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writes:right, im really just lookin for abit of advice, i already know what im doing is very very wrong and i do feel guilty about it.. im a 16 year old girl living in a small village in the uk, i went to an all girls school and as i live in a small place there isnt many boys there, this means ive not rally had much to do with lads etc, but in march i went away to a caravan with my friend for 3 days, we went clubbing on the saturday night and we met some lads. she winked at me and told me 'that guys proper eyein you up' he was really really good luckin so i thought oof im in here lol. anyway, we ended up talkin and switchin phone numbers, then on the sunday we all met up, it turned out he lived pretty close to me, we got talkin on msn etc, and in april he asked me out, (carl ages 20, im going out with) but the thing is, when he introduced me to his family in may i met his brother and we began to like each other. i know im wrong to be doing this! i know i really am, thats why im asking for advice, but ive been sexually active with my boyfriend carl for 8 weeks, and for 6 of them ive also been sleeping with his 18 year old brother liam! i really dont want to hurt either of them, although liam knows im going out with carl. carl has NO IDEA about liam!! should i finish everything with both of them and start again? i just love the attention off of boys, ive never had it before, i know wherre im going wrong i just cant stop myself. what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni cant belive how stupid i was being! thanks for your advice guys, i know this was a while ago now. ive chucked both guys :) and i feel so much better! cant belive i was so selfish! im gonna remain single for a bit :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2008): Well when they find out about each other they'll be mighty angry.
At first it will be with each other... but when family wins over it will be you who pays the price because siblings can;t be replaced... you can.
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reader, Dreamie Tofu  +, writes (6 August 2008):
At the time when i was going out with my ex boyfriend..i sure liked him alot but one day i met his older brother and i thought he was the hottest and the cuttest boy i have ever seen. But to be on the safe side i never had any sexual contact with him just talked and sticked with the same boyfriend.But as soon as we broke up his older brother begin calling me knowing i liked him too.We ended up with eachother and his little brother(my ex)found out he was torn..So to make things better i broke up with the oldest brother too i didnt want anything to happen between the brothers. Four years later the little brother lost all of the feelings and the oldest brother asked me out again so everything became normal. All i got to say is if you like both of them i think its better to stop it now and when one of them stops liking you and one of them still does then go with him. =]
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (6 August 2008):
 oh my god. you cant stop yourself? honey you have got to. just stop now. i think that you have ruined your chances with either of them. if you make the choice to stay with your boyf, there will always be the fear that his bro will get pissed and say something. if you choose to go with the brother, then obviously carl will find out and probably his family. you have really cut your threads with both of these guys so i suggest you get out before this goes any deeper. you know that wat you have done is awful so stop doing it and leave these guys alone. carl's brother is worse for doing this to his own blood...is that really the kind of guy you want to be sleeping with?
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