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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I am in love with a married woman and she is in love with me too. She doesn't want to be with her husband but she can't leave him cause she has raised his kids since they were born, which two of them are not really hers. What should i do? Wait??
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reader, isaacdeese +, writes (6 June 2010):
I think you need to cute yourself off of this married womans life. She will then be forced to make a decision, either stay in her marriage, or end it the right way and pursue you. If you don't do this she will just keep you around in limbo land making promises that she doesn't have to keep. Why does she have to make a decision if she can have both?
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reader, totallyjoey  +, writes (6 August 2008):
I really have to agree with peterpan. How old are you? like seriously there are millions no. trilloions of women out there you can get to know and be in love with. This woman is married and she has a family. Do you really wanna destroy this family? Find someone else... don't waste you time..
(this is also my opinion)
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reader, PeterPan +, writes (6 August 2008):
 Oddly, this is a question more often asked by women... but I still think the same advice applies in either case. If you think that she's not going to leave her current (and I remind you, legal) relationship, then the chances of it happening in the near future is really low. For whatever reasons this woman has chosen to act (or more accurately, not to act) is an indicator of just how quickly she's going to move in the near future.
Personally, being as young as you are, I always advocate creating your own happiness and not wait for somebody to act or make up their mind on how things are going to pan out in the future. Yes, it's hard to hear, but it's my opinion, and unfortunately it's been more the rule than the exception...
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