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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I find her irresistibly attractive, more so than anyone else I've ever known, even celebrities.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

12 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm having some trouble understanding exactly what I'm experiencing. I recently made friends with a girl whom I used to know at my primary school. I cant really explain why but I find her irresistibly attractive, more so than anyone else I've ever known, even celebrit... (370 words)

Financial, Work Related and Family issues, is having this overwhelming effect on both of us. Any advice please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5944 days ago

12 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there dear cupid. I have been with my boyfriend for going on a year now. Here lately things have been rocky between us due to alot of things going on for both of us outside of the relationship. Financial issues, work related issues, and family issues, and its over... (273 words)

Is it normal for your parents to want you to pay back money you borrow?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5943 days ago

12 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I just want to know: Is it normal for your parents to want you to pay back money you borrow? Please reply =] Love ya all tasha x... (34 words)

How can I tell if he wants to have sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5944 days ago

12 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend always makes comments such as "lets have sex" but he only ever txts them so i dunno if he is being serious or not. How can i tell if he really want to have sex? As he is the shy type that wouldnt ever dream of saying it to my face and i have tried txting him back ... (98 words)

I have an inverted nipple and I want to honestly know if this is a turn off.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5944 days ago

12 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi...another one for the men I'm in my early 20's and have yet to have sex...mainly because i have an inverted nipple and feel like i would be a turnoff. I'm not the kind of person to settle down and start being serious yet (nor am i one for one night stands) but i'm not into... (102 words)

My boyfriend might be going to prison for three months and his dad says they'll have to move away. Also his ex keeps coming on to him. HELP.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5944 days ago

12 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically.. I'm goin out with a guy who's got a court case tomorrow because he got jumped on whilst out one night and used self defence. Unfortunately when the police pulled them apart, they found his work knife in his bag (He was not going to use it, he just was carrying ... (264 words)

3 SUMS, and spiceing up the SEX!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5943 days ago

12 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - dear aunts and uncles, i have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 3 years and i just told him i wanted a 3 some but i dont want any1 anyround my area(living)i live in a very small town and i dont want it to get around.how do i go about finding another girl to take ... (146 words)

Does anyone have any good 6 month anniversary ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5944 days ago

12 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - just wondering if i can get some ideas... its mine and my partners 6 month anniversary and i have no idea what i should do for him...any suggestionss????... (28 words)

My boyfriend has started to ignore me and won't talk to me. How do I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5944 days ago

12 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi. me and my boyfriend have been really happy until recently. we had a pretty gd relationship b4 but the only problem was that he never seemed to want to go out with me anywhere. recently my bf has started to ignore me and wen i try to tlk to him he usually ends up ignoring... (192 words)

I slept with a married man who really seemed to like me. Now he says it won't happen again and not to tell anyone.help

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5944 days ago

12 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi im a 30 year old female and been friends with a 30 year old male for about 3 years we talk on the net and hes always liked chatting me up we both have 2 children and hes married.when i went round a week ago we ended up having sex.and turns round and says dnt tell anyone.now ... (90 words)

He seems to really like me when we are together, but doesn't seem to care when we're apart. Could this have something to do with his girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5943 days ago

12 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy about two weeks ago through my best friend. as soon as we started talking we got along so well it was crazy. we talked for ours at a time and he even said 'how is it possible that i have only known you for 2 weeks but we talk for so long..' there was one problem ... (225 words)

I met a girl eight weeks ago. I probably won't see her again, but I can't get her out of my mind.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5944 days ago

12 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - ok I met this girl at an event in manchester about 8 weeks ago i realy like her and i think she liked me as well as i always caught her looking at me and when i was not looking i could sense her looking at me and she smiled at me as well because of the situation of the event i ... (152 words)

We seem perfect for eachother and I seems to like me, but he's married. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5851 days ago

12 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've worked with him for over 2 and half years and we've always got on well. I was instantly attracted to him because of his kind, mature nature. We talk alot and laugh together. He's been married for a year now and he tells me his problems with his wife who is so demanding ... (189 words)

5 questions for the guys!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5944 days ago

12 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys I have got few questions for you. I want this to be answered preferably by men; 1) Why men ask or demand sex whether they are committed to you or not. 2) If a man loves a woman he wants sex and even if he is not in love he still wants sex. So, how do we girls unde... (186 words)

Isn't kissing part of it all?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5944 days ago

12 August 2008 (F)

age - Recently met a man -we shared some fun times but we didnt have sex as I didnt feel well (true) when he came to see me I kissed him goodbye on the lips but he didnt like it. However he was prepared to have sex with me-as he kept dropping hints-well do many men have sex without ... (86 words)

I want to move out!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5943 days ago

12 August 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I am 15 and i hate my family and i wish i could live some where else and just talk with them sometimes i hate it here, i love them but, i think i would be better off not living with them i fight with them, a little to much. but i don't want to hurt their feelings by saying i ... (95 words)

What should I do about this on/off relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5944 days ago

12 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend of four years just dumped me because he said he needs to "find himself". Our relationship has not been that great. He breaks up with me all the time, doesn't call me for a while and when he's ready he'll start calling and wont leave me alone ... (290 words)

I am 14, he is 18. Should I date him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5944 days ago

12 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - dear cupid well im seein this guy ive known for a long time now and he is understanding and he would never pressure me to have sex he told me he wud wait for me when im ready but thats the thing im 14 and he iz 18 and he iz realy nice but i dont think it shud matter of age if ... (118 words)

I only like him as a friend. I don't want to hurt him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5944 days ago

12 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been texting this lad for quite some time now, and i've developed trust in him, and we were getting real good mates. the other week he told me he liked me and has done for quite some time. he also liked my best mate not so long ago, they gave it a go. but it didn't l... (296 words)

I masterbate and look at porn, even gay porn!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

12 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hey ! im a 16 year old guy. i still masturbate almost everyday, and look at porn frequently. sometimes male porn, but im totaly straight! is there something wrong!... (29 words)

I have never even kissed a girl, let alone lost my virginity ~ and I am 28!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

12 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - VIRGIN AT AGE 28! I NEED ADVICE! Hi, I am a 28 year old male VIRGIN. I have never had sexual intercourse with the opposite sex; no girlfriends or sexual relationships. I dare not tell anybody of my personal situation- the humiliation and ridicule I would suffer will be ... (362 words)

What should I do or say about her brother moving in with us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5943 days ago

12 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Ive been with my girlfriend for almost a year, we are both 23. Ive never had a girlfriend like her, she is perfect. We have even talked about moving in together so early on in our relationship. Sadly, her brother died in May. She has 2 other brothers, 18 and 27, one living at ... (152 words)

Should I drop a few hints or just forget about her and move on with my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5944 days ago

12 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I need someone neutral's advice - I think I'm too close to the situation to be able to think clearly, and I don't know what the right thing to do is any more. My girlfriend and I have been living together for about 8 years, but recently we broke up after I found some overl... (714 words)

He said he does not like me "in that manner" but I can't get him out of my head. Any chances for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5944 days ago

12 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok; so i like this boy, and i have told him i liked him, now things between us have completely changed. We used to laugh and joke but now all people talk about is me liking him, they make a big deal about it and it makes me feel nervous around him. He has said he doesnt like me ... (98 words)

Why don't I make noise during sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5924 days ago

12 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend and I first had sex about a month ago. I was a virgin, and he wasnt sure if he was or not. (he woke up at a party naked next to a naked girl) But anyways, neither of us make any noise during sex, other than the heavy breathing.. And we were talking to frien... (94 words)

Where can I buy a vibrator?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

12 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and I live in the UK. I want to buy a dildo/vibrator but how can I get one and how do I keep it a secret from my parents?... (31 words)

Is it ok to offer him fellatio before sex, how will this influence actual sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

12 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it OK to give the guy a blowjob before you have sex, will he still have enough cum? Or should you just have sex with him and not make him come beforehand?... (33 words)

Could I have broken my hymen by masturbating? If so, why did I not bleed straight after?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5944 days ago

12 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm a virgin. In the past I've, erm... experimented with putting things 'up there', and the most I can fit is about 5" - but it wont go any further and I'm worried about TSS (toxic shock syndrome) or anything worse. I tried last night, and this morning I woke up to my pe... (88 words)

I want to put my literary work in the Internet, but not without the copyright! How to obtain it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5944 days ago

12 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it possible to obtain copyright for literary work you don't publish / not yet? I want to put my poems in the net but not without the copyright ,which the Internet as far as i know, doesn't provide. Any views on this or any suggestions on how best to proceed? If you ask how ... (99 words)

If my husband's ex'es are such good friends of him, why can't we all be friends instead of him sneaking?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5943 days ago

12 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I have a question about my husband. Now, he has ex girlfriends that he consistently texts when we have arguments. Now, these girls are only like 21 or 22 and I'm 28, so naturally they have rude comments and don't really get the whole story of what happened. But they are ... (219 words)

Excessive vaginal discharge, could there be something wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

12 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Quite often i have so much vaginal discharge it feels like i have wet myself. is there something wrong with me?... (22 words)

As my feelings got stronger he got more distant (he is bisexual), should I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5944 days ago

12 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I thought my best guy friend fancied me.. he went to kiss me a few times (proper kisses) in the bar and all through the summer i developed feelings for him. as my feelings got stronger he got more distant (he is bisexual) We went out last weekend and he went with a guy and a... (119 words)

Some girls at my school are hating on me... how can I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5944 days ago

12 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid... theres these girls at school that wont leave me alone... i was cool with them at the begging but some guy got in the way.. ever since theyve began hating me there whole lil click has started hating on me... i fought both of the twins that are hating on me caus... (78 words)

I don't remember if we had sex but I noticed a strange smell afterwards - is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5944 days ago

12 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi,im so confused at the moment. i went to a party a week ago, and i did stuff with a guy but dont actually know if we had sex. but i really smelt a smell ive never smelt before as im 16 and never had sex before. and the smell lasted quite a few days. so i could be pre... (181 words)

I have a great boyfriend, but I keep wanting to be with other men for sex, is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5944 days ago

12 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend on and off for 3 years. he's a great bloke who treats me like a queen, is faithful and great looking, but i keep wanting to be with other men for sex, is this normal? Does this mean i have to end it with him? Should i tell him i'm feeling like thi... (60 words)

I think we both like each other. Any tips on how to take this flirting game to the next level?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5943 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - I work at a theme park in the gift shops. I have gotten to know Anthony who is my age and is very sweet and happens to work in my department. He gets me and other workers in our department soda (there are free soda fountains throughout the park) He even knows exactly what I d... (204 words)

I still have trust issues, and there are times I just want to lash out!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5944 days ago

12 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex cheated but I have forgiven him, and he has grown up since then. We both love each other and he is convinced we are meant to be together. I still have trust issues though. How do I resolve them? I feel especially insecure when his best girl friend constantly says she love... (90 words)

We met online and she said she would meet me if I vote for her (she's a model)...

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

12 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - A couple of months ago I started chatting to a lovely girl (well, she seemed lovely!) on a general chat site, and she gave me her email address. We started chatting on Yahoo! Chat, for a while, and then she said she wanted to meet. I agreed, but then she said only if I 'vote'... (255 words)

Am I right to put my foot down about him texting these girls?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5943 days ago

12 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, needing a few opinions on my situation. I've been with my boyfriend for not far off 4 years and its been great. Yet there has always been one thing that has worried me and makes me slightly paranoid and that is his constant texting with his girl mates. Now don't get me wro... (274 words)

Will the plan b work? I'm nervous, but I wouldn't mind having a baby.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5944 days ago

12 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So I had unprotected sex on my most fertile day, and again the next two days, and then I took the morning after pill. I want to know what are the chances of me being pregnant? Will the plan b work? I'm nervous, but I wouldn't mind having a baby.... (50 words)

How do I learn to honour myself enough to make the changes that need to be made, and still remain stable for my children?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5944 days ago

12 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - How do I move on with my life when I'm not in love with my common-law husband of 15 years (don't think I ever have been). We have 3 young children together. He has been verbally and physically abusive with me over the years. Even as most recently as my last pregnancy just... (243 words)

Am I overreacting about my boyfriend's stunning best friend?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5368 days ago

12 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriends best friend is a girl, and she is utterly stunning, she is very thin and striking, wheras i am very short and curvy. I have no problem with him having a best friend who is a girl, its just I get jealous sometimes as she always sits on his lap and cuddles up to ... (159 words)

All I want to know is, do you think this boy likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5944 days ago

12 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - From now on to make it easier, #1= the person who doesn't like the guy i do. #2= the person who likes this guy alot. #3= the true friend who doesn't hate him and doesn't fancy him either. #2 won't stop going on about him. my friend text him and he still hasn't replied after... (242 words)

Is it okay to pluck your pubic hair?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5944 days ago

12 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it okay to pluck your pubic hair?? I shave down there, but it grows back quick so i pluck. I have a few cuts on my skin from doing this as they grow underneath the skin, and i have to pick them out. Every so often, there is little lumps. what is this?? Should i stop?... (58 words)

I'm 12, he's 15, and says he can't be with me because of our age difference, is he embarrassed by me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5943 days ago

12 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 12 and i like this boy. but he's 15. i love him and i've told him. n he said he felt the same way and said he loved me too. but he also said that we couldnt be together yet because of our age difference. is he embarrased by me? x... (57 words)

He's 29 year old, non committed guy, who wants to stay with mum and dad!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5944 days ago

12 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been going out with my boyfriend for 2 years and its a nightmare, we love eachother but argue alot. Since I have known him he has never tried to talk about a future with me, we have been on holiday twice together. I am 25 still live at home with mum and dad, he is 29 s... (222 words)

LOL!!... Sorry, I sound really pathetic, but seriously, I have no idea how you do it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5944 days ago

12 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've been with this lad quite a while now and were really comfortable with each other. Recently we've been doing alot more things, like hand jobs and stuff. He asked me if i'd want to suck him off and i said yeah, but not today. I know what it means i'm just not sure ho... (94 words)

Was his decision not to pursue a relationship because our circumstances? Or does he simply just not like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5944 days ago

12 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I broke up with my ex after 11 years. We had lived together for that time and owned a house together, it was a very serious relationship. Four months later I bumped into an “old flame”. We’d never really “got it together” but over the course of 18 years we had regularl... (643 words)

This younger girl has a bad reputation. Should I keep seeing her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5944 days ago

12 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am using my sisters account on here, she said its fine. I am a 34 year old man. I always go for older women and have been seeing older women for a few months and just having fun, but one got a bit serious and started being a bunny boiler. I have just started seeing a 24 year ... (349 words)

Twice we arranged to meet and twice he never showed up. Is he playing with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5926 days ago

12 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Right i am a bit confused right now and would really apprechiate some advice, i don't wanna go on but i need to put it in detail for you to understand. I met this guy online about 4 weeks ago, i really liked the sound of him, so messaged him and he messaged back. we were soon... (700 words)

Are good relationships hard work?

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12 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I think I have too little experience to honestly answer this for myself, I'll explain a little why I'm asking. My bf of 4 years has developed an infatuation with another girl. He told her he loved her, but I'm not sure if he even knows if his feelings are genuine or not. They... (293 words)

The first time he penetrated me I never bled, so now I'm scared he's going to think I was faking my virginity.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5943 days ago

12 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there! I've been with this guy for about a year and everything seems right. I was with him a couple of weeks back and we were discovering each other. He didnt go inside me, but by the time we finished, i was on my way home i was bleeding. I thought it is was my period b... (178 words)

Should I break up with him even though he still wants to be with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5944 days ago

12 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I still have feelings for my ex boyfriend who I was with for 6 1/2 years and we just broke up 2 months ago. I told me current boyfriend this and he still wants to be with me?!?!But I don't feel right staying with him when I have feelings for someone else also! Should ... (74 words)

For some reason I just want a little more than his distant personality.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5944 days ago

12 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for quite sometime now. The relationship is going great, but I think he may be depressed. He is very withdrawn, wants to be alone all the time and hardly talks to anyone. How can I help him? I feel like his depression is starting to take... (78 words)

I think handwritten notes are a lost art, I'd love to get one in the mail, instead of a text msg or email, but don't know if this is the right thing to do. How else can I break the ice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5944 days ago

12 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - How do I break the ice? To make the summary short: b/f had a rough patch three months ago, I over-reacted to my needs instead of thinking about his, he was very hurt and broke up with me but in the end he was more hurtful to me than I to him. I am over it and I realized... (255 words)

I got back with him thinking he'd changed, but he hasn't at all! What should I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5944 days ago

12 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a boyfriend that i got back together with. i didnt know why i did, cause he really hurt me, but i still had feelings for him, but during the time we were not together i started liking my best guy friend. He is always there for me anyway, so im really confused on what... (193 words)

I am having trouble getting over her past. Help!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5940 days ago

12 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend has a sexual past, as do I. But for some reason hers bothers and haunts me. She's lived a much different life than me. She just got divorced about 2 years ago, and has been with 5 guys since. My mind can't stop picturing her past, It drives me nuts! Everything ... (141 words)

I am depressed and don't know how to get out of it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5944 days ago

12 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - A few months ago i had an early miscarriage and although i was quite upset, i never really grieved about it and i just carried on with my life. Recently i fell in love with a boy four years older than me and although things were going well i haven't heard from him or been able ... (229 words)

I accused my boyfriend of cheating, but I was wrong. How do I get him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

12 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i recently accused my boyfriend of cheating on me when i later found out he wasnt now he isnt talkin to me i cant live without him how do i get him back? please help... (35 words)

We both like each other, but she is stressed and busy. What shall I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5944 days ago

12 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm currently extremely confused at this situation: Me and this girl i really like went on a date to the movies and it went extremely well. We were totally comfortable around eachother and she kept messing with her hair and mine, kept touching my hands, lying on me with her h... (274 words)

He caters to his immature adult children to the detriment of our relationship. How should I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5944 days ago

12 August 2008 (F)

age - i need to get your opinion on how to sucessfully date an older man that is dysfunctional and his two children (married) are very dysfunctional. i have been dating him for almost four years and he still will not take up for me with his kids. they had told him that they do ... (600 words)

I am irritated with my girlfriend because of her flaws, what should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

12 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a big problem. My girlfriend is lovely and everything but there are some things I don't like about her. I know this myght sound like bitching but most of the time she doesn't keep up her promise: she tries hard and everything but she simply can't. A long time ago sh... (446 words)

How do I get over my crush on a teacher?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5944 days ago

12 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently, I have transfered to another school due to financial reasons. At first, I was not too hyped about the idea, because I was going into my last year and didn't want to leave my old friends. A few months flew by, and I was into it. However, a few friends of mine ... (557 words)

How can I deal with my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5944 days ago

12 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, i was in a 7 year relationship with someone i really really loved. I did everything i could for him, while he attended school and just when ever he didn't have anything. He would never do anything with me at all. He always acted liked he was ashamed of me. We now have a 3... (365 words)

Was this ejaculation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5944 days ago

12 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This was about a week ago. I was in the bathroom, sitting on the toilet, masturbating. It felt incredible, because I relaxed during the time. And whenever I masturbate, it's very hard for me to relax. I have orgasmed before, but I have never ejaculated. I think I orgasme... (101 words)

I really want to be a songwriter, how do I get started?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5944 days ago

12 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, i know this isn't a relationship question but i'm hoping that you will answer it anyway.I really want to be a song writer and i know that all song writers don't make it but i am determaned to at least try.Iv'e heard that most song writers accompany the lyrics with either ... (89 words)

He is very secretive, does not talk about his past and says he does not love me, but is fond of me. What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5944 days ago

12 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - ive been seeing a man for nearly 2 years at the start he said he didnt want anything serious but things had got better over time we have never argued i enjoy being with him we dont live together i see him everyday we walk our dogs together and meet up properly twice a week i ... (171 words)

How do I handle this mean girl at school?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5944 days ago

12 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help me...there is this girl in my friendship groupe and she realy hates me. TO my face she is lovely but I know behind my back she is constantly bitching. Sometimes she will drop random snide comments in front of everyone which embarres me. Now im not one to let people ... (471 words)

How do you keep your man sexually interested so he does not wander "too much"?

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12 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to know how do you keep your man sexually interested in you in the bedroom so he doesn't wander too much... (24 words)

I'm too embarassed to take my top off in front of a girl...

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12 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - im to embaressd to take my top off in front of a girl and im not sure what to do with it ? i have been working out latley and i was previously a boxer so i do still do skipping and spend time weight lifting and on my punchbag, but it dont seem to make a diffrence apart from ... (86 words)

I think I'm ready for sex but part of me is thinking I'm too young... am I?

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12 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 12 years old and have been thinking about sex for a couple of weeks and i really want to try it and no i'm not a slut/slag or whatever you want to call it so my boyfriend who is 3 years older(been with him for a year and totally in love with him), said we could for my 13t... (97 words)

Are there exercises or food to improve the hardness of my bits?

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12 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi well i have a problem so here goes: I have a over average sizd penis at around 8inches but i read that this makes it harder to get up... and well it does, i do allright but it could be better on few occasions when its been rock hard its reached near 9 inches (an estim... (88 words)

Out of a relationship into another, right or wrong ?

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12 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - isit ok to go straight out of a serious relationship into another, personally i feel that theres nothing wrong with it but you must make sure your ready to be into another serious relationship, but id like your opinion please give me your awnsers... (44 words)

I hate how my friends act towards me just because I have a boyfriend..

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12 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so i have a boyfriend. my best friends aren't in relationships so i'm the only one that is. but anyways when i'm with them they say stuff like "you would pick him over us anyday" and "karmas gonna come back to you when you need us" and i tell them that that's not true. but ... (138 words)

What Should I Do I Cant Get Over Him :(

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12 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well there was this guy we were the best of friends and we always liked each other and never wanted to say. 8 months later we started to be boyfriend and girlfriend. It was amazing. I was soo happy and like I really love him. He ignored me for awhile then we hung out like ... (207 words)

How can I tell if a guy really loves me?

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12 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - How can I tell if a guy really loves me and when Imeet the right person. It Ssounds silly, but I figure if it was that simple we'd all be in beautiful, loving relationships right or at least with the right one. Any suggetions?... (47 words)

Acne- Anyone know any products that REALLY DO WORK?

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12 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi :) so i've always had problems with acne. i have it on my face and shoulders/back. and my doctors have perscribed me lots of medicines for it. lotion and pills. and it seems as none of them really work. so does anyone know any products that REALLY DO WORK tha... (102 words)

He never felt jealous for any woman before. So, why does he feel like that when it comes to me?

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12 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I know a guy since a year and half. He is very flirtatious and has his own way with women. When we first met, he persued me but I was upfront and told him that I am not interested in such meaningless flings. He did respect my desicion and we settled as good friends. But ... (160 words)

I have a huge crush on a girl at my school. How can I get her to like me?

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12 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a huge crush on a girl that goes to my school. I want to ask her out so bad but I don't want to make myself look like a jackass in front of her (which I have done in front of other girls I liked). What do I do?... (52 words)

I'm in love with my former maths teacher. Could he be interested?

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12 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently graduated and am of legal age and I think I've fallen head over heels for my former math teacher. He's nine years older than me and is by far the most attractive man I've met in my life. It's not just his looks, but everything about him, in my mind, is perfect. We ... (173 words)

My wife was diagnosed with cervicitis -any sex advice?

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12 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife was diagnosed with cervicitis and advised not to have intercourse. I was just wondering if that includes oral sex as well and if the cervicitis will worsen if she has an orgasm.... (35 words)

I can't make sense of why a man could be so loving but not want to take the relationship any further. Help!

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12 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Feeling confused after having sex with a colleague who I have been friends with for nearly 3 years. We never got together before, since both in long-term relationships but have always got on really well and there was chemistry. In brief, had wonderful afternoon of fantasti... (214 words)

Should I give things up just for him? I will feel compromised either way?

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12 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 36 and met a guy a couple of years ago who is 4 years younger than me. I have been married before and it was the kind of marriage whereby I gave my all and my husband wanted no responsibility - consequently I put a lot of my own life 'on hold' to support his goals. When ... (454 words)

I've met this amazing guy but he is not a great looker-what do I do?

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12 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so my question is this... I am 19, and two weeks ago I have met this guy... He is so amazing. In his personality... I cannot even describe all of his wonderful characteristics...He truly is amazing. Truly. He is talented in music, has nice future goals planned out for ... (227 words)

I seem to be on "hold" with the women I want to date, any advice?

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12 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - So i have a little bit of a problem that maybe you guys can help me with. I think i am falling in love with my best friend. I really do not know what to do at this point. So let me give you some background information. We have known each other for about 4 years. We live o... (424 words)

He doesn't want to date but is still flirty with me, what does it mean?

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12 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - umm i need help well this guy i know i liked him a while back and i stopped liking him but then my brother told me he liked me and so i liked him again so i confronted him about it but he said he liked me but not enough to date me. but he is still flirty and last night he asked ... (117 words)

How do you know how long you'll last in bed?

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12 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - well im 14 and i still havent went through full puberty. ( i got pubes and the parts are beggining to grow) so how can i know i can last in sexual intercourse? i mean i want to know because i dont want to last 5 minutes with my 1st time. sincerly me. please reply... (55 words)

Is it ok to cheat and 'have fun' while you are young?

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12 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - im a 15 yr old young man, and lots of my friends say its fine to cheat on girls at my age and just be with girls to "have fun", personally i disagree with this because i disagree with cheating and i dont think its right to cheat at any age especially young because if you cheat ... (120 words)

I've fallen for a girl, but she continues to stay with her controlling boyfriend. What to do?

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12 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I need some advice I've fallen for a girl who I work with. For the past couple weeks we've been going out and having a good time but she already has a boyfriend. They keep arguing especially when he's had a drink and when he's had a drink he treats her like crap and controls ... (85 words)

It hurts me when I see my ex talking to other guys, how do I get over this jealousy?

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12 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have just sort of ended a relationship with my girlfriend of 3 years and I am only 18! Yeah I know pretty young right...but how can you put an age or love. Well any way we took a break sort of, and right now it makes so mad when she talks to other dudes around and all and it ... (103 words)

Will I look 'too keen' if I call him?

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12 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a crush on this guy and he sms'd me asking me how i was and what i've been doing, he then asked me to call him one day when i go out so that we could catch up. The thing is, my guy friend says that i shouldnt call up my crush but wait until he calls me even though i told ... (96 words)

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12 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My fantasy has always been to have a threesome with two guys. The thought of pleasuring 2 penises always turned me on. Well, my bf and I finally followed through with it with mutual friend. Unfortunately, I didn't enjoy it like I thought I would. Without an emotional ... (222 words)

I really like girls who have hairy arms and it is really difficult to meet women who I can talk to about it.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

12 August 2008 (M)

age - I was answering a question about girls feeling bad abour having hairy arms, I rememebered that I loved having girlfriends with Hairy arms and it seem that these are the only women I can be aroused by. I know it must sound so strange that something that is a soiurce of pain for ... (211 words)

Am I getting too intimate with my cousin?

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12 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My cousin is 15 years old and I am 16 and she moved right by me about 2 years ago. Ever since I always have an urge to have sex with her are just even fool around. I know its weird, and I am not a mentaly challenged person . We always flirt around, she will grab me all over ... (126 words)

All the ups and downs of a good relationship, but no marriage proposal yet -I'm depressed!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5943 days ago

12 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - so i feel like a little lost puppy. i have been with my man for a little over a year now and i travelled to another country to be with him. the relationship is good. we have our ups and downs. our arguments here and there but for the most part we love each other very much. i ... (509 words)

We are getting married soon, I am happy but anxious about the wedding etiquette, as I don't know much about it, how do I enjoy my wedding with the qualms I am feeling, I don' t like crowds; or speaking in front of more than six people. please help me

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12 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm really looking forward to marrying my fiance and feel sure we'll build a good life together and make each other happy. My problem is that when we were first planning the wedding it was a long way off, but now that it's drawing near I'm feeling nervous about the actual d... (308 words)

I have accepted the fact that I am gay, recently, all I think about is sex, but how do I approach a guy, without being awkward, please help me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5937 days ago

12 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - im 15 and im gay. It took me a while to accept it but i finally have. Latley all ive been thinking about is having sex. I really want to be with someone but i dont know what to say to a guy without feeling awkard. please help me!... (49 words)

My first boyfriend and I had a strong emotional connectiont, we parted company. he lives abroad, I have not seen to him in two years, I am now married and love my husband, but I still think about my ex-boyfriend, how do I stop the feeling?

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12 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Well... let me make long story short. I met this man in 2006 when he visited my country. It was kind of love at the first sight. I had an emotional feeling for him right after i saw him and i supposed he had the same. A week later, he returned back to his country, but we kept ... (336 words)

I am 14 years old and I really want to have a baby, I think I would make a great mom, I take care of my brother and sister all the time, please tell me what you honestly think??

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12 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - iam 14.and i'll be 15 in about 6 months.i want a baby so bad.my om never around so i take care of my brother and sister all the time.grew up rough no dad you know...i would be a amazing momma.people are costanly telling me im already mommy and i love it.give me ur honest ... (61 words)

My boyfriend has serious depression problems, he is moody, angry, and I am having a hard time dealing with it, he wants to marry me, but I don't know, any suggestions that could help him?

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12 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my boyfreind for a few years, not that age matters but I'm 41 and he's 52. He has been diagnosed with depresson a couple of years ago, anyway, I'm having a REAL HARD time dealing with it! I love him very much and he wants to marry me and visa versa, but I just ... (135 words)

We had anal sex, and I hurt her, now she is too afraid to try it again, how do I regain her trust and assure her that I will not hurt her again, if we have anal sex??

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5924 days ago

12 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - How do i earn my fiances trust to do anal again? My fiance always loved it when i toyed with her from behind, and when we finnially did anal it went well and she loved it but i accidentally went to deep and hurt her. I felt absolutely terrible that i did and she wasnt the ... (83 words)

We will never be together, but I truly love him, but want to get over him, what can I do to accomplish this hard task?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5913 days ago

12 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid im wondering which is the best way 2 get over some1 you have loved for years? i just cant seem 2 get him out of my head and theres no way we can be 2gether thankyou!... (46 words)

My sister probably seduced my fiancee, which may have caused him to have a breakdown, he is being treated, he also has an aclohol problem, I love him, I think he loves me, he wants to work this out, should I try to mend the relationship or what?

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12 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiance just told me he cheated on me with my older sister. I have been betryed by 2 people I loved and trusted. She wont admit it but he told me the truth. He had a brakdown after that and is in couseling at a hospital right now. He also has a bit of an alcohol dependen... (211 words)

After an almost two year relatiuonship, my boyfriend and I broke up, he had commitment problems, and his job required a lot, I am devastated, how do I move on with my life?

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12 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend broke up with me out of blue 4 weeks ago after a 1 year 9 months relationship. He moved away half a year ago (4 hours drive away) but come to see me every week (his job allows him to fly in or drive over). everything was going great until his recent work crisis and ... (314 words)

Are there any other couples still using condoms after getting married?

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12 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I are married less than a year and we're still using condoms just to play safe. We've tried without once or twice but are too scared. Just want to know if there are any couples who are still using condoms after getting married. Or should I try pills? ... (56 words)

I hate it. I want to be able to be stable without friends in my life! I need help soon!

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12 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel like I am addicted to my friends. I feel lonely without them but at the same time I feel when I am with them I get annoyed. it's kind of like a drug, you hate the fact that you need it but then u end up taking it anyway because you can't live without it. I mean when they... (101 words)

I met this married man, who lives far away from me, we e-mail each other, and joke back and forth, he talks to me about his family, there is no romance, is this what people would call an emotional affair?

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12 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've being email keeping contact with this guy for a year and a half. we are friends, but our emails are friendly ones. He talks about his family and likes to update me of things going on with his life. We have share pics, jokes and thoughts. Something happened the oth... (266 words)

Is it possible that some of us, are not destined to have loving relationships, or to be happy with someone and not be ultimately rejected?

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12 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I came here because of an article that I saw and found it intereasting, I dont look for romance and all because I dont believe it is in the cards for me, Do you think a person can be destroyed for life, or that some of us are just not meant to have a relationship and any ... (109 words)

I was working as a nanny, but was it just bad luck to meet an odd couple like them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5943 days ago

12 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Three years ago, I had emotional affair with a married man when I worked for his family as a live-in nanny. I didn't do anything inapropriate even though I was in love with him. It was all about him. He was smitten which putting me in an extremily awkard situatiation. Non-stop ... (261 words)

I can't fulfill my girlfriends needs, and it's bringing my self confidence down. Please help!

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12 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - well im 16, i need help greatly evrytime i go to have sex with my girlfreind my errection doesnt come iv attempeted 3 times with her. the 1st time, my penis wouldnt come errect. The second i was drunk with her. it would get errect but it hurt her, so we waited till the next day... (155 words)

We need help, our relationship is getting damaged.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5939 days ago

12 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i need help, my relashionship is getting damage ,it has been 2years of engagement, and from 1st i told my fiance not to have sex till marriage, and he apreciate my idea. but now he reached his limits. And now his health geting damaged and he is asking me to do it, but i don"t ... (109 words)

I'm stuck between two brothers. Please help!

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12 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I know this may be a little messed up but I really need some advice!! I'm going crazy!!! I've been friends with this man for about 13yrs. We just recently crossed the line and did some freaky things together. WE ARE NOT OFFICIALLY together, but I feel like we are. The problem ... (173 words)

I'm only 14 and my friends's are saying it's uncool to be a virgin, so I'm hoping someone will help me please.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5932 days ago

12 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I really like this boy, his names jack, and people keep telling me to ask him out. But im really nervious and i dont know what to do. My friends keep telling me to have sex with him and go on from there, but the thing is im only 14. and im still a virgin. They say its unco... (74 words)

I have extremely bad lower back pain and stomach aches which I've had for about a week, why?

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12 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm quite confused. I'm supposed to be on my period, but the blood is like really light brown and not even blood really and there is hardly any. Should I just count this as my period? I have extremely bad lower back pain and stomach aches which I've had for about a week ... (90 words)

I'm 21 and he's 24. He doesn't let me stay out past 9pm! Talk about Curfew!!

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12 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've lived with my boyfriend for 3 years. I'm 21 and hes 24. He doesn't let me stay out past 9pm. He says it NOT a curfew but it really is. He says he'd feel better if he was there with me and my friends. That we can ALL go out together. When I get off work I go home to him, ... (305 words)

I feel I need to stay with my boyfriend out of loyalty rather than love!

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12 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend's younger brother told me that he is in love with me and i feel the same, but i dont want to betray my boyfriend by dumping him for his brother. Im 16, his brother is 16, and my boyfriend is 18.. Help! I feel i need to stay with my boyfriend out of loyalty rather ... (59 words)