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*etalsweet
writes:I work with a service where guys who are lonely call for company of a woman. Was called to house of a guy 4 years younger than me who is studying to be a doctor. Into talking/over a drink there was a connection! I offered to strip (there is no sex) and he replied "no u don't have to do that". He was very sweet- my visit lasted 3 hours (supposed to be just 1)! Chemistry was crazy and he kept asking me what I was thinkin. Later he asked 4 a kiss and I replied with "no I don't kiss a guy that calls a service". As I left we just stood there embracing each other as he gave me two soft pecks- one on my neck other on cheek! I walked out only to return to knock on his door to leave email. When he opened he seemed mad. Wierd I thought- as I left my email only later 2 discover I wrote it down wrong. Went back next day left note at his door with "a better email to reach me at". Well its been 3 days and I haven't heard back : ( I have a real job and told him I was doing that part-time, no sex, and no one I knew was aware of it. I really felt a mutual strong connection crazy as it sounds like love! But why hasn't he contacted me!? Will he? Its been 3 days. Yes I am anxious- in l.a. and as picky as I am I'm hoping to hear back! Reply to this Question
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reader, Petalsweet +, writes (7 August 2008):
Petalsweet is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIf I don't hear from him all week is it ok if I leave him a note asking if he could remind me of the artist he introduced me to again (since I forgot ), and also that I really had a good time with him, if not one of the best with anyone that I can remember! I wasn't expecting that, but should of told you some how told you before I left.
Ending note in...Talk to you later~: )
Would this come across ok? I don't want to give up that easy but this is my last resort!
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (7 August 2008):
 Just as you have a rule that you do not kiss guys you meet through a service, he probably has a rule not to get too involved with service girls.
If he is interested, he will contact you. However, he probably thinks you just want more money from him.
The whole point of the services you describe is so that the women will LEAVE when it is time to leave. I am sure you already broke some of your agencies rules (if you work with an agency).
Besides, if the two of you did become serious, he might feel odd about trying to explain how the two of you met.
-Frank B Kermit
http://www.frankadviceforwomen.com
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