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writes: right well ive got a bit of a problem. ive liked this guy 'j' for months and months, maybe over a year? the minute i set eyes on him i fancied the ats off of him, although i never in a million years thought he would go for someone like me, but hey, we spoke on msn texts and met up a few times, infact a lot of tiimes lol and he asked me out on tuesday and i said yes, but a friend of mine, 'm' ive been friends with him for about 2 years now and we've just been frieds, never anything more, and he never seemed to like me or anything, but since ive started goin out with 'j', 'm' has decided to tell me how he feels about me he wants to go out with me but hasnt had the guts to ask me, he wats me to go to the cinema with him, he wants kisses and cuddles, every time he sees me he wants to throw his arms round me, he fancies me, and tonight hes told me he loves me and wants me! why has he waited till im with 'j' to tell me this stuff? please its confused me
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2008): I did this with a girl when i was your age, i didnt know know to express myself really sort of took it for granted i suppose, You need to take control of the situation hes shy, he regrets taking it for granted and has only just realise how much he likes you you need to make the move on this guy..it should pay off he probably really likes you just hasent realised it till now.
hope this helps hun
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reader, fiiiiire  +, writes (6 April 2008):
he probably started to get jealous and when he sees you with your boyfriend it hurts him so he had to get it out to you. he's probably shy and scared to tell you how he feels but when it comes down to you having a boyfriend he wants it to be him and not your boyfriend, he couldn't take it.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (6 April 2008):
 I'm not sure WHY he waited until you weren't single to profess feelings for you.
I remember this, I did this "dance" with someone when I was your age. We both liked each other, at different times, but the timing was always "Off". I have to tell you, I am a great believer in fate. Either the two of you are meant to be together or their is someone else out there that you are meant to be with.
If you are really set on him, then I think that the next move has to be yours, even if it means breaking it off with "J". If you aren't prepared to do that, then you should be trying to limit your contact with "m", considering that you are someone's girl and that he is crossing the boundaries from friend into boyfriend.
AND guys say that WE'RE the difficult ones to figure out, right? Best of Luck with everything, hope this helped you out a bit.
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reader, unluckyboy +, writes (6 April 2008):
Ur friend m has liked u for a long time. He hid it from u n dun it well. He thought u wid always b Der for wen he finally plucks up the courage to ask u. But u gone out wid j trust me I been in ur friends position it wid of hurt him wen u started goin out but its not ur fault. He can't take it anymore so he had to tell u. U can't do much but talk to him tell him u are already goin out wid sumone u luv. But consider ur friendship wid him, if his a true friend he'll understand. Mail me if u need help I'm been through it unfortunately n ill he able to help. Hope I helped. Xx
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