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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My girlfriend always tells me how 'hot' other people are.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5936 days ago

18 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend is always telling about how she thinks other people are hot. ALWAYS. When we watch t.v. or a movie together she always finds someone who she thinks is hot and tells me, or when i mention someone we're friends with she tells me how hot he is. I dont know what to d... (207 words)

How can I be the one he opens up to so that we can really be a couple?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5926 days ago

18 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been talking to this guy for over a year and a half. Before we started talking...we were friends. We're not exclusive yet and I think it's because I'm not the one he feels he can open up to. He's always been this way, even to close friends and family. We're able to have ... (154 words)

He seems to value his relationship with his ex more than he values his relationship with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

18 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - this might be slightly trivial but it bugs the hell out of me and i dont know what to do about it. my boyfriend is really sweet, honestly, hes truly a nice person, wouldnt hurt a fly. anyways i met him in school last year and at the time he was dating this girl, and everyone ... (275 words)

All the guys like me. I like this one, Sam. How can I go out with him without upsetting the other guys?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5937 days ago

18 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - theres a guy at school that i really like were really close friends and always have a laugh thing is he asked me out and i was scared because there were loadsa people around so i just said no sorry. and he just said i was only kidding like i'd wanna go out with you this was ... (568 words)

I am 14, she is 12. Is it ok to date her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

18 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I am a 14 year old Male about to turn 15, the other day i met this beautifull girl, i adore her so much but the question is... as she is only 12 years of age is it wrong and would our relationship be wrong if we were to become boyfriend and girlfriend..?... (65 words)

We do mutual masterbation. How can we spice it up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

18 August 2008 (M) age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been mutually masturbating for ten years now. We love it, but we don't know how to spice it up and our parents keep barging in. How can I tell them what we're doing without grossing them out??? ... (44 words)

I like a guy online, but he says it is illegal to date me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

18 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - recently i met a guy online and developed proper big feelings for him that were like masssssive. when he came online it wwas like my heart exploded insid me and i would go all funny when he emailed me, thing is hes a lot older than me and a load more maturer than the usual g... (143 words)

I am going to go out with a boy cause I am bi curious

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

18 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have agreed to go on a date with a boy i dont even fancy, because ive started to become bi curious. I haven't had a boyfriend in about a year now, ive kissed boys while ive been out partying but nothing more in a year, and now im wondering if this is one of the reasons im bi ... (135 words)

What does the future hold for me and my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5936 days ago

18 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - What does the future hold for me and my ex? We have now been split up for 4 months! We got together in January this year and we were in love, although it was a long distance realtionship we made it work and I honestly thought he was the 1 and he said he felt the same ... (428 words)

I'm older than the girl I met, is that bad?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

18 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a 29 year old male from the UK. Two months ago, I met this lovely 21 year old young lady. I have fallen head over heels for her; we are very much in love. But, the age gap bothers me. Does it really matter that my girlfriend is many years younger than me? Does it make ... (193 words)

Does she want me or is it just because she's used to me and doesn't want anyone else to have me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

18 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi i had been with a girl for 2 years and towards the end we started to argue and il be honest i didnt treat her very well during this relationship ( i regret this very much) so we ended up breaking up. After only 3 months we started chatting again and getting on great, we ... (228 words)

Breech baby - how likely is it that he'll turn in time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5938 days ago

18 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - heya well i'm 28 weeks pregnant...had my last scan the other day and was told that my baby boy is "extended breech"...i should have asked about this at the time but i was too in awe of seeing my beautiful baby so didn't :P But will he turn? he's due in 12 weeks..how likely i... (67 words)

Why don't I get any joy out of sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

18 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I find sex boring and very rarely enjoy it atall, i never feel like i'm building up to anything and often find it more painful than enjoyable. Is something wrong with me? I feel very pressured to enjoy sex as it means so much to my boyfriend and i always tell him i enjoy it... (118 words)

Is it wrong of me to have him come back here without knowing what the future will be?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5937 days ago

18 August 2008 (F)

age - The man I have been dating for three years relocated due to his work. We discussed the job opportunity together before he accepted believing it was the best decision for him financially. We also talked about how often he would come here, which was every other weekend. With me ... (194 words)

Am I just a convenience? What should I think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

18 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My live in boyfriend told me that he thought that he could do better than me one night when he was drinking. The next day he said he didnt mean it and that he was jealous because so many people came up to me when we were out the night before to say hi. Last month he said he was ... (74 words)

Is she in denial to try to save her marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

18 August 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi. Imagine this work-place scenario. An unmarried man seduces a married woman into chasing him (they have been working in the same large office for nearly 4 years). He then responds to this indicator of interest by asking her out via e-mail. She rejects his approach and then ... (233 words)

A Threesome. Should I do it anyway and hate it or what?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5937 days ago

18 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my fiance and i have been together for over a year and a half and engaged for ten months. we also have a baby due in less then a month. he is wanting to have a threesome with an old friend of mine he considers hot. I told him no immediatly but he persists everyday and insists ... (114 words)

How do you get that spark back in a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

18 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for a few months. He recently told me that he lost that magically spark for me. He is still in love with me but, he just misses the way things used to be when we first met.Is there anyway to get that spark back? and, if so, how?... (56 words)

Is there any point being in a relationship with someone who never gets in touch with you?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5936 days ago

18 August 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Is there any point being in a relationship with someone who never gets in touch with you? A simple question, does anyone have a simple answer?... (27 words)

He booked a yacht last weekend for dinner and does all the sweetest things possible..what do I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

18 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - well my problem is a little wired...i am 19 years old and a guy is totally head over heels for me..i like him too but dont love him..he is known among the girls for being the casanova and has broken million hearts but the girls still love him..he keeps telling me that he really ... (115 words)

Is there a way to find out if you are allergic to condoms before using them for sexual intercourse?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

18 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Is there a way to find out if you are allergic to condoms before using them for sexual intercourse?... (19 words)

Is he interested, and are relationships a good thing to start at work if you keep it outside work hours?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

18 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have fallen for this guy at work, who is single. I think he like me and I thought he was quite shy, however, I have recently heard a few things about him, like he is a bit of a player, he can't be trusted etc. He has started talking to me on the odd occasion but when ever ... (95 words)

Am I going to get my period soon? I've been having these pains!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

18 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - ok this is a embaressing question ok here goes well lately i have been having sotmach neck head back pains welll is this meaning i will get my period sooon or what i am just haivng these pains i truly dont know any answer willbe cool oh yea im10 soon to be 11 ... (53 words)

I no longer see a future with him. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

18 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my fiancee for almost 3 years. He is 27 I am almost 20. I love him, but no longer see a future with him. Every little thing he does gets on my nerves now. The only thing he ever wants is sex. He grabs my boobs or my butt in public, and all he talks about in ... (206 words)

Am I going to be just a booty call if I keep hanging out with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

18 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been hanging out with this guy almost everyday for a month now and we get along great we hang out in crowds so we are alwys around our friends, he holds my hand and kisses me hi and bye and even infront on everyonee, we have fooled around a bit, but when he came down to ... (119 words)

How can I get this girls attention?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

18 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, I am in love with just this wonderful girl. I recently moved to New jersey and am going to mkhs. I'm in this class with this girl named ayla. she doesn't know i exist but i hope that she will. shes taking this class called sociology and i put that down as my class to so i ... (82 words)

I can't start school like this, I need help with friends, I feel like I'm falling into a pit!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

18 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need help!! This year I have gone through so much. I was best friends with this girl for atleast 5 years and then she suddenly dumped me. She would talk about me to here new friends, and also to mutual friends. It was an extremly hard time because I had no one that ... (518 words)

My skin is ruining my life!! Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

18 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well you may thing i'm being stuipd when i say my skin is ruining my life.Mabye you think that i'm overreacting just a little.But how would you feel if as soon as you were about 13 years old you were the only girl in class with blemishes and every year that went by they got ... (333 words)

Has anybody try this before?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

18 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Has anybody try this before will it really delayed my period because I have a trip on saturday I really want to go to!! Humphrey's Symptoms Of Delayed Menses #11, 32 Tablets by ClubNatural" I read couple of people use it and they said it really work for them!! but I jus... (70 words)

He's in a relationship but wants to have sex with me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

18 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hey everyone. One of my friends is really attracted to me. Im attracted to him too and we like to talk to each other. We have been talking for a long time and sometimes we talk about sex and turn each other on. Well as time went on, he got a girlfriend and I was kinda ... (282 words)

How can I help him get over it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

18 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiance is having trouble getting over the fact that 3 years ago when we broke up i had a one night stand, how can i help him get over it?... (31 words)

Please give me your theories on why girls fall for their teachers!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

18 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - There are many posts on here about teens in love with their teachers. Unfortunately i happen to be one of them, and it is indeed painful having such strong feelings for someone who you're never gonna be with. However, i'm not writing this to gain your empathy! I'd ... (221 words)

Why is he sending me mixed signals?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5937 days ago

18 August 2008 (?) age 26-29 - Hi please help!!! I've grown close to one of my friends and I really like him but I'm not sure he likes me in the same way. He flirts with me all the time we'r around each other but when I told him how I felt [as in when his friend told him!] he was really shoked coz he joked... (168 words)

I want to help this guy find a woman to date and be happy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5937 days ago

18 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi well here goes... i am 16 years old and a few weeks back i met a really genuine guy. hes 26 and seems like a great fun loving guy, he has a great job as a teacher down in lincolnshire, we chat all the time well when hes not out down the pub trying to find a woman, he seem... (245 words)

I really like two boys, one really likes me and the other one tells me I'm pretty and how he wants to have sex with me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

18 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hello, im a 14 year old girl and i really like this boy called andy (16) i met at a swimming pool where he works and i think he likes me but i really like this other boy called jamie (17) but all he seems to talk about is how pretty i am and how he wants to have sex with me but ... (76 words)

Is it really always so wrong to fall in love with someone who is in a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

18 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in love with a married man and he's in love with me. I told him to stay with his wife as she is devastated and wants him to stay and make things work - they have young children. Is it really always so wrong to fall in love with someone who is in a relationship? Co... (166 words)

My mum is forcing me to work in her local pub when I'm 15!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

18 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well heres a bit about myself, im 15 and live with my mum, dad and sister in a wealthy part of wales. My life has never really been bad, i havent experienced no deaths etc, but the year 2008 is the year that ive really found myself.. i got a modelling contract,started my ... (229 words)

How do we approach another girl for a threesome?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

18 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My girl recently said that she would like to have a threesome and wants to try it with another girl, she even said that she would love to watch another girl give me oral. I am happy to do this but i dont know where to start. we have looked on dating site and the like but when ... (156 words)

He wants to be alone for a bit to get over my hurting him, do you think he will?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5870 days ago

18 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - me and myboyfriend have been together a long time about 5 years on and off .... but the last few years have been great .....just recently i hurt him ...we had a argument and over what i done ...which was i said he was lieing to me about something to a friend and that friend ... (218 words)

I'm too shy to ask a doctor about this discharge!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

18 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, i have a LOT of discharge i am a virgin and so i won't have any STD's, i've been having this discharge for years now, ever since i was about 11, and i'm now 14,and it's really concerning me, what if it could last for another 2 years, please help, i daren't go to a doctor a... (75 words)

What I really need to know is how he feels, any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5937 days ago

18 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - After nearly 9 yrs alone i met a lovely guy who i dated for abt 7 weeks in total. We lived in the same village him only at weekends as his job was in sheffield. Unfortunately he had to relocate with his job. I spent several weeks wondering whether the relationship was over or ... (196 words)

We do a lot of artwork together and we really click - do I tell her how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5936 days ago

18 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - there is a girl i really like. we do a lot of artwork together and we really click. - the problem is that i do not want to ruin a good friendship by trying to kiss her or telling her that i fancy her. i think she might feel the same way but im not sure. usually i dont... (104 words)

The guy I am "kind of" dating kissed another girl at a club!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

18 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - the guy im kinda dating kissed another girl at a club right after he had called me on the phone telling me how much he wants me... he admitted it to me, and his excuse was 'well u said the other day, that u are single, u can do what u want, so that gave me the impression that ... (94 words)

My friend hinted at us being together in different circumstances, so now I felt betrayed to know he had sex with another...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

18 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey ive been talking to this guy online for nearly a year now me and him are really close we know basically everything about each other he is 23 and im 16 were really good friends, but he always tells me how much he wants to be with me and if me and him were lived closer, ... (271 words)

I seem to feel sex with a condom is better due to this problem I have... how can I avoid the pain?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

18 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I know sex is meant to be better without condom but I am finding that it hurts quite a lot, my forskin keeps getting pulled back is this meant to happen? I seem to prefer wearing a condom. I dont know wot to do its really annoying. [added] when having sex with out a condom i... (77 words)

Low self esteem, I feel like I have no focus or desire to achieve success, should I see a doc?...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

18 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a problem with very low self esteem. Life hasnt been to great lately for me. I have finished university got my degree n still I have no sense of focus or drive to achieve success in my life! do you think i shoud see a doctor i am worried i will look like an idiot. ... (62 words)

My friend expects me to forget about her and be her best friend. But I love her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5938 days ago

18 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I am in love with some one from the past 4 years... she is currently my best friend also. She also knows that i love her. She expects me to forget bout her and be her best friend. We are as of now, the best of buddies, but her thoughts keep lingering in my mind. Every night and ... (137 words)

Should I insist that my girlfriend tells me about her fling?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

18 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Last november me n my gf went out for a night out n she got drunk n then started talkin bout past bf's. And then she started saying something about this fling she had with a guy( she had already told me about this n knew it bothered me). Anyway I started asking her who it was ... (123 words)

I am scared that if I let her go to n get more "experienced" I'll never find another girl like her again...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

18 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Ive been with my gf for 1 year and 8 months now. I like being with her we both gave each other our virginity. I feel that shes a strong future for us both together, but i dnt feel the same because when we first started going out she told me about her past, she hadnt had sex but ... (194 words)

Am I over-reacting? Is there more to life than text messages?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

18 August 2008 (F)

- Whenever my bf doesnt reply to my text messages within an hour I freak out and assume that he mustnt like me anymore or wants to break up. I dont know if this feeling is rational or not. He used to text me 24/7 and he would always reply pretty fast. But now he takes a long ... (110 words)

He hasn't messaged me since we broke up via text on Friday!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

18 August 2008 (F)

- oh goodness where do i start?? well we had been seeing each other for 5 months now and exactly on the 5 month mark which was friday i felt that it needed to end. Gosh there were soo many reasons...he didnt want a relationship so then i waited for him...then he would do and ... (443 words)

Am I depressed or just stuck in a rut?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

18 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This question probably has nothing to do with relationships or dating i just needed some advice. I hate my job all i do is cry and I feel I always get critisised. The only reason im staying here is because I owe people money and that I have rent to pay as I don't live at home. ... (165 words)

I had my period a week early, and it hasn't finished properly.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

18 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey.. i had my normal period, but it was a week early, it was for like 9 days, then it stopped, however im still bleeding every now and then.. what could this be? ... (34 words)

How do I explain why I avoided him for two years?

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18 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Im loving to one boy he also loving me very much. Due to some reason i break the relationship with him for past 2 years. During that period he tried to talk with me but avoid it. I didn't speak with him even single word also. But now he started to talk with me through my ... (116 words)

I found a suspect text on his phone. Should I stay with him and trust him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5937 days ago

18 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help I have been seeing this lad for 2months and really fell for him he stays at mine all the time. We had a few arguements bout daft things but still we stayed together. he went home for two days and his dad was away and i checked his phone because i had a feelin and i ... (93 words)

Teen trouble: I love her but don't know if I can trust her...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

18 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hello. my girlfriend broke up with me and a month latter we started talking. i told her i still had feelings for her. she did too or so she said. so a week latter we went to the mall and i felt like crap because she was dating some other guy and telling me she loved me. i love... (108 words)

My mum's GF is moving away, I am utterly upset at the thought of losing my girl if she follows her mum...

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18 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My GF's mum is moving away to whales, I'm not sure when but she is deffinetly going, my GF doesnt want to leave me here but doesnt want to leave her mum. dont want her to go, it will break my heart not seing her because I see her now quite often. I always pick the one which I ... (171 words)

I have a boyfriend but I still have feelings for my ex with whom I am friends, should I go back to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5938 days ago

18 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hello. i have a boyfriend that i'm very close with. we get into a lot of fights though. well anyways i've been hanging out with one of my exes. well twice only. just as friends. and i haven't told my bf cuz he would hate me. but anyways i just wanted to hang out with my ex as ... (187 words)

My GF has bad news that cannot be discussed over the phone, I'm left wondering what it could be until I can see her again in a few days...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3809 days ago

18 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I have been in a great relationship with my girlfriend for almost a year now. We are both 20 years old. Recently, I had to come back to my hometown for 3 months and I have been away from her. We have been writing to each other, chatting, and calling each oth... (276 words)

I love my best friend but she thinks I cannot be happy with her because of her disability. How can I convince her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5939 days ago

18 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - my best friend cant walk and so she is in a wheelchair.i still really love her and have also told her but she told me that she would just be a burden to me and so she doesn't want to get into a relationship with me.however she has told me that she loves me but because of her ... (78 words)

I can't read the body language in my girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

18 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - how can i know whether my girl friend is thinking sexual thoughts? I can read the body language in other girls, but my girl friend fluctuates. Thanks... (32 words)

We flirted a lot at camp. How do I approach him now that we are back home again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

18 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So I met this boy at camp and we flirted a lot. He would sit on my lap and we would hold hands and he would put his arm around me etc.. Now camp is over, he lives ten minutes away from me and I want to ask him to hang out but I dont know what to say.... (61 words)

Have a new gf but did I get over my ex too quickly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

18 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I recently broke up with my gf of 5 yrs and i went back to scholl this week and i already got a new gf. did i get over her too fast? my best friend says i did so i figured id ask some1 else thanks for the responses and its gonna be a week or two til i can get back to u since im ... (68 words)

Am I wrong for interfering with my bothers treatment of his son (my nephew)?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

18 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a question relating to family matters. I always get such good advise from everyone here so I trust that I will be led in the right direction on this question. My brother. He is 2 years younger than I. He has 4 kids. 3 girls and one boy and his son just came to liv... (334 words)

What does he really mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5939 days ago

18 August 2008 (F)

age - I have had this male friend for life. Today I told him about my vacation with a male of mine. He seemed to be angry with me. When he sopped hissing he told me that everything I am is because of you. I was stumped. what could he mean by this? We are supposed to be best friends. ... (68 words)

I love her but she doesn't want a relationship! Advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5926 days ago

18 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and this girl feel deeply in love about a year ago. we spent every waking moment together and she told me i was the one and that she had never found a guy like me. She was haveing problems with school and and her family and i was always their for her. I did everything for ... (347 words)

Am I ruining our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5938 days ago

18 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, Sorry ahead of time for the lengthy post, but I feel like I'm in a real predicament here. I've been in a college program for the past couple months and have gotten to know one girl in particular pretty well. Let me preface this by saying I'm a very reserved and s... (699 words)

Can you see my insecurities just reading this blog? What am I missing.?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5938 days ago

18 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I was in a four year relationship with a women. I wasn't ready to be in a relationship but it just happened. In fact I had a big family problem at the time we met and I used her for emotional stability, just as she did me when I found out that she was really unstable with her ... (300 words)

Will some one help me stay a happy 13 year old?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5936 days ago

18 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I feel bad for my self, I feel like i've had a horriable life....Will some one help me stay a happy 13 year old? When i was 3 i had holes in my heart so i needed open heart surgery, twice. At age 4 my dad ran me over with the expodetion, he did not mean to bcuz he didnt se... (275 words)

How can we find a happy medium in our sex life?

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18 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently went back with my bf of 3 years after close to 6 months of being broken up. He is a very passionate guy, he is easily turned on by me....and I am more of a romantic girl, I usually lean more towards making love the old fashion way. We complement each other, and I ... (84 words)

The sex with my new girlfriend is not as good as the sex I had with my ex... What do I do?

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18 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - im very happy with this new girl im with. i trust her. we communicate very well and we arent bored with each other. but the only problem is the sex. im happy with the oral but the few times we had sex. its not as good as my other sex life i had. in the end im happy emotionaly. ... (94 words)

My gut tells me something is up, but I'm don't want to make a fool of myself.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5939 days ago

18 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm confused my boyfriend was living with me we had just gotten back together and this past week he went to stay at his sisters while she was away and watch his nephew. Well since he's left he's hardly called only late at night and is kind of iffy if I want to make plans.and ... (116 words)

I feel like I'm not good enough for my girlfriend. How can I be a great boyfriend?

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18 August 2008 (M) age 30-35 - Hey I've been going out with my girl for 3 months,we have a wonderful relationship but like all we have our ups and downs.. At some points I feel as if im not good enough for her She is basically anything a guy can ask for she's nice,smart,beaut... (99 words)

How can I find a decent guy? Is something wrong with me? Should I shelter myself to avoid being hurt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

18 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - is there something wrong with me? i just can't find a decent guy? they all turn out to be such jerks but it starts out so great ... they tell you how much they care and like you and everything else and then they just break your heart everytime ... i have never had a decent b... (248 words)

I made out with my best friend's boyfriend - help!

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18 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i really like my best friends sheas boyfriend alec. but sheas brother brent really likes me .brent is really jelouse that i like alec.but i feel guilty because i made out with alec when shea was gone . and i dont know what to do. should i tell shea and ruin her and alecs r... (62 words)

I'd really like to give my partner a G-spot orgasm, can you give me tips?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5911 days ago

18 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - i try to keep things interesting with my partner sexually. We have a great time, and are really into things. Some of the ideas we've explored were blended orgasms, "jewel honoring", tantra, and other esoteric ideas... But I was wondering about something more basic. I wanted... (159 words)

Is it safer to use two condoms?

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18 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - ok this may sound dumb..but would it be better to use 2 condoms? or does that make the chance higher that the condoms will break... (25 words)

How do I let go of this anger? And how do I let him know how I feel?

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18 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - last month i posted a question on here about the guy i was seeing / sleeping with and how i didn't know if we were i a relationship or not [ the question is here: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/are-we-in-a-relationship-just-without-the.html ]. the ultimate outcome of it was ... (200 words)

I just found out she's been waxing down below--with her ex's help!!!!

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18 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - my girlfriend is best friends with her last ex, and im ok with that i can trust her, but the more i get to know her the more i realize that they talk everyday and hang out alot and she talks about him alot too, granted she does talk about him like a friend. But then i JUS... (102 words)

Is there a way to help my friend get through his break up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

18 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - My guy friend wants to break up with his curret girlf but he doent know how to do it without hurting her feelings. Im not asking how HE should do it, im asking how can you help me help him get through this. I cant hug him and say eveythings gunna be okay because i met him on ... (103 words)

Why is he asking for an infant?

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18 August 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Im not sure if you can answer this or not: For those that remember 'His mom caught us havig sex'... ect. Anyway, Vincent and I are moving and he still wants a baby, why is he asking for an infant? Yes i did ask him why he said he just wants the responsablity of being a dad, i ... (127 words)

Is my online girlfriend fooling me around or is she really just like that?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5928 days ago

18 August 2008 (?) age 36-40 - Hello Everyone, I recently have been sort of this online relationship with a girl in Germany. I am 19 years old in Australia. She is 25. She has always told me she wants to come to Australia and live there with me. Anyhow recently or some sort, say 2-3 weeks? or 2 I thin... (766 words)

How can I bring up this issue with him without sounding like I'm nagging?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5939 days ago

18 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been trying hard to be better at conflict resolution and need some advice on how to approach this situation... I've been dating this guy for two months now and I essentially don't want to be dating him b/c I dont FEEL like he cares that much about me. For example, he ... (231 words)

What is going on? Did he have a change of heart?

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18 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi! oaky there is this man that has been in my life for 13 years, about 6 years ago he tells me that he wants to settle down with me and I run. Well we got in touch with each in the last year and there were some changes in his life (he was engaged, but found that she wasn't t... (164 words)

He's always complimenting me and flirting, but when I asked him out he said no. What should I do?

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18 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - About 2 years ago i meet this lad. We both liked eachother and were going out with eachother on and off for about a year. I feel in love with him. We still speak almost every night and often meet up that leads to things. He is always complimenting me and flirting, but when i as... (95 words)

I'm worried that my boyfriend will find another girl when he goes to uni. How can I get over this jealousy?

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18 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend goes off to university in september but im 2 years younger than him so im still at high school. Im the jealous type although i try not to be and im getting paranoid that he will go off to uni find another girl spend all his time with her and fall in love with her. ... (97 words)

What do I do about this crush? I'm all out of ideas.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

18 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a bit of an issue. This might be a bit long. I apologize beforehand. I’m 13 years old and I like this boy from my form room at school. We sit next to each other. We have a lot of laughs, and we get along well - as mates. His friends seem to approve of me and I approve... (1068 words)

I have no plans to celebrate my birthday. How can I make my friends and family understand?

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18 August 2008 (F) age 36-40 - I have a bit of a strange problem. My birthday is coming up and long story short, I have no intention of celebrating it. To me, I don't see any worth in celebrating another year of me doing absolutely nothing worthwhile, and I don't see the fuss. The long story, and the p... (583 words)

My boyfriend hit me, but now threatens to kill himself if I leave him. Help!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5926 days ago

18 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and I get on good normally bt when we argue.. WE ARGUE.. we shout scream evrything but today he punched me.. I was in complete hysterics and tried to leave but he locked me in and I eventually managed to leave when his mate came in. He phoned me saying he was going to ... (132 words)

My boyfriend doesn't do anything, and I'm the one providing for him - do I drop him or ride it out?

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18 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - ok this might be a hard one for anyone to answer.i went out with someone from h a (hells angels) and i was due my tattoo.in the mean time i met some1 else and took my time to dump my h a partner cuz the fort is only down the road where i live. my new partner is married ... (347 words)