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writes:I have been seeing this guy that has a girlfriend who has a baby on the way. he has recently told me that he misses me alot and that he wants to be with me and that he loves me. He seems to really care about me, but he wont leave his girlfriend who is carrying his baby, to be with me...Does he really love me or am I stupid for falling for someone who I can never be with?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2008): I'm sorry hunny but you need to move on, it doesnt matter what he might say! He has a baby on the way and hes needs to take care of his responsibilities.
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (6 August 2008):
 Well I do not know if you are stupid like you ask. However, I think you are totally in the wrong.
His child is the victim here, not you. That child needs its father, and you are trying to justify stealing its father away from it.
Take a deep look within yourself. You know the answer.
-Frank B Kermit
http://www.frankadviceforwomen.com
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2008): Don't fall for this guy, he's having his cake and eating it, sure he will tell you you are the perfect girl, everything he could ever want and promise to leave the girlfriend when he has no intention to do it - hes getting exactly what he wants. The only person thats going to get hurt is you. Been there, done that, wearing the scars 6 years on. x
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reader, UnaVaiLiaVe  +, writes (6 August 2008):
 im sorry to say this but u have to move on. if she is having this baby and its his then he has to support it to no matter what, like with money and a fatherly role. and it wont be a good idea for him to fool around and play with your mind like that u deserve better.
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