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writes:Hello...I've been seeing a guy for about 3months. I was falling in love with him. He came at the right time in my life when i was ready for a real relationship. He was married for 7yrs and told me he couldn't have kids. He pressured me for sex for awhile and I gave in. We stopped being physical, but I just found out that i'm pregnant. I'm a single mom so I did not want to have a sexual relationship with someone before i was in a committed relationship. He confessed that he got me pregnant on purpose and lied to me because he wanted us to stay together. I have mixed feelings. I was really falling for this guy but after finding out this...my feelings have changed. I don't want to have a baby without a family...but i'm not sure i want to start a family with a man that's this selfish..self centred...etc. I've heard about girls doing this...but never for a guy. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2008): You could put the child up for adoption. You choice isn't limited to marry him or raise the baby on your own.
If it were me I wouldn't want this guy anywhere near me let alone in a position to influence a child's development.
No matter what your decision is make sure he pays for all of the medical care you and the baby will need.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2008): I have also had this happen to me as well... my boyfriend and I were on birthcontrol when the pharmacy called and told me that the other pills i were on affected the birth control...he also pulled the little sticker off of them as well...it sounds to me like we are almost in the same situation...i hope everything goes well but always rememeber that he lied to you and now you have to carry this child and raise it...oh by the way no one here has said congrats even if under the situation God has given you a special gift and that is how im looking at my situation...good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2008): I think that is just a terrible thing of him to do. Completely out of order! I totally understand how you are unhappy with him and now doubting your feelings for him. Loads of luck sweetie and remember there are plenty more guys out there (with integrity...)
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