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30-35,
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writes:My best friend that I know for almost 8yrs has his own family (wife, 2 sons, and 2 daughters) and his own business. His family loves me like I was part of them. He has always been an unique person that likes to have fun, so we as guys look at girls, and do comments about it :O) and i've always been a flirt with girls. (Straight to the point) It was a time of vacation for all of us, so we went somewhere tropical (The Dominican Republic) to do a sweet-sixteen for his daughter. I was having a blast in my bestfriends big house (I mean this guy is successful). One day we was all tired from everything and it was getting late, so it was time to rest because the big party was the next day.I decided to get up at 2am and take a glass of water, and i saw his 16yr old daughter doing the same, we started to have a conversation about the day, and out of the blue, she just kiss me like there is no tomorrow, and i went with it. She told me that my kiss was her present, mentioning that she loved me from the very beginning, but i just didn't notice that she was having feelings for me, and I just went up and kissed her back. I was panicking, i thought about my best-friend and the family. I would like our friendship as a family to continue with my best-friend. I have been thinking about this for weeks now. What are my options!?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (6 August 2008):
 As long as you really are 16 -17 years old I'd go ahead do what Wise Woman says and ask the Dad, your friend, if it's okay with him if you date his daughter, that is if you want to. Otherwise I wouldn't do anything to encourage the daughter if her affections are unwanted.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2008): Do you like the girl?
If you do then ask your best friend if it's OK if you start seeing her. You are after all the same age aren't you?
Well it says you are anyway lol.
If you don't however speak to the girl and tell her you aren't up for a relationship right now and that you don't want to ruin your friendship with her father...
I hope everything works out.xx :)
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