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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: I started speaking to this girl same age as me and will meet when out with friends. I really like her but I don't stand chance. She is really good looking and suprisingly is sweet with no attitude!!! She is soo outta my league but I still can't get her outta my head! I'm friends with her friends they all luv me as friends but I get this feelin that if I even whisper to her I like her she will laugh at my face!!! (well she's too nice to laugh at my face) any advice? Should I just forget about her and save the embarrassment? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (6 April 2008):
Many, if not most girls are not nearly as centered on looks as guys. Most guys are comparatively not really all that good looking like movie stars, but most girls have very attractive features to guys.
As "Stayc63088" mentioned, girls will more often be attracted to a dude with confidence. a funny attitude and good sense of humor, good hygiene and dress, a relaxed appearance and other things that project that you know who you are, are comfortable with it and happy. You can even be kind of cocky about yourself, as long as you smile a lot and be funny. Try that kind of thing. It works.
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reader, Stayc63088 +, writes (6 April 2008):
You should get some confidence! You can have any girl you want, dont think anyone is above you or too good for you. Let her know you like her, girls love confidence. If she turns you down, move on. You never know what could happen and could regret it and always wonder "what if.." But do not ever tell yourself you are not good enough for someone.
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