A
female
age
36-40,
*hisisrightnow
writes:Last Saturday we hung out for like 7 1/2 hours (watched movies, ate pizza, talked, etc), last night for 6 hours (watched a movie, talked, did stuff on the Internet). Then the day before yesterday when I said something to him and really overreacted online, he called me like 30 minutes later to make sure I wasn't upset with him or anything. We ended up talking for like almost 2 hours. He got out of a relationship of 5 years about 5 months ago, and he's kinda shy. So I think he could be proceeding with caution, and possibly wants to just continue to get to know me better before diving in head first. I'm just not sure if he sees me as more or just a friend. I'm having a hard time imagining a guy would spend that much time with you if they only saw you as a friend. One of my friends questions the fact he hasn't made a move on me, but if he's wanting to take it slow AND he's shy, he wouldn't on the 1st or 2nd time we hung out.
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reader, citris +, writes (7 April 2008):
 Maybe he's not sure about how he feels quite yet and he's a bit insecure. I say, if you enjoy the time you guys have spent together, go ahead and keep talking and spending time together. If it's going to happen it will, and it will happen naturally! Also, he could be a bit intimidated by you, which could keep him from making a move. If you like him, it couldn't hurt to make a move on him, especially if you think he's shy! Just be sure that you both are respecting one another and the pace that each of you is comfortable with.
Best of luck!
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