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writes: im in love with a person and in october 8 we will be 5 years its a really long story we had the best times ever we traveled together we did everythin together but we separated for 3 months 6 months ago and when we got back together everythin changed its not like its used to be. we hardly see eachother after seeing eachother every day, he really changed but there were days where i felt like before but not much of those days. we both love eachother deeply but cant feel the way we felt before. he doesnt treat me right and sometimes we both dont talk right to eachother and hurt eachother but there are also the times that we hear the best things coming out of eachothers mouth. all my friends tell me to break up with him and move on and that he's not the right one because he doesnt appreciate me at times i think i should break up with him but after these years he still calls me at night and stay on the phone till the light comes out and still cares deeply for me and i care deeply for him. i listened to my friend and broke up with him yesterday but i really love him and i dont know what to do i feel so bad please help me please!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2008): If you love him why did you break up with him?
Maybe it's a good idea to become friends so you can become close again and then maybe continue the relationship some time in the future.
Perhaps you should leave it for a while, he's the same person and if he still calls he obviously loves you...
I think you should stay friends and if you feel the chemistry is still there, then you should try again. If you feel comfortable just being friends then I would advise you to be friends and nothing more... I hope you find the right path to follow.xx :)
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