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writes:I'm wondering if any guys here have ever had sex with a hooker, I ask because I've been wondering about it for a while, but I'm not sure if it would feel nearly as good as legitimate sex.Don't get me wrong, I'm not considering getting a hooker because I'm desperate or anything, I get just as much action as the next guy, but on a night when you just really want sex, I figure getting a hooker would be a good way to get it.But I'm not sure I'd enjoy it knowing she wasn't actually enjoying herself, and is only there for the money, so guys do you have any input?Thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2008): I agree with baddogbj, and there is only one way you will find out the answer to your question - try it for yourself.As you can see from the replies on here, there are a lot of misconceptions, stigmas and stereotypes about escorts and hookers. Find a nice good woman who offers "GFE" experience. There is no reason why an encounter like this will be any less "good" than with a woman you're dating.
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (21 July 2008):
 It can be great with a little bit of luck and with a good attitude. Pick a good one, treat her with respect, work your tongue, make sure that you're not the only one enjoying themselves. Say thank you.
Many working girls are not that keen to see guys under 30 and it isn't because they have a strong preference for middle aged bodies but rather because they find that younger men tend not to treat them with respect. Prove them wrong.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2008): my ego to be get some action at any cause so i got a blow job, and then she insist on having sex without of condom and i was really horny, and a few seconds after i penetrated her from behind, something twitched in my head, so i saids that enough, and i rushed back to my hostel, but some anti boitic cream for my skin, took a shower and cleaned myself as much as i could!!! i a was freaking out that i could of gotten hiv, or stds!!! so one night after i realised that i couldn't get an erection and i felt horrible about what i did, not just for my own sake, because of hers, and the worst part was that i was a virgin at the time!!! so i think paying for sex is the worst thing you could ever do, because i realised i felt like i was taking advantage of her!!! and if i could take that back i would!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2008): Some of us ARE desperate. We read all the books and are told that we are good looking, strong, work hard, honest, gentle and caring, yet we are not "fun". Fun and "attraction" work for some, and others seem to be genetically unable to do this routine. I personally would gladly pay for a woman to go on a (sex)date with me - even many times so she could either learn to love me or maybe teach me what I need to learn to be "attractive". I have spent most of my adult life trying to be successful with women and wasting far too much time. I have become very successful financially, yet found that does not even matter today. I am now almost 60 and in great shape and want what I never could get enough of. So yes, I am desperate, and have a lot to offer. I would offer it all to the right woman if she were available and committed. I have slept with women for money and it is very worthwhile. Just treat her right, as you would a girlfriend or wife. It is very expensive though. I would prefer someone that was monogamous, even if I had to pay each month.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2008): Oh, that's terrific.
My tax dollars at work, right there...funding free clinics for underage chitlins so they can go catch the herpes (which there is no cure for) and get free health care.
You can spend 300 bucks for a whore, but you can't pay your own doctor bill. Nice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell Smiffy, I've spent my money on more illegal things, and no need to be a prick because you don't agree with me.And for the record, it's called the free clinic for a reason friend.
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reader, Smiffy  +, writes (8 April 2008):
 300$ at 16 yrs old, to pay for a hooker, do you mummy and daddy know what you do with your pocket money?? .........keep some back to pay for the clap clinic....
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2008): I'd get checked for Pelvic Inflamitory Disease often, though, even using protection. Although it doens't affect you, it will ruin any girls life. Google it. Be careful who you spread around to.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI'm not picky choosey, between 15 and 70, 100-300 pounds is game.Kidding. But still, it's not like I plan on getting hookers every weekend, so if once in a while I blow 300 bucks it's no biggy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008): A few? Isn't the going rate for a decent, relatively clean and well-done up whore like $300 or something? Gas prices, you know...
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for all the responses, I think you do have a good point as far as one night stands go, I've never actually dated a girl I've had sex with, so it shouldn't be too much different.
And as far as being desperate, it's really not the case, I don't get tons of action or anything, but I do pretty well, fact of the matter is I have needs and I figure the sooner someone will tend to them the better, even if a few bucks is involved.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008): Last two comments were coming from girls that were judging this man's intention to have sex with a woman for money. I would just ask them what is the difference between one night stand that most of people have today, probably these girls too and paying a woman? In both cases there are no emotions involved, there is no care for the other part and so on...
My experience is that is completely normal to go through the period of experiment and that is a part of it. Money or no money it does not make a lot of difference. After all we are human and human are promiscuous.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008): It wouldn't be nearly as good. How could you have sex with her, knowing that you're the only one properly enjoying the sex, and she's only there for the money? Sex is not just physical, it's emmotional too. And without the emmotion, it's pretty much nothing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008): You MUST be a bit desperate to be considering it - be honest with yourself. Nobody who is getting plenty of action would need to pay for it. You may like to read up on all the STDs you can get from skin contact alone - forget the condom in those cases that won't help you. Remember also that a really special girl you meet in the future may judge you (quite rightly) on your use of a hooker in the past.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008): Absolutely not. Plus, don't you feel more manly 'roping' that girl yourself instead of PAYING for it?
Unless you're the type who pays big bucks and has a lot of money...then I guess you might be proud of paying a pretty penny.
But I'd skip the scabies and the clap and get a good girlfriend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008): Sex is sex.
But nothing will EVER compare to sex with someone you actually care about and who feels the same. It may not be the exciting, rough and tumble sex you'll get from a Call-girl, but it is altogether far more powerful.
That and by even giving a hooker a second glance you are contributing to their miserable little lives for your own enjoyment.
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