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I love him so much, all I do is cry, I'm 32 weeks pregnant and scared of being alone. Please help.

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Question - (6 August 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 7 August 2008)
A female United Kingdom, anonymous writes:

I'm deeply in love with my boyfriend of 3 years and i am 32 weeks pregnant. At first we were really happy, but now he is being real distant and is telling me he dosn't want to be with me, but will be there for the child when born.

He used to chase me and be crazy for me, but now i'm chasing him, i've only started to realise how much i do really love him. How do i cope being a lonely single mum at 21 years old? I'm scared i'll never meet anyone else, i feel fat and useless.

I just can't let go, i'm so scared that he will meet someone else and i'll be lonely on my own. He says he loves me, but it dosn't feel like it. I just want to stop crying every night and be happy as im always depressed and low.

I want to be a family with him, but he doesn't! How do i move on?

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A female reader, takeoutthetrash United States +, writes (7 August 2008):

first off the guy is a very good guy for wanting to support his kid that's a good thing. Second being a single mom is not as bad as it seems you have the support you need. Third don't feel like that you are not useless and the fatness will go away when the kid is born and i am sure you will find someone else. It will be very hard to let go but i am sure you will find someone better who loves you and cares for you.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2008):

shoulda waited till marriage. that way there is no way out!and that way it was planned... no one in their right mind would have a kid before marriage

dont be silly!wrap his willy!

~.^

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A female reader, beauty344 United States +, writes (7 August 2008):

beauty344 agony auntDont worry being A single mother is not bad .. I know lots of single mothers all i can tell you is to stay srong for you and your child and always remember that everthing going to be alright and its hes lost forget about him your more than that ....... take care xoxox goodluck

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