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anonymous
writes: me and my girlfriend are ready to start having sex but we don't have any privacy . we've decided to go to a hotel next w/end so we can start to know our bodies and learn what to do. I'll wear a condom but we're wondering if there'll be any mess on the sheets.As first timers we might be embarrased since someone could know what we've been doing.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (6 April 2008):
The hotels and staff are quite used to that sort of thing. You are not the first couple to use a hotel room for pleasures. The advice from "Cindy303" is very good - just strip the bed yourself and the staff will take care of things. Perhaps bring along a old personal towel for protection to the sheets if you are concerned, but the price they charge you for the room would purchase boxes of new sheets at the rate hotels acquires them. Just enjoy yourselves.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2008): I've always thought the sign of a good time is messy sheets :-) One time my boyfriend and me ate fruit salad in a hotel bed, things got interesting with the fruit and it got squashed and all kinds of stuff - strawberry stained white sheets! I don't recommend wrecking the bed linen in that way but don't be too paranoid otherwise it will ruin your fun. Bed linen gets professionally washed in large drums and staff really just get on with processing room cleaning as quickly as possible.
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reader, Ziggy Z +, writes (6 April 2008):
Doubt you have anything to worry about, but one solution is to put a towel on the bed (beneath her), that way the towel may get a little messed up, but you could always rinse it off, etc
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reader, Cindy303 +, writes (6 April 2008):
The one thing about a hotel room is that when you leave, you wont see the people that are cleaning the room. It is possible that there could be something left on the sheets, with our without a condom. If you notice something there, just strip the bed yourself and put it by the door. That way housekeeping wont have to see it and you wont have to worry about being embarrased. I hope that your first time together is very special. All the best, Cindy
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