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I don't know if I'm pregnant or not...

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Question - (6 April 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 19 September 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *retty in pink/ writes:

Hi. I don't know if I am pregnant or not, but I came off my peroid on Friday, but I had sex for the first time that night I looked in my knickers there were some brown stuff, but normally I have that anyway, I dont know if I am pregnant or not, because the boy's penis didn't actually go in me, but I just got the feeling that am pregnant, PLEASE GET BACK ASAP. Am only 13 and need all the help you can get thanks, please get back asap.

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A female reader, ashley :] United States +, writes (19 September 2008):

Hey, I am going through the same thing, even though my man came inside of me and he did put his penis in me. I have been pregnant before and miscarried my first baby a couple months ago, It was really scary. I should have learned but it happens. I think you should get a test anyways, I don't know all you did but if his dick went in you and he came in you then you need to get checked. The only way you can get pregnant is if one sperm is in you and you guys have sex sex. Not eating you out or anything that involves the out side of your body. Only the inside babes, so lets try to be careful kay, and you are really young to be doing that. Hon make sure he is the guy you want.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2008):

It's extremely unlikely. However, if you think you're mature enough to be having sex then you're mature enough to protect yourself from pregnancy. Don't think it won't happen to you. It will.

See this scare as a lesson learnt and next time use a condom. You would be crazy to put yourself through this worry again.

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A female reader, Cindy303 United States +, writes (6 April 2008):

Cindy303 agony auntLove,

I see your age and that just worries me so. I have a daughter who is nearly 11 and I cant imagine her thinking about having sex at such a young age. Please understand that you can get pregnant at your age. You need to use protection and if your going to be sexually active you need to talk to your doctor about birth control. I am not trying to sound like your mom and lecture you, but the last thing a girl your age should be doing is having sex. Your young, and have such a great future ahead of you. Enjoy being with your friends and picking out the latest clothes to wear and going to movies. The last thing you need to worry about is being pregnant. Please be careful.

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A female reader, I care Canada +, writes (6 April 2008):

I care agony auntHi sweetie,

I know it's not my place to say this but you shouldn't be having sex at your age you should be focusing on your future and trying to sort out what you want in life not worring if your pregnant or not. I don't know what you and this boy did but if you didn't have intercourse wich is his penis going into your virgina then you din't have sex at all and therefore you can't be pregnant but if he did do that then it is possible that you can be.In the future my advice to you is this any time that your thinking about having sex you should ask your self this are you ready to become a mother cuz it could happen even if you use protection.

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A female reader, carebear United Kingdom +, writes (6 April 2008):

carebear agony auntDid you use protection? If not or even if you did get to your GP strait away. Get morning after pill get educated on sex you are underage and not informed enough to be having sex. Take this as a hard lesson girl do you want to be yet another teen mum thats didn't know any better? hopefully not, you can get pregnant or even worse STD'S and diseases through ingnorance don't take the chance.

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