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writes:I am in a really loving relationship but my partner is unable to penetrate me. I am not a virgin and we are both ready each time we try and I don't know what is wrong.What should I try? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2008): Oil if I recall is not the best to use in the vagina, ky jelly, or water soluable is best.
Foreplay, getting you excited and wet in the vagina is always required, as an additional friction reducer, arroglide or ky jelly will help.
Are you sure your not expecting the insertion of his penis to hurt, whereby you unknowing cringe and tighten up the vagina walls? Maybe he is new at it to and is afraid to push to hard, causing you pain?
I like taking the head of the penis and wiping it across the opening of the vagina to release some moisture, then slowly moving it in slowly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2008): But be careful not to overdo the oil - a little goes a very long way. Too much of it and you'll lose most of the sensation. It's erotic sliding around each other though!
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reader, BigSis +, writes (6 April 2008):
 For some women, their vagina can be quite dry, making penetration rather painful. So during foreplay, if you do not get naturally 'lubricated', then try using KY jelly, or there are other forms of lubrications available from chemists' ie, their own-brand of aqueous lubricants and another called Senselle. Even baby oil will to the trick. Get him to rub some on his penis and you put some also around yor vaginal area, better still do eachother's, because that alone will arouse the pair of you.
Those lubricants will definitely help with insertion. Also by rubbing a gel or oil over and around your nether region will more than likely help you to orgasm too.
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I have also found this link, which you will find very useful, it covers everything to do with women's health issues.
http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/ate/womenshealth/207295.html
I hope this helps you. Good Luck.
BigSisxXx
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