A
female
age
30-35,
*hoe_lover
writes:okay where to start , i met this lad around college and we also work together , was great we got chatting on myspace then he gave me msn was all going well , there wasa college party there and it was also my birthday , i had a rather huge amount to drink , and i came over to where he was sitting , knecked half of his pint and kissed him on the cheek and run off to some guy then i danced all the night away with other lads , he was talking to some girls , when the club had closed i kissed him on the cheek and stumbled out and walked home with the girls , that mornning shocked by my behaviour i mailed him aplogising and saying that i liked him and it was him i wanted to spend the night with not some guys , he sed it was okay , and that i am a nice girl and he gave me his number and i needed to make it up to him , then it was my birthday so i didnt talk to him for a few days , but he sed happy birthday etc , i txt him asking him if he fancied a meal some time and he replied im not a meal person and didnt mean it in tht way. It was then his birthday , work was h aving a doo , so i went , but my friends stood me up , saying they went without me becuase he didnt want me there , i asked some one to ask him if it was true , and he sed it was crap and i asked him my self and he sed nahh wanted you there all happy happy didnt think any thing of it , then rumours went round saying he didnt want me there so i asked him to his face and he sed he didnt want me there but only i could to keep me happy , then said but was ok for you to come in the end. i left it at that , i dont know what i did wrong , i got my male friend to have a man on man chat , and he said that he had said , i came on strong and i was acting weridly!! im really hurt , but now we cant even look at each other and its impossible to work together now!! please help sugguestions
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reader, Stayc63088  +, writes (7 April 2008):
 He may think you like him and doesnt have the same feelings back, so by asking him and getting everyone else to ask him is like he is being smothered by someone he doesnt think of in that way. Bottom line, he is a jerk. And those arent very good "friends" to stand you up. And yes it does hurt, a lot, to hear someone say you come on strong or act weird. It will fade though. Show you have no interest and arent coming on strong by not even acknowloging his existence. Just focus all of your attention on your job or get another job if its not a big deal. Just go in with the mindset that you are they to make money, not friends. Ignore him and dont let it get to you. Jerks tend to act the way he did and you are better off without him as a boyfriend or friend.
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