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female
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anonymous
writes:Dear aunts, im 16, 17 in 19 days, legal age and i do feel ready, but my boyfriend and I have decided to wait till his 18th till we try anything, we're both virgins too. But my problem is, since we both havnt done anything before ive been exploring my self of late, to try learn what i like so ill be able to show him, but i have a problem, when i reach a peek, i pee. literally a gush of pee squirts or runs out wetting everything and leaving me feeling quite sticky, its very strong smelling too, of both pee and female fluid, im highly embarrased of this and its putting me of the thought of sex with my boyfriend, i dont know if theres somthing wrong with me or if my boyfriend will be as grossed out as i am, do i need to see a docter? please help.
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reader, CorpusDei  +, writes (7 August 2008):
 First of all, you are who you are. There's no changing that. What you're discovering with your body is a part of who you are, and who you will always be as a sexual person. A smaller percentage of women do "squirt", or have what is more technically known as "female ejaculation". It's not abnormal, it's not indicative of any problem, and it's not anything to be embarrassed about, no more than a guy would be embarrassed about his ejaculation.
With that in mind, since you're both virgins, if you would do a couple of things as a personal favor to me, I would be forever appreciative. First, if you're not on the pill - get on it. Visit your doctor, or the UK equivalent of a community clinic or Planned Parenthood. Stay on the pill for at least a month before you have sex. Second, have condoms and make him wear one, even though you're on the pill. (Not only is it good practice in general, it'll help him last a little longer). Last, talk to him before hand. Let him know that this doesn't always happen when you masturbate, but if it does, that it means that he's given you a really, really good orgasm. That'll make sure that if it does happen, he's going to feel so proud of himself that he won't even worry about anything else.
So go forth, get on the pill, lay down a couple of towels and enjoy thyself. Your body is the only one you'll ever have, and it's the greatest instrument you'll ever own. Enjoy!
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reader, misfitschik66  +, writes (7 August 2008):
 This is normal for most woman to have this happen when they orgasm some woman just have a "feeling" and some woman "squirt" and it seems like to me that you "squirt" and most woman would adore the gift you have.Take advantage of it let him know about it before you have sex if you "love" each other then he will except your gift and enjoy it also seeing you are feeling good when it happends.And if he thinks it is gross, then maybe you should think to yourself, "is this the guy for me"? because i know there are millions of guys out there that what a woman that can do that and fancy that kind of orgasm from a woman and would love you for that and for who you are.
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