it squirting? Do I need to see a doctor?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

6 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear aunts, im 16, 17 in 19 days, legal age and i do feel ready, but my boyfriend and I have decided to wait till his 18th till we try anything, we're both virgins too. But my problem is, since we both havnt done anything before ive been exploring my self of late, to try learn ... (153 words)

I need some support - I had and ended an affair which I regret. Its ending violently.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5971 days ago

6 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - This is really hard for me, i know most of the answers i am going to get, but i was seeing this married man for 2 years im 21 he is 35. he has wife with a baby on the way....i am not a heartless person i always felt bad, but circumstances in my life led me to this. i was ... (268 words)

Should I change the way I am so I feel better about myself or what?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5980 days ago

6 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi.. i'm very self conscious of myself. i dress myself and act myself and stuff, but when i'm around other people i just get upset. it's like everyone looks at them and i'm just there, and i feel like people would just make fun of me. when people say something about how i am or ... (102 words)

I constantly feel ugly and end up with other men to boost self-esteem

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

6 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i am a female aged 19. iv been with my boyfriend for 4 and a half years. we have a 3 month old baby. i have always been a bit insecure and have always been paranoid about how i look. since having a baby however things have just got worse. i hate what i see in the mirror even ... (195 words)

I have anxiety and I'm always stressed out and nervous when I'm around people. Please help?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5901 days ago

6 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - For starters i have anxiety and i am always stressed out, and i am nervous when i'm around people i don't know and don't talk to. I don't like trying to make new friends because i always think people don't like me. so this year i was going to do another sport at my school, but ... (183 words)

I seem to have "pimples" on my boobs, Is it something I should worry about?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

6 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hello... i seem to have "pimples" on my boobs. it's understandable because i have an acne problem all over my body. the doctors always try to give me medicines to help it but they don't seem to work. But i never heard of anyone having them on their boobs. They've been there for ... (103 words)

This clearly isn't infectious epididymitis, but what else could have caused it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5981 days ago

6 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - hi I posted here a few days ago with symptoms of very acute left testicle pain so I went along to my GP. He tested my urine sample which was fine and then examined both of my testes for lumps etc. The only one noticeable thing was a slightly inflammed epididymis on the left tes... (119 words)

I like this guy, but he's leaving tomorrow! Should I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5981 days ago

6 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya! Thanks to everyone that answers! Okay, so I met this guy about two month ago at a café near here (he works there), and we got to talking one day. It just kind of built up from there… now when I go in, which is about three to four times a week, I’ll stand at the service ... (262 words)

My best-friend's 16 year old is in love with me, and I don't know what to do! What are my options?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

6 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My best friend that I know for almost 8yrs has his own family (wife, 2 sons, and 2 daughters) and his own business. His family loves me like I was part of them. He has always been an unique person that likes to have fun, so we as guys look at girls, and do comments about it :O) ... (267 words)

I'm dating an unsuccessful older man, but I ask myself, what could I possibly be attracted to?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5980 days ago

6 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently started dating an older, divorced man with two young children. I am a young career oriented sucessful women and he is a little less then ambitious older men. I ask myself what could i possibly be attracted to? Yes the sex is great but other then that, I don't real... (94 words)

I know she loves me, but the lack of intimacy is eating at me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5980 days ago

6 August 2008 (M)

age - My story is way too long so I will do all I can to exercise brevity as much as possible. My wife and I where married for 24 years before she decided that life for her was horrible and always has been, she just didn't know it until a counselor opened her eyes. So she secretly... (561 words)

How do I take things deeper in this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5961 days ago

6 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing a girl in Spain for roughly 4 months. Things between us are quite sensational, physically, mentally...etc..its amazing. We're both in our 30's. The problem is, I don't know where we are at, in terms of commitment. I'm not sure If I should treat this as a ... (330 words)

My boyfriend has jealousy issues. How can I get him to trust me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5952 days ago

6 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i need help.. i have the perfect boyfriend and i really think i'm starting to fall in love with him. but he has a problem with me talking to guys and my exes. i mean i understand, i don't like him talking to other girls but i try not to let it bother me. i haven't had ... (227 words)

After a great night with him, he hasn't called me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

6 August 2008 (F) - This guy I met on a thursday texted called asked to hang friday we finally did saturday and had an amazing time. he acted like he was really into me and went had fun laughed etc. nothing I can think went wrong. We went back to him place at the end of the night and I gave him 2 ... (82 words)

We are both virgins. How can I approach the topic of sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5979 days ago

6 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now and are in love. I'm starting to think about having sex, problem is, this is the first serious relationship I've been in, same with him, so we're both pretty shy. (We're nearly 18) I was just wondering if anyone could gi... (120 words)

How can I interpret our friends with benefits situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

6 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello all! Thank you for taking the time to read this... I am very close to one of my guy friends. We see each other almost everyday, and we enjoy each other's company. A few weeks back, though, we slept with each other, and have been doing so ever since. I have been confused ... (214 words)

He doesn't want to take responsibility for me or the baby!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

6 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i fell in love with a guy wen i was married and divorced my 1st husband on his insistence. we are in a relationship for the last three and half years in which we had a live relationship. i got pregnant and he wanted me to abort the baby which i refused and in the 8th month of ... (425 words)

Why did the first pregnancy test came up positive and all the others - negative? We're still worried...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

6 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - i was sleeping with Girl A. than i cheated on her with girl B. girl B finds out about A and tells her that we had sex. Than girl B says that she was sleeping with me and she thinks shes pregnant. i talk to girl A and she tells me she took it just bc her friend had an extra. a ... (151 words)

What is your take on couples taking a break? I want to experiment more before I settle with him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

6 August 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I'm eighteen and my boyfriend of a year and a half is twenty. we are very in love and he really is the guy i want to marry. the problem is, he is my first relationship whereas i'm his fourth, and i just feel like i wish i had partied a little harder, had more random hook ups ... (134 words)

I get insanely jealous for no good reason of his ex'es although he dislikes them and they do not maintain contact!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5980 days ago

6 August 2008 (?) age 30-35 - i've been going out with my boyfriend for a little over a year. he's the most loyal and trustworthy guy ever and i know for a fact he would never ever cheat on me, let alone flirt with another girl. he always tells girls he's chatting to about me and lets everyone know he is ... (158 words)

Can love really heal emotionally distant men? Why do I have a tendence to be attracted to them?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

6 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I just( realize something about myself. I fall for emotionally distant men. I am so attracted to the one that are hurting inside. I notice a pattern. I think my love for them will "help" them ease their pain. So I had flings with 2 of them the past year, I am just coming ... (147 words)

He wants to meet up for sex, and I do too, but how can I be sure he's not a psycho?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5977 days ago

6 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I already know the answer to this one, because of what my friends have said - but I need a second opinion. I recently met a guy online through our blogs and we've been emailing quite frequently. He's suggesting that we meet up for sex, and I really want to but I'm ... (154 words)

He ejaculated pretty quickly... is that a bad thing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5977 days ago

6 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my current boyfriend for a number of months and we are very much in love with eachother. Recently, we have started "doing stuff" and I gave him a wank. He came after a very short period of time and commented on how fast it was. I realise guys are quite set on... (110 words)

Since this was the most amicable break up I've ever experienced, I'm still in denial and wait for him to come back, help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

6 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Thanks for taking the time to read this. If you want to skip to the question at the bottom thats fine. BACKGROUND:I am 23 turning 24 and my now ex is 22 turning 23. We were together for almost 2 yrs (this coming october). The first 9 months of our relationship was... (500 words)

I moved to another country to be with him, now I'm pregnant with no job and no friends and he is too predictable: no quality time together! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5979 days ago

6 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Three years ago I fell deeply in love with a guy I found most attractive. The feelings were mutual and we moved in together 12 weeks later. Life was good. I was happy and he was too. The sex was great and everything was fabulous. However, things changed 2 and a half years later ... (181 words)

We lost our virginities to one another, but she has an STD and I don't...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

6 August 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Hey Me and my girlfriend both lost our virginity to eachother. Then the other day she told me that she has an STI with is not the Human Immuno Virus. I have been to the doctors and i am free from STI's and in perfect health. So i am wondering if she had to of slept ... (138 words)

We both love each other deeply but can't feel the way we felt before the break!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5981 days ago

6 August 2008 (?) age 30-35 - im in love with a person and in october 8 we will be 5 years its a really long story we had the best times ever we traveled together we did everythin together but we separated for 3 months 6 months ago and when we got back together everythin changed its not like its used to b... (233 words)

Is it better to be loved and not wanted or desired?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

6 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My original question, just notating it here,since i now have an account: Question: Is it a good thing to have a man who loves you but does not always want you? I am a newly wed woman, married for just one year. ... (49 words)

The two are completely different guys and one of them is my BF, but I can't tell who I actually want!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

6 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Just like so many others, i am having a problem of choosing between two guys. 4 years ago i met this guy, J. we became the closest of friends, alternating which one of us liked the other more than friends but always one or both of us not wanting to ruin the amazing friendship ... (435 words)

We broke up as he still had feelings for his ex and also depression problems, is he now acting TOO friendly or is it an impression?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5981 days ago

6 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Seeing a guy a few months ago for around 1 month, he still had feelings for ex so we finished, he always said he did really like me but did not want to hurt me as he also has depression problems and did not want to let me down. Anyway, we work together and lately he is alw... (383 words)

Should I be worried about my boyfriend's trip?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5976 days ago

6 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Well I'll start by saying that my boyfriend and I have been together for almost four years and we've had our share of arguments, but we've both pretty much always been on the same page. It's a serious relationship and we're both aiming towards marriage if things keep going ... (334 words)

My husband believed calomnious rumours about me having an affair - should I ask him to give us a second chance after he has presented me to his new woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

6 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, to cut a long story short I’ll make my situation straight to the point. I'm married 1 kid she's 1 years old, so me and my husband got along like really well no problems or anything, then there came a period of time where one day after the other some one kept telling him ... (995 words)

Why does my live in boyfriend choose to masturbate to porn??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5981 days ago

6 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I are both 38yrs old, we have been living together with our daughter for the past year. When we started to live together we made love regularly now a year later, weeks go by without us having sex. I have caught him masturbating while watching porn online ... (136 words)

I've fallen in love with her...but everyone in her life seems to be disposable!! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

6 August 2008 (M)

age - I have an on line relationship with a woman for 12 years. At various times she loves me, and at times she doesn't. She's married and has cheated in real life on her husband since the first week they were married and continues to do so 8 years into their marriage. One of those ... (374 words)

If he really did love me then why are we breaking up over something so silly??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

6 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - So I have been with my boyfriend for about 6 months but have known him for about 5 years as I was in a relationship with one of his friends for four years before that, so knew them though each other, but they were never really close friends! So when I split up with my ex I ... (398 words)

What is the secret of a happy life?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5980 days ago

6 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - i still not feeling beter. i always worry about silly things.i don't find joyful life still now even if i got a job.what is the secreat of life?... (30 words)

I'm Confused and Unhappy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5980 days ago

6 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I met John online 5yrs ago, we kept up a long distance relationship and travelled together every year and had wonderful times together. Three years ago our daughter was born and we were just overjoyed. I have now relocated to his country at his request so that we can all be ... (147 words)

How can I take a restraining order out on a family member?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5969 days ago

6 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well let me explain my situation. I'm 16 years old and i live in a house with my dad, mom, little sister and brother. My father has verbally attacked me and has struck me. He's even blacked my eye before. He doesn't take his aggression out on my 2 younger siblings, and the reas... (88 words)

We've been married for 18 months and she's still a virgin! What can I do?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

6 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have been married since March '07 (nearly 18 months ago), I love my wife to pieces but am extremely stuck on this. She was a virgin when we started going out, but the problem is she is still a virgin now. We've been together since '03, and things were pretty good, ma... (156 words)

I can't help but feel insecure and inadequate. I keep comparing myself to her.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5979 days ago

6 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - There's this guy I've known for a long time. We were going to pursue a relationship. The problem is he has a high sex drive and I'm a virgin at 22. He's alot older and he's 28. The fact I'm a virgin - it's a issue to him. I want to take my time and wait until I'm ready. He can'... (117 words)

It's not plain sailing for us anymore, I've been pushed aside.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

6 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Had been with my boyfriend around 4 years off and on throughout college, but we just broke up a few weeks ago. It seems that we grew apart because of new interests. He had just bought a boat and i hate it (i dont like sea or water) - he seems to want to spend all his free ... (145 words)

Did I ruin my chances by sleeping with him too soon?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

6 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy who's 24, im 21. he is such good fun and we get on so well, the only problem is i slept with him second time i met him. I have seen him twice after this just to meet for drinks. He texts me most days or calls. But he hasnt asked me out on a dinner date or cinema. ... (146 words)

Please can someone help me get him out of my life?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

6 August 2008 (F)

age - Please please can someone help me. I am married and have been having an affair for 3 years with a man who is in a relationship. Both he and his partner tell me that it is sexless. The physical side of our relationship has always been very very good. Recently his partner told... (217 words)

I hate being single and I have no experience of dating, please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

6 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a single teenager just finished high school and about to start college, and I hate being single but have no experience. How do I start off in the world of dating?... (33 words)

Would "naughty" pictures be on a reconditioned laptop??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5952 days ago

6 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i have recently just found out my bf was using adult friend finder, i am naturally angry. our relationship is destroyed over it. i also searched the hard-drive for pictures.. the usual pics came up of friends and then there were naked pics in jpeg format. he says he does not ... (105 words)

Why does the ex declare undying love, yet behaves like a player?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

6 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - General question time. Why would someone you split with 7 months ago, be telling you they still love you, and cant get with someone else yet because of that. Yet be chasing lots of different girls at the same time, especially ones 10 yrs younger than them? going for drinks w... (71 words)

What are these red dots on my breast?

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6 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all! Ok my question is a bit embarrassing so please don't be put off about it, thanks. Ok well yesterday i met up with my sort of boyfriend (it's complicated) and we were "sexually active" together. We didn't actually have sex but we were more touching and performing oral ... (128 words)

Should I have an affair while my bf is in prison?

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6 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - The guy im with is locked up and im feeling so lonenly should i sleep with my close friend ? he dosnt come out intill jan 2009 thats A pretty long time ........ (33 words)

PLEASE how do I get this MM out of my life, my head and my body.?

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6 August 2008 (F)

age - Iam married and have been having an affair for 3 years with someone who is in a relationship. We had very very good sex,his sex life with his partner was almost non-existant (she told me that too). He always said that I was important etc,although the compliments have faded over ... (209 words)

I need help to move on from my ex!

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6 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i been stressing over my exboyfriend that i was with for 6years we broke up around 6months ago but now im with some other guy we been 2gether for about 5months yes i care about him but deep inside me i still have feeling about my ex whatshould i do ?... (52 words)

How do I approach my bf about the flirty texts from this girl?

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6 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so im a really shy girl, and its really hard for me to speak my mind. but recently i looked through my boyfriends phone and i found two texts from this girl from two separate times. and he knows she thinks hes cute and basically she is calling him babe and saying i love you ... (187 words)

He has been acting weird since finding pics of my ex!

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6 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm really in love with my boyfriend, but last week he found some pictures of my ex in my flat that I had completely forgotten I even had. He was upset and asked if I was still in love with my ex. I told him I wasn't. Then a few days later my ex rang out of the blue while I was ... (202 words)

How could I prevent myself from being laughed at?

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6 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Sometimes when i'm shopping i'm afraid to walk into some stores, because the sales associates might laugh at me the way I look, tease me, or just won't bother to help me. What could I do to get over this? How could I prevent myself from being laughed at? No I am not on drugs. ... (55 words)

My ex only contacts me for sex!

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6 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my ex and i were never sexually active but always wanted to be. we were together for a while and the conversation was always up. now that we are no longer together, he has finally been intimate with another girl. though we are not together he continues to bring up the topic of ... (108 words)

How do I convince my boyfriend to move out with me and get away from his father?

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6 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend live together with his parents and have been together for a few years now. His father is very close to him they are best friends, and now that it is getting to tat time that we have graduated, he doesn't know how to let go. He refuses to let go, if anything ... (194 words)

He seems to really care about me, but he wont leave his girlfriend who is carrying his baby!

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6 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been seeing this guy that has a girlfriend who has a baby on the way. he has recently told me that he misses me alot and that he wants to be with me and that he loves me. He seems to really care about me, but he wont leave his girlfriend who is carrying his baby, to be ... (80 words)

Should we stay togather with out loving each other?

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6 August 2008 (F)

age - We are sapareted after 9 years of marrige, but he never moved out of my house. He promissed to pay rent. We still call each other husband and wife for past five years. We sleep in saparate bedrooms, we have nothing in common. We don't make love to each other. I think we are... (138 words)

I'm engaged but I find one of my male friends very sexy, Is this okay?

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6 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 and I am in a very loving relationship that has lasted about 4 years almost, I'm engaged and very much in love with my fiancee. The problem is I find one of my male friends very attractive, and I dont know if is normal to find anyone else but the person your in love with ... (92 words)

Did I fall in love with a slut without knowing it?

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6 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright, My girlfriend and I sort of met one night while we were both out drinking, we ended up having sex that night, either of us knew anything about each other really more than our names. Yes, a one night stand. We both were extremely drunk, we both woke up in the mo... (973 words)

He is really arrogant and shy at the same time, so how do I tell how he really feels?

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6 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay i got this love problem. I have a thing going on with one of my male friends. All summer we flirted a lot, but he wasn't asking me out or anything. So one day we finally talked about us and he confessed me that he was really into me, that he wanted to be with me BUT he c... (247 words)

I'm worried about our relationship. He spends a lot of time with his ex-wife.

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6 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - dear cupid, ive been in a long distance realationship for 9 months with a guy and he was once married and has three children, i have one we live two hours apart.we see each other every other weekend,ive met his parents and kids and exwife who seems to be ok with us dating,but i ... (242 words)

We've known each other for so long- why the suddent interest in me?

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6 August 2008 (F)

- Theres this guy who I have known for about 8 years as we used to go to school together. Recently he started chatting to me alot which he never did before. Hes been messaging me alot and talking to me pretty much every day. He asked me to the movies and he offered to pick me up. ... (128 words)

What do you like women to do during sex?

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6 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a question for the guys out there. What is it that you like for a woman to do during sex? I sometimes feel a little bit lost and not quite sure what I should do. Any suggestions would be most appreciated! Thank you.... (45 words)

He wants to know my fantasies... but they are SO dirty, I don't think he could handle it.

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6 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend wants me to tell him my fantasies, but I'm so nervous. Some of them are really DIRTY. For example, I have rape fantasies, one of the most common I know, but kind of hard to explain. Especially since I want it rough. Not just him taking control. He was raised ... (113 words)

I don't click with the guys who approach me... It's not commitment phobia, so what is it?

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6 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok i have a problem...i am 17 and about to be a freshman in college i have numerous of men trying to date me..from married men to men with plenty of children....but i also have some good men trying to date me, i enjoy talking to one guy in particular but and he really likes me ... (141 words)

I kissed someone new recently and was incredibly turned on. I've never felt this before, why?

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6 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently kissed someone new for the first time. It was an incredible experience, but I am a little confused. I felt extremely turned on sexually and very connected. I have kissed others before, but never have I felt like this. Why would this be so different? What happened? ... (54 words)

My LDR is coming to an end... it's killing me inside. Any advice?

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6 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Here's the deal, I am a college student, my girlfriend and I were together for about 4 months or so and then the school year came to an end. We both decided that we wanted to do the Long Distance Relationship for the summer and we both thought it would be totally worth it... (1038 words)

What does it mean when your boyfriend asks you for time?

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6 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Well, I met a guy almost a year ago that was studying for his L-Stats and we became good friends.Although we both liked each other and occasionally would go out for lunch we remained friends. Not knowing what Law School he would end up I tried not to like him,but I couldn't ... (290 words)

I'm in love with my best friend... what do I do?

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6 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so eya i know this guy right he spends a night at my house all thee time we talk all day bought our problems and stuff and he very attracitve and understanding and i love him so much but the thing is hes my best friend and if i tell him how i feel have a feeling its going ... (91 words)

Will masturbating stunt my growth?

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6 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi i am 13 and i am starting to hit puberty and i always find my self getting really horny and it turns to a result of masturbating. after masturbating for quite a while i now have veins i can see really clear in my penis that i didnt see before, should i be worried or what ... (98 words)

Am I being played for a fool? Should I give up? Or really go for it?

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6 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi I've got a bit of a problem with a certain girl and from what I've read on askmen.com I think you would be able to help. I know your a busy person, but I would be greatful if you could lend a helping hand. Basically I grew up with this girl in a small town and when we... (723 words)

Do I have the 'grass is greener' syndrome here?

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6 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 30 and have been dating my boyfriend for 5 years. I love him I think but I have terrible 'grass is greener' syndrome. I cheat on him when I get the opportunity and I constantly think of my high school boyfriend with whom i split up with years ago. It's ridiculous, i should ... (227 words)

I am pushing my bf away and thinking of my abusive ex! Is something wrong with me?

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6 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i don't know what to do. me and my boyfriend have been together for about 5 months and at the beginning it was great, but now i barely want to kiss him and when he visits me at my place i push him away. i don't know if it's because all of a sudden i am comparing him to my ex. ... (97 words)

I don't want to ruin our friendship, but I really love this girl. We've been best friends for months and she refuses to take it one step further.

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6 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I’ve been best friends with a girl for about 8 or 9 months now, and she’s the most wonderful thing that has ever happened to me. She still says we’re just friends but I feel as if our relationship has recently progressed into something more. We seem so incredibly close, we’ll ... (370 words)

We broke up but I still love and want to get her a ring! Any advice?

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6 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I promised my girlfriend at the time when we were still dating, to buy her a ring. We broke up but i still love her and she has feelings for me like that. Right now when I asked about 2 weeks ago, what would she do if I got her the ring? She said she wanted to just hold on to ... (130 words)

Was he trying to be in control?

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6 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - When i was with my ex, if we got into an argument, right after he would want to have sex, and the way he liked it. it felt like he was trying to be in control or something. what do u think?... (43 words)

Do I say the "L" Word or not?

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6 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello aunties and uncles, I've been dating my boyfriend (who doesn't label me his 'girlfriend' due to some 'commitment issues') for over a year and a half and I am realizing lately that I've been wanting to tell him that I love him. I find myself almost slipping up with the... (194 words)

I would still like some advice as to how I can reduce my urges to a minimum.

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6 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 years old and i'm very much in love with my girlfriend, she means the world to me.. But i feel like my sexual urges are getting in the way and i don't want her to start thinking i'm something that i'm not. My urges aren't all that bad really, but i would still like som... (112 words)

Was phone sex with this other guy classed as cheating...should I tell my bf?

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6 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im a girl and in a long distance relationship and i was very happy. but lately i havent been. he doesnt call me, we hardly talk, me msgs me bout once a day saying the same things. he is hardly online now and i never really get to see him for real. ive just been feeling really ... (175 words)

Shouldn't sex be a bigger deal to me?

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6 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Not sure if this is worth worrying about but any comments will be apreciated thanks. I lost my virginity about a week ago, it felt like nothing special, i had been with my boyfriend about 3months and it just happened spare of the moment but i do love him so im happy he was ... (162 words)

Please don't make any of the answers "You are too young to be thinking about this", as I'm not going to be participating in the act. I am simply curious.

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6 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, let me just stress that NONE OF THESE QUESTIONS ARE THINGS I AM GOING TO DO! Please don't make any of the answers "You are too young to be thinking about this", as I'm not going to be participating in the act. I am simply curious. There are a couple of questions I woul... (177 words)

I want to break up with her as a friend, but I might lose my other friends as well?

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6 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I met this girl, let say her name was kaithlin. She became my bff but I was the only one trying to keep our friendship going, I mean sometimes she will take charge but it lasts usually 5 seconds flat. Then one of our classmates came into the picture and she and kaithlin... (109 words)

What's going on? Is it the pills? Are they working? Can I be pregnant?

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6 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Very worried at this point... well me and a sex partner are having sex and I just got on birth control pills a month ago, and I got my period for one week, and then for another week when I started a new package my period disappeard, what's going on? is it the pills, are they... (77 words)

Should I wait for this married woman I'm in love with, or what?

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6 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I am in love with a married woman and she is in love with me too. She doesn't want to be with her husband but she can't leave him cause she has raised his kids since they were born, which two of them are not really hers. What should i do? Wait??... (53 words)

He confessed that he got me pregnant on purpose and lied that he couldn't have kids ~ because he wanted us to stay together.

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6 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello...I've been seeing a guy for about 3months. I was falling in love with him. He came at the right time in my life when i was ready for a real relationship. He was married for 7yrs and told me he couldn't have kids. He pressured me for sex for awhile and I gave in. We ... (178 words)

After we had sex last night, there was alot of blood, and quite frankly, I'm terrified!

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6 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure how to put this, but it's weighing on my mind a lot. I had sex with my boyfriend last night, and when we were finished, I looked down, and I was bleeding from my vagina. Not even just a little, a LOT. And it didn't look like menstrual blood either, it was brig... (151 words)

Does having a lot of sex affect the relationship or our love??

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6 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relation for above 2 years and also have sex relationship. I really wanted to know does having a lot of sex affect the relationship or our love?? If yes, what should be done to make the relationship strong?... (44 words)

He's gone from being an incredibly motivated, funny, caring person to being the most selfish, angry person I know.

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6 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - A bit of history. My boyfriend and I have been together over 2 years. When we first met I was living with my former boyfriend who was an alcoholic. It was a very unhealthy relationship to put it mildly. My current boyfriend and I met and became friends towards the end of t... (804 words)

Do people still get emails from 'Adult Friend Finder' if the account is not in use?

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6 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - ive recently found out my b/f has an adult friend finder account. he says it is not in use. naturally i am very hurt about this. i am just wondering does that site still send emails to people even if the account is not activated??? or do they keep sending emails to the acco... (59 words)

I know it's wrong, but I'm sleeping with both my boyfriend and his older brother!

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6 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - right, im really just lookin for abit of advice, i already know what im doing is very very wrong and i do feel guilty about it.. im a 16 year old girl living in a small village in the uk, i went to an all girls school and as i live in a small place there isnt many boys ther... (308 words)