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writes:i don't know what to do. me and my boyfriend have been together for about 5 months and at the beginning it was great, but now i barely want to kiss him and when he visits me at my place i push him away. i don't know if it's because all of a sudden i am comparing him to my ex. but the thing is my ex is nothing like him. my ex was abusive on many levels. so am i just not over my ex or is something seriously wrong with me and my current boyfriend?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI broke up with my ex 10 months ago, and started seeing this guy 5 months ago (5 months after i broke up with my ex). Is that enough time to get over someone? even if i miss my ex a little, and it's making my current situation stressful, shouldn't i just stick it out because i would never go back to my ex (even if i think about him).
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reader, Dreamie Tofu +, writes (6 August 2008):
There is nothing wrong with you at all. I dont know exactly how you feel.For me i would think it is because you lost feelings for your current boyfriend. Its either that or you were hoping that your current boyfriend might have something similiar to your ex but he doesnt.But in your heart you still miss your ex.Im not telling you to break up with your current boy but to me its better if you tell your boyfriend as soon as possible that you might be loosing feelings or you still miss your ex because the more you push him away the more he wants to know why and he might be falling for you deeper as the days goes by. You wouldnt wanna hurt him do you? So tell him whats happening and seriously if your ex abuses you its not a good idea to go back with him imagine if you guys were married things will get worse. Wish you the very best.
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