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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I like this girl a lot about 4 years ago, but at the time she was dating someone but very unhappy and was going to break up with him and eventually go out with me, but weeks turned to months and eventually i gave up on her and her constant lies of "i will do it this weekend". Now 4 years later, after a long term relationship we end up hanging out again, this time kissing and cuddling and hanging out all the time, but she "wants to wait a little while" because supposedly her ex BF really broke her heart and wants to make sure im there for love not just sex.I have waited for her for the past 4 weeks (again), and I JUST found out the reason why she was making me wait was because she had a BF about 1 hour away, and was with him since before we ended up talking again! This hurts soo much, how can I ever trust her? And if I do end up trusting her how do I know she won't start seeing another guy behind MY back like she did with two other BF's??Any advice would help!, thanks!
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reader, rcn  +, writes (6 April 2008):
 I agree with the other poster. Girls can be players too. It's not the fact that she's dating someone. It's beyond that. She's dating someone, and doing things with you that are not appropriate to do when in a relationship. She's lying, deceiving, and cheating. I believe it would be a bad call to continue this relationship with her.
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reader, Stayc63088 +, writes (6 April 2008):
 Let her go. Seems like she is keeping you around "just in case" nothing else works out. Besides that, she would inevitably cheat on you. If you did end up trusting her you wouldnt worry she is cheating behind your back, to answer that last question. You deserve better.
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