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writes:I have just broken up with my Boyfriend of 4 years, and I'm unsure of what is right anymore?...The reason I wanted to finish it was because I was confused about our relationship, and worried that I was going to miss out on my youth seeing as I am only 18. I like the attention I recieve from other males now that I am single, but I know that my Ex is devastated about what has happened and wants the relationship back. So basically, I'm torn between thinking I could be making a huge mistake walking away from someone who is very fond of me, or taking the risk and living my life exactly how I want to. My head feels extremely mixed up at the moment between the love for my ex and wanting to act upon my flirtatious and outgoing nature to just take the risk. Any words of advice really would be helpful right now...Thankyou.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008): Im unsure as to why these answeres are so varied from other agony aunts such as myself. But i would go with the first post. I think its best if you just see how things go with this guy but there isn't any point being in a relationship with someone if you dont feel things are going right, despite whether they do or not. Going with what you feel is right is best and just make sure your happy, sometimes you just have to pu yourself firstHope this helps
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008): I gotta say, I wouldn't be worried about the youth thing.
You aren't gonna be missing much, just a few drinks and a bar brawl here and there.
Not to mention a lot of miscellaneous cock, none of which really mean anything to you and will never do anything for you.
To dump a someone who loves you for any other reason than you don't love them is a despicable and cowardly thing to do.
Sorry, but you are acting like a right bitch and I don't know how he puts up with this crap.
Flynn 24
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reader, mightyhawk +, writes (6 April 2008):
 naturally, after a 4 year relationship, it is hard to let go. You may feel really bad for hurting someone that you have been close to for so long, but you can't let his feelings stop you from ending the relationship if you have reason why you want to. You should do what makes you happy, you do have a point thta with such a lng relationship you are missing out on some of the experiences of your youth, but if you deeply loved him, surely that would not be a problem. My advice would be to stay single and enjoy it, unless you are absolutely 00% sure that you want to be with him, and it is not guilt Love can never flourish on guilt. x
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