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I think I have a crush on anonmous phone caller, do I tell him?

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Question - (6 April 2008) 7 Answers - (Newest, 6 April 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *appybunny_xoxo writes:

I don't know how to explain my situation but I'll try my best.Well a couple of months ago I received a call on my cell phone from a private caller I answered it and the guy asked me "how was your day?" and I responded "who is this" he wouldn't answer my question, so I hung up the phone.

After 5 minutes he calls me again I answer and ask "who is this?" again he wouldn't answer so I hung up.He didn't call back any more.2 weeks pass and I receive another private call I answer it and it was the same guy,so this time I ask him "how did you get my number?" and he says "your friend gave me your number" then I ask "which friend"? , but he wouldn't answer my question,so I hung up on him again.

So then like a whole month passes by and he calls me I ask him " what do you want" and he says "I just want to have a conservation with you" and I was thinking this guy is weird,so I hung up on him.

So a couple of days pass and he calls me again this time I am asking a lot of questions like:who are you,how did you get this number,how old are you, I was surprised that he answered every question.

We ended up talking for about 30 minutes that day.Well lately he has been calling me everyday and we always end up talking for hours. I think I am starting to have a crush on him.I don't know what to do.Should I tell him how I feel.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2008):

i dont really understand what your asking as you have said that he answered all your questions, so do you know who this guy is or what? so i cant help you with this one sorry.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2008):

Oh dear sweety I completely agree with everyone else. Change your number please its easy to track you down by your number. He could be anyone. He could be a serial killer and im not tryna scare you I just don't want anything to happen to you. Next time he calls have someone else answwer your phone and tell him to leave you alone. The only reason he seems nice is because he's probably got experience with making girls feel good to make them meet him so he can get a chance to see them and have his way...so stay away sweety don't fall for it.....xoxoxoxo

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A female reader, carebear United Kingdom +, writes (6 April 2008):

carebear agony auntAgree 100% with other posters. Change you phone number pronto, tell an adult get them to answer your phone preferably a male one, this is dangerious dear.

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A female reader, brooke5426 United Kingdom +, writes (6 April 2008):

brooke5426 agony auntThat kinda freaks me out. Why wont he tell you who he is? How did he get your number? If he really DID get it from one of your friends (which i dont think he did) then why cant he tell you or why hasnt the friend told you they gave your number to someone?

He's weird and scary. Its not normal at all, its not even like he called you and said "hey my name is ***** i got your number from ***** just wanted to say hi and talk to you for a bit". Its really weird how he's done it and he obviously has something to hide or he would just be honest about who he is. So you gotta ask yourself what is he hiding and why?

I think he's very strange and you should stay away from him and not answer if you get an anonymous call.

Brooke

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A male reader, Smiffy Spain +, writes (6 April 2008):

Smiffy agony auntMy advice is....you know by the number whn he is calling...dont answer...this is very creepy and very dangerous....he could be anyone....and do anything

I would say if you do decide to answer a call that you are passing his number onto the police....

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2008):

I agree that it is creepy. He could be lying about everything. And if he got the number from one of your friends then wouldnt they know him...? And if he was lying about that, then where did he get your number?? And why did he keep calling back? I wouldnt tell him you have a crush on him. Maybe say you would like to meet in person and then if you like him in person, let him know. Meet in a public place!! Do not be stupid. You do not know this man at all. Bring a friend or someone and meet in a mall or somewhere crowded with people.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2008):

It's kinda cute but it's kinda creppy ..... I don't know if you should trust this guy... He may be some kinda stalker.... or not ... Maybe you should tell him you like him and met him .... but don't go alone ....

that's all the advice I have for you ... Ihope it helped

*~VG~*

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