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writes:Why can't I orgasm? I don't know why but whether it be when I am masturbating or even when having sex or my boyfriend is touching my clitorus, as soon as I get very close to orgasm I have to stop, or I have to stop my boyfriend carying on. I don't know why because the point I've reached feels amazing. This is going to sound wierd because I can't' explain it properly but it's like it's so intense and stuff my body can't handle it. What's wrong with me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2008): Hey, its not that you are with the wrong guy, I have exactly the same thing! Do you feel like you get a slight orgasm but it could be INCREDIBLE if ou didn't have to stop? Is it like, it gets really really good and then suddenly you are too sensitive to carry on? I'm not entirely sure what it is but I have two solutions that I have been trying out. 1. If its your bf bringing you to orgasm then maybe he could try some kind of restraint? (sounds kinky lol), I find if my boyfriend holds me down then I get a bit further and plus him holding me down gets me going more! 2. You can get to that point where it feels really good and you have to stop, wait a while, (either make out or something else if its through masturbation) and then carry on. You can just keep bringing yourself back to that point again and again. After all, it feels good right? What I also find is good is prolonging the process. Like masturbation for example, I would go ahead as normal but then I would slow it down just as it starts to get good, get more rhythmic and slow, speed it up again, do this a couple of times and then just go for it. Makes the process more intense :P
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey i am 19. and i am not with rong partner ecause i have had more than a few sexual partners and i cn never just let my self go
even thru masturbation
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2008): Hi,
you really must be trying to hard, just relax. I have to say that you may be with the wrong guy!! or you are just not ready for this experience. I don't know how old you are? but in time and with a little help with your partner you will overcome such problems.
Good luck and remember, it's not a race having this experience, it will happen when you are ready and not before!
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