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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Me and my ex boyfriend split up about 2 months ago, just before our 11 month anniversary. We are both just turned 17. Was struggling to get over him, due to the loss of someone who I got so close to, and we lost our virginity together. He cheated on me with his ex and we split up, he has continued to see her, but last night we were both at a party by chance and he took me for a long walk, and we just talked and he was so nice to me. We went back to his as I missed my bus and stayed up all night talking, he kept saying he missed me and then, he said he still loves me. He wouldn't say that unless he meant it. He said him and his ex are really messed up, and I don' know whether to believe him or not, and whether he really does regret splitting up with me. I don't know wether to trust him again. Please help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2008): Well first you need to adjust the stated age, you say your 17 and is listed as 30-35. If this is a habit, then your bf and you probably are a good match, but don't expect much happiness together.
It is possible that he is on a rebound, or he is lost, or he and his girl that he cheated you with are having a rocky road. Was she at the party? No? Then he is trying to cultivate a rebound with you.
He has allot of self discovery to do, and he should do this before he starts any new or old relationships. He appears to be unstable for whatever reasons.
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