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Archived questions from: August, 2008 (see latest questions)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I always end up unsatisfied after sex because I last too long. What can I do to change this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5955 days ago

31 August 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Doese anyone know a way to make your self more sensitive or easyier to come quicker during sex, basically i have too much stamina , where as most guys would probably think its a great thing, its becomeing a real pain in the ass during sex, i could probably go for hours if it ... (167 words)

Why can't I find anyone?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

31 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure what to do, I just can't find anyone! Its been about 3 years since I've had a relationship, in the time between I've filled that void of my life with work and study. Now I just feel empty and lonesome, its not even so much a sexual thing as it is a total lack of ... (150 words)

I'm so sick of being single! What can I do to change this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5954 days ago

31 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Haven't had a girlfriend since March, been looking since with no luck. Also, i'm not used to this, before then i was basically never single for 2 or 3 years. It's been so long now and i don't really have any confidence anymore, i haven't got any single friends that are girls ... (117 words)

My boyfriend's parents don't want us to date!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5955 days ago

31 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend recently got back together for the 4th time but problem his family doesn't want us to date. they say i treat him like crap and im not mature. i really want to be with me him cause i know for a fact i love him but he texted me saying his family doesn't want ... (120 words)

Is he interested or just playing a game?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5953 days ago

31 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I started talking to a guy on msn through some friends we have in common. We got on well and have been out to the cinema and to lunch together. Since then(about 2 weeks ago) we have spoke on msn or text mostly everyday. He texts me to ask how my day has been or starts talking ... (122 words)

How did he "prove" we had sex when we actually didn't?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5954 days ago

31 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This is going to sound like an odd question but here goes. My boyfriend's best mate didn't want me to be with his friend, so to split us up he told my boyfriend that i had had sex with him. I obviously denied it because it didn't happen and he said he obviously believ... (284 words)

My sister made a comment about guys in college and that has made me re-evaluate my love life!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5955 days ago

31 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - In a conversation with my mother, My sister laughed when Mom made a comment that maybe someone at her school would ask her out if she takes a break from her current boyfriend. In response, my Sister explained that nobody askes anyone out on dates anymore. and quot;They get ... (160 words)

My boyfriend told me to stop talking to this other guy but I don't know how to tell him that!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5955 days ago

31 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i don't know what 2do.. i gt bk wiv my ex nearly 2years ago n we've been goin out eva since n its bin great..except b4 i gt wiv him there was this guy i gt wiv at my uni..we neva went out but things jus happend- we didnt get round 2 havin sex but came close to...wel he has basi... (360 words)

I pushed him too far and he's heartbroken. How can I fix this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5955 days ago

31 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for ten months. It was perfect, but not for long. We fought. It was generally his fault, him saying the wrong things, and I would get so hurt that I would break up with him, promising myself that I would leave him behind and find someone... (302 words)

I'm 5 weeks late, could I be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5955 days ago

31 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im 13 i am 5 weeks late on my periods .. i have done stuff in the past and have been on my periods since then but a just cant sp beeing worrried and can u get pregnant if the boyfirends like has sperm on his hand and then poked you and you didnt no because my friend i... (76 words)

What should I do? Wait till I'm 18 to move in with him or wait till graduation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5954 days ago

31 August 2008 (F)

- hey i dont really know how to put this.. but i am 17 years old, my bday is in november bout 2 months away and i just recently moved 1200 miles about a month ago. i left behind the only person who ever makes me happy and the only one i love most. his name is chris and he is pr... (229 words)

Has this connection gone?? Is it salvagable???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5954 days ago

31 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey there. It has been a very long time since i have liked a girl but a couple of weeks ago i met a girl through a friend and i just had the general feeling we had a connection. We have sent loads of messages to each other since and have seemed to be getting on well. But tod... (163 words)

I can't control when I cry and have tried everything...can anybody help??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

31 August 2008 (?) age 36-40 - Ok, I have a very hard situation to solve. I can't control when I cry. I remember that even as a kid, I cried a lot. My mom used to tell me to be stronger and not cry about everything. Sometimes I'd cry when it wasn't even something hurtful. I remember when I was 12, my head ... (558 words)

My boyfriend has profiles on on-line dating sites. I don't know what to believe.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5059 days ago

31 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - We've been together for 3 months and a half. We met online and I found some time ago the profiles he had before we met, and asked him to please take them off, since anyway he was not logging in them (I saw his last log ins and he had stopped) and he did for a while, but it all ... (360 words)

My father is molesting me and my mother has cancer. What can I do?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

31 August 2008 (F)

age - It was a few days ago when my mom took me my dads house for the first time after they were divorced. She had to work late that night so i had to stay there until the next day and my dad came in to my room n started talking because he wanted to catch up n all he kept commenting ... (303 words)

She wants to marry me eventually, but wants to date other guys now. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

31 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Im 21 now I started dating my girlfriend when we were 14. Last year we took a break, b/c she said she did not feel the same anymore. And I felt like our love was dying down. After about 7 months we started seeing each other and after 5 years we started to have a sexual ... (239 words)

I feel awkward in social situations. How can I overcome this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5955 days ago

31 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, i really need some advice on how to boost my confidence. i find that i get very uncomfortable in social situations. i feel awkward and don't know what to say. how can i overcome this?... (36 words)

HOw can I get over my abusive cheating boyfriend after half my life with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5954 days ago

31 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Please can someone tell me how long it takes to get over/fall out of love with someone? Does the pain ever heal? I met my partner when i was 14 (he was 20). By the time i was 15 we were living in a flat together and we were engaged. Slowly over the years he became controli... (359 words)

We may both have fertility problems, and the pressure is threatening our new relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5809 days ago

31 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - my dilema is, I fell inlove with a girl 7 months ago, at the moment it is a long distance relationship, she lives in england, i live in scotland, we visit eachother quite alot, the problem is however, she has a history of fertility problems, and yearns a child, she has been ... (299 words)

Should I go back to my lazy ex who promises to reform or stick with my new guy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5955 days ago

31 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - dilema i was goin out with a realy nice guy for two year the only problem is he got lazy quit his job and became a bore i fell out of love with him but i still have strong feeligs for him we have been broke up about three month now i have a new partner who is fantastic and ... (132 words)

My husband watches porn, but won't have sex with me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3957 days ago

31 August 2008 (F)

age - My husband is not interested in sex with me, no matter what I do, and, believe me, I have tried everything. He prefers unusual porn sites (women trampling men, women smothering men) and I have offered to do these things to him but he says he does not like these things; he just ... (79 words)

He's chatty on line but quiet in person. I'm not sure he likes me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5955 days ago

31 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really confussed about a guy who i think likes me but im not sure....i used to work with him he was really quiet so i thought he didnt like me? then ive seen him every now and again as we live in the same area and mix witht he same people. he added me on msn and we chat all ... (249 words)

He's not the same now that I'm pregnant.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5942 days ago

31 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 7 months pregnant and feel like my relationship is falling down around my ears. My parents didn't react to well when then heard the news, but they are looking forward to meeting their new grandchild, even offering to buy the pram. When I told my boyfriend yesterday, he ... (154 words)

How do I regain her friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5953 days ago

31 August 2008 (?) age 30-35 - this isn't about a romantic relationship.this is about my best friend who just doesn't speak to me anymore and i have no idea why. i want her back exactly a year ago i made a postsecret with a photo of me and my two best friends on. it read : i can't wait for you to le... (420 words)

What do you think about the websites where you meet people that you knew in high school?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5955 days ago

31 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I know that chatrooms and social networking sites can be dangerous places to meet people off, but is it wrong to use a social networking site as a type of "FriendsReunited"-type website and meet people you used to know in high school/college/university again?? Jeff... (47 words)

Do you think my online friend is ready to commit to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

31 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hallo there, I met a really nice guy online and even spoke to him on phone. He is happy that I belong to the same religious group as he is and also for the fact that I am a 100% pure vegetarian. We took it a step ahead, when he started leaving me missed calls, me... (372 words)

Because of the rape, it hurts to have sex with my boyfriend and it hurts us both! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

31 August 2008 (F)

age - Other than being sexually assaulted I've only had one sexual experience and when it happened it still felt like i was being raped. I'm not sure if it was him, me, or just the fact that i had been raped before, but i hated it it felt like he was holding me down and forcing his ... (166 words)

Is it rape if it was your boyfriend?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

31 August 2008 (F)

age - Was hanging out with my boyfriend one night and he wanted us to go to the drive in later that night after dinner so i agreed and when we got there we let all of the seats down to get comfortable and in the middle of the movie he starts unbuttoning my shirt and pulling up my ... (133 words)

Should we call it quits after 7 years?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5955 days ago

31 August 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello all you experienced people, My relationship..., seven years engaged a couple ago. 5 kids between us although hers are gone, moved in for a bit but because of lawyers and child support laws she moved out. we still get along well and enjoy talking all the time, but our se... (189 words)

My pregnant girlfriend keeps kicking me out! Is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

31 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend is pregnant and she is always kicking me out. Last week we she said she had the ump and although she said it wasnt my fault she told me I had to stay at my mums that night. I didnt call her that evening because she said she didnt want to see me but the next ... (212 words)

What do you do when you love each other but have to break up for religious reasons?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5955 days ago

31 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so im with a guy been with him for a mnth and a half and he loves me more then i love him he tells me that if he cld compare his love to everything in the world it wldnt come close, only problem is he is muslim and i am orthodox and my grandfather was a priest and my family ... (127 words)

Circumstances are stopping me from breaking up with him for the moment, should I wait a little longer?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5955 days ago

31 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - ive been with my (first serious) boyfriend for a year and a half and until a few weeks ago have been very happy, suprising some friends as most people wouldnt automatically have put us together. we come from very different families and have very different interests. despite ... (446 words)

I'm very upset about my partner's online profile! Why would he do this to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5953 days ago

31 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, everyone. I need some advice. My daughter's dad and I have been in and out of a relationship for the past 5 years. He has two kids from his first marriage and we're getting ready to have a second child. I am tired, frustrated, worn out, down and out. I was just... (323 words)

My wife thinks we should terminate the pregnancy because we still haven't had a wedding dinner. Please advise!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

31 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - i have ROM in Jan 2008 but have yet to have wedding dinner due to the death of my dad. Recently my wife was pregnant and she don't know if we should keep the baby as she is afraid that her dad will be very furious as we have yet to have the wedding dinner. I really want to keep ... (70 words)

Should I still take my daughter to see my ex's daughter even though he has told me to stay away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5955 days ago

31 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I ended it with someone 8 months ago now. He has moved on with someone else and all is fine in that way, but before this, he used to use his daughter and mine still wanting to see each other as a contact to me, which i put up with for the childrens sakes, and because he owes me ... (344 words)

We only have sex when he wants to and in his manner, friends say he is using me, what to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5955 days ago

31 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Another weekend and I am feeling sick - my bf and I have been together for 3 yrs - since July things have been rocky when I confronted him about advertising himself on the sex friend sites. He has his girls who are 11 and 13 hating me and he sometimes calls and sometimes ... (229 words)

My husband has changed in ways I cannot explain, I tried to be patient but I cannot take it anymore!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5955 days ago

31 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi my husband And I are having a lot of problems he has change in ways I cannot explain he tells me to be patient that everything annoys him that he does not care about anything or anyone not even our baby he says that he does not know what to do and i do not know how to help ... (138 words)

We want to have sex but we know nothing about it and are both 13!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5885 days ago

31 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - my bf and i have been dating for a year and we both wanna have sex but we can't because a: my hymen hasn't broken and b: we are both 13. what do we do?... (35 words)

My husband told me that we reached the end of our road and he found somebody else, how can I bring him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5954 days ago

31 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband of 4 years has recently told me that he has feelings for someone else and that they are sexual with each other.he wasnt sure what he wants.he tells me that we reached the end of our road.i love him so much and want to work it out but he wont give me the time or ... (87 words)

When I squirt, how do I learn to control the amount that comes out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5955 days ago

31 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - How do you 'control the amount' when the squirting 'happens'? Forgive this if it is too blunt. I am embarassed to ask. I've been squirting,( since 16 and I'm 39). I squirt multiple times as long as my husband 'doesn't stop' , doing whatever he's doing. I never know if ... (115 words)

It's really confusing that my friend suddenly withdrew, what have I done wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5955 days ago

31 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Theres this guy i like and we're really good friends but i think of him as more, we're close and he asks me for advice on girls all teh time, theres barely anything we don't tell each other, Lately we've got closer and spent way more time together but all of sudden we're ... (79 words)

Is the guy I am dating toying with my emotions and feelings? I never know if today I will be loved or ignored.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

31 August 2008 (F)

- I've heard of this trend in the dating scene where a guy purposely makes a girl feel insecure (through put downs, ignoring etc), just so she will feel bad about herself, more desperate for him, vunerable and hopefully (for the guys) easier to get into bed. This really sickens ... (250 words)

Too confused. Husband not interested in sex with me, just wants threesomes or foursomes. Am I inadequate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5955 days ago

31 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi its me again. Ever since that foursome episode, my husband and I have not had sex with each other since we do not live together. (Its a discrete marriage) Now, we had made a plan to spend the whole day together and guess what? He hs asked me so many times in hints if we s... (172 words)

Do I continue this relationship because he's supporting me financially?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5954 days ago

31 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Do i have to continue my relationship with my bf who's supporting me financially, did lots of things for me but always cheating on me and he is not caring and sweet now like before. He changed a lot:(... (39 words)

I overcame my abuse. How do I make sure now that sex is perfect for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5955 days ago

31 August 2008 (F)

- I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months now, we really truely love each other, and both feel it's time to take our relationship to the next level, he is a virgin and I am not. I was abused as a child so I never got to give my virginity away, it was taken. My boyfriend is choos... (155 words)

Is there no hope?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5955 days ago

31 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I've got a male friend I like a lot and we hang out from time to time. Last time I spent the night at his, in his bed, but no sex, he kissed me goodbye on the lips in the morning and my stomach did a somersault. I began to wonder, so I texted him later playfully saying 'U must ... (107 words)

Have any girls here rejected a guy initially, then accepted him (much) later? What prompted the change in decision?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5955 days ago

31 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - This question is for both guys and girls. Have any girls here initially rejected a guy, then accepted him later on (can be a few months to a few years later)? If so, what prompted the change in decision? Also, for the guys (especially those who have experienced this before... (101 words)

Best things to say during sex to impress or surprise him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

31 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i love havinbg sex with my partner. i know this might sound starnge but whats the best sound and best things to say during to impress or surprise him ?... (34 words)

The best or worst breakup ever? What do I do now? Move on? Stay a while? Hope he'll realise?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5955 days ago

31 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I (both 16) broke up 2 days ago after 6 months. It was somewhat mutual. We decided to meet and talk it out. He said his perspective on love changed, and he didn't love me like he did before. I said that I've been waiting 2 months for one of us to say it, ... (338 words)

I want to shave not only the bikini line but also down on the labia section as well. What is the best product available?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5955 days ago

31 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry that this isn't a question about relationships.. I am wondering if any of the ladies here can advise on how to properly shave pubic hair. Right now I use the same shaver I use for my legs, but the shaved pubes grow back really quickly and even the freshly shaved area ... (149 words)