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writes:I have been in a relationship for 5 years. We've had our ups and downs but for the past 3 years it's been mostly downs. I've wanted to leave but ultimately in the past when I decided I wanted to go it was me who came back begging and he didn't seem worried in the least. Eventually, my feelings for him faded but I was staying with him for the sake of our son. About 8 months ago I met a man on the internet and eventually fell in love with him. He's alot younger than me but assures me that he'll do everything in his power to make us happy. Only thing is he lives so far away from everyone and everything I know and I'm not sure if moving my son so far away is really the answer but I love him so much. He has a good job, though, and wants to retain it for all of our sakes....wants to give us a good start. My boyfriend I've been with for so long is begging me back (I've since went to my dad's to sort all of this out in my head) He's an excellent father and I've assured him I won't keep our son away frm him...I just don't know if I can be the person he wants me to be anymore. Does he just want me back NOW because he knows there's someone else out there willing to love me? HELP!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2008): Hi
Quite possibly, but at the same time he may have realised he's blown it this time and recognises he has taken you for granted. I do not really think that moving straight into another relationship is a good idea, as you seem to be waiting for someone to (make you happy). Happiness must come from you within first...or you are often set for disappointments when expectations are not met. Maybe you should still move on from your present relationship,but arranging for your son to still see his father. Parents split up but children don't always have to. keep in little contact with other guy until you discover your own happiness first. You may well just be craving love and attention but you can find that in other ways. (Willing to love me) you say...I say you are worth more than these words and one day will find what you are craving for. Good luck...start within first don't look outward!!!!!!
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