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Does he love me or is he just playing me?

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Question - (6 April 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 7 April 2008)
A age 30-35, * writes:

Hey everyone !!

I'm 15 and I have a great guy in my life(16).He's not exactly a boyfriend but we act like it . He wants to ask me out offically when he see's me . ( we have never met before but it feels like i've known him forever!) he goes to a diffrent school then I do and we met through a friend. I got his number and talked to him on MySpace. ok. Well On his Myspace comments this girl commented "Hey babe what's up?" and I'm thinking why in the world is some chick calling my man babe? he's mie! lol but it bothered me. Thinking what if he's ya know cheating .... but it wouldn't really be cheating because we aren't togehter but he says I'm prefect for him and he loves me and wants to be together forever and all that good stuff.

So I left a comment on his profile saying " hey cutie pie whats up? and the next day he deleted BOTH comments.... So it made me even more confused... is he hiding somthing ....?

This girl bothered me .... I don't know her which makes it worse and her screen name is "I'll keep you my dirty little secret" which makes me even more on edge ya know ?! Ther isn't much I can say or do because we aren't together... and I don't kniow if I'm overreacting or somthing because I've said that to boys b4 that I had no interest then other then friendship... " hey babe whats cracking ?!" or somthing like that but it could mean more because that's what he calls me BABE.

And everytime I try to plan a time to met he's all like "maybe we can do that" but then we never talk about it again.... and dhe got his house phone ( the one he used to call me on) taken away and has called me in like a week and a half . he's text me but not a whole lot ( or as much as I want) he says he loves me but lately I wonder . Does he really?

what do you think? Does he love me or is he just playing me or am I overreacting ?what should I do ?

I love him sooooo much and don't want to lose him....

(thanks in advance and sorry it was so long)

*~VG~*

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008):

Well, I think he is talking to someone else. if i was you i would stop talking to him because he is interested in someone else. You will find someone better than that just be patient.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2008):

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That makes alot of sense... I will ask him to met me again and set a date and if he keeps putting me off then I know where I stand. Thank you . It really helped :)

*~VG~*

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2008):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

That makes alot of sense... I will ask him to met me again and set a date and if he keeps putting me off then I know where I stand. Thank you . It really helped :)

*~VG~*

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2008):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

That makes alot of sense... I will ask him to met me again and set a date and if he keeps putting me off then I know where I stand. Thank you . It really helped :)

*~VG~*

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A female reader, AskEve United Kingdom +, writes (6 April 2008):

AskEve agony auntThe word "babe" is a pet name a lot of people use, it doesn't necessarily mean you're an item. This guy is probably friends with a lot of other girls the same way you probably are with a lot of other boys. Both of you like to flirt with others, it's what teenagers do but neither of you are going out together so have no holds on one another.

You need to ask him seriously if he wants to meet you. If he keeps putting off then let that be a sign he's happy just to flirt with you. It could be that this other girl thinks she has the chance with him too, after all, you don't know what he's saying to her either do you?

Ask to meet with him! If he continually puts you off then you have your answer.

~Eve~

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