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writes:Not sure if this is worth worrying about but any comments will be apreciated thanks.I lost my virginity about a week ago, it felt like nothing special, i had been with my boyfriend about 3months and it just happened spare of the moment but i do love him so im happy he was the firstwe have done it around 4/5 times now, i think its bad im not exactly surebut i haven't ever orgasmed or even come from sex it over so quicklypeople make sex out to be such a big thing and people will remember their first time forever, i barely remember it now and i just haven't been phased by any of it yeti think it will get better as he does because he was a virgin before me toobut should i think more of this?
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (7 August 2008):
It's more about the romance of first love than the actual sex, that's why people go on about it so much.
In reality, teenage sex is usually bad for girls. It does get better but it's still a lot about the foreplay and things.
I didn't have an orgasm till ages after I started having sex. It's not like in porn where women only have to look at a man and come.
Work on getting your boyfriend to last longer, get some desensitising condoms of extra thick ones so he'll feel less.
Also make sure you are really in the mood and mentally turned on before you have sex. It's easy to get physically turned on but when your brain is in the mood, then you'll start having a great time.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Dreamie Tofu  +, writes (6 August 2008):
It is ok everyones sex relationship is very different. Orgasms dont come just by sexual intercourse. Clitoris stimulation is the key. Sounds like your boyfriend just wants his pleasure and dont seem to care about yours or maybe he doesnt know whats a clitoris. But its all right talk to him tell him what you like (Rough soft slow fast guide him to touch you where you want)there are different positions where it can stimulate your clitoris while have intercourse. Try all the positions =]. dont stay quiet during sex because he wouldnt know what you want and he thinks hes doing just fine. Sex should be something fun that you do with your partner. Its okay you dont remember your first sex but lets start over and Try to make it something you both wont forget.=]
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