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writes:So I have been with my boyfriend for about 6 months but have known him for about 5 years as I was in a relationship with one of his friends for four years before that, so knew them though each other, but they were never really close friends! So when I split up with my ex I happened to see his friend peter out one night, now he is absolutely gorgeous and I know from stories that he was a bit of a player and had been with a lot of girls, but ive thought he was lovely and we got on great so anyway we started talking and became great friends but we knew that we both fancied each other but dident want to do anything as I might of upset my ex! But we did and it all happened very quick, I really fell for him and he said he loved me too, and we have been so happy! But now he has gone away on holiday for 2 weeks and because of what ive heard about him being a player I wasent to sure if I could trust him but I did and was just looking forward to him coming home! But then one of his friends told me that he had said to the boys he’s just using me till something better comes along and also he told him that I had cheated on him while he was away, now I know his friend is just tryin to split us up but when I asked him about it he got really angry so I got angry and told him it was over, I was just angry and really dident mean it, ive tried to sort it out since but he wont have it I says that I cant end it, and just start over when I feel like it! And it seems I really cant sway him! So my question is….. if he really did love me then why would he just let ius end over something so silly, or is he just using this as an excuse to get out, maybe he’s has met someone else on holiday, I really don’t know what to think, because I know that the way I feel about him I would never want to be with out him but he seems only more than happy why?????
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2008): His mate was obviously trying to split you up...
He was probably jealous of what you had or he wants you for himself...
As for your ex looking happy, it's most likely an act and that he was really rather upset when you broke up.
Next time, don't take any notice of jealous mates, they just interfere and get in the way...
LOL.
I think you should talk it over with your ex, he's probably missing you as much as you're missing him...
:).xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2008): i know its hard but i think the best way to deal with this is to ignore, i mean i think he knows that u didnt mean to break up with him u were angry like he was and when people are angry they say things they dont mean, he should understand that. he should appreaciate the fact that u care and if he didnt than thats his problem and his loss!! u should go out and have fun if he didnt care than why should you?? after having fun and ignoring everything believe my he'll come back to u thats the way life works i've seen this a billion times. but if u stay there wondering and being sad ur just gona feel so bad and nothings gona happen. if u wana wait u should wait being happy not wait and be sad plus u have a life ahead of u just go with the flow i promice everything u want will happen and maybe even more ;)
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