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writes:I'm 19 and I am in a very loving relationship that has lasted about 4 years almost, I'm engaged and very much in love with my fiancee. The problem is I find one of my male friends very attractive, and I dont know if is normal to find anyone else but the person your in love with sexy. I havent done anything with this guy but it doesnt stop me feeling guilty about the way I feel around him sometimes.Is it okay to feel that way about someone?
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reader, a_decent_1  +, writes (6 August 2008):
 Yes honey. You WILL find guys around you sexy and hot. That's because you're really Normal. Not finding them sexy would be actually abnormal.
To put it simply, you will find guys around you sexy and hot, more so at this age.. What matters is your LOYALTY towards your fiancee. You might LIKE a million guys, but you LOVE just One. That is all that matters..
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much! I would never think of cheating but thanks to you guys I now know that I am not weird lol. again, THANK YOU! You're awesome! xxx
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reader, Replacement  +, writes (6 August 2008):
 Yes, it's normal. As long as you're not obsessing (i.e. thinking about them every day, or when you make love, or comparing your hubby to him, etc) then there's nothing wrong with a little crush. Innocent crushes are normal, healthy and pretty much unavoidable. Just don't get too flirty with him or behave inappropriately!
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reader, Frank B Kermit +, writes (6 August 2008):
 Yes, it is normal to find lots of people attractive even if you are in love with someone.
No, that does not make it OK to act on those attractions if you have promised someone that you would not.
-Frank B Kermit
http://www.franktalks.com
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