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female
age
30-35,
*uvin ryan 4lyf
writes:Hey, Well this is a very long one, so please take your time to read it properly, it would mean a lot to me. I have recently been on holiday to Skegness and I live 3 hours away from there by car, and I met someone over there and he is wonderful, I'm 17 and he is 16 but at the time I didn't know this as he could pass for a 19 or 20 year old and I really liked him a lot, all we did was kiss but it felt very different from anybody else I have kissed, it felt magical. When I came back I just thought to myslef stop being so stupid I won't see him again, it was just a little holiday fling. But a day later he texted me saying how much he enjoyed spending time with me, throwing loads of compliments at me and saying he wants to meet me again. We were texting each other constantly and then he asked if I wanted to come down for the weekend. He and his mate were going to pick me and a mate up and drive us down there and had a caravan for us to stay in up there (his mate's dad owns it) and they were saying they were going to pay for everything so don't bother bringing any money. Me and my mate were up for it but the only thing was that my parents are really strict with me because they have no trust in me as I wasn't an angel when I was younger, so going away for the weekend was a no no and especially if it was with a lad and no one to supervise but I'm practically an adult now, I'm 17 I thought. I didn't end up going as I was too scared to face the consequences when I got back so I text him and told him it was off and asked if we could rearrange it for another time, he took ages to text back (he doesn't usually) so I rang him and he said I'll text you back in a minute I'm busy, I said okay and hung up and a few seconds later he said a can do it next weekend but how about the next? So I text back and said sure I can't wait.. something like that lol I can't remember specifically... and basically I haven't heard from him since... it has been over a week now. I really want to meet him again. The other thing is I have a boyfriend and he is 19, we have been together for over 2 months now and since meeting this guy on holiday I think I don't like my boyfriend anymore but I'm not sure... I've cheated on him as I was with him when I kissed this lad on holiday. I'm just really confused... I've told all my mates about it and they said I have known you for years and I can honestly say that you are a wild one all right but you only think you like this guy from holiday so much is because you are addicted to the badboy exciting type. I don't think I am... all I do with my boyfriend is go to each others houses and chat, watch telly and make love... but it's getting pretty boring now... we don't go out because I am a full time student and he is moving in to his own flat so he has hardly any money... I don't know whether to end it or not? and I also don't know whether to waste my time trying to contact this lad from holiday... What should I do? Please help!!!...xx I would really appreciate it.. thanks...xxx
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reader, lovexgurl19  +, writes (6 April 2008):
 Well i think if the guy didnt call you nor text you back its not taking you seriously. You should break up with you bf. And wait and see
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reader, Stayc63088 +, writes (6 April 2008):
 First of all, dump your current boyfriend, definitely. You seem bored with him and also you cheated on him. Not fair to stay with him after that. Do you think the holiday guy really cares about you? or is just in it for the physical aspect? By not answering to you being unable to go and being kind of rude makes it seem like he isnt all that interested in any talking or a real relationship. If all you want is the physical part, you should go for it. Try to arrange a meeting with him and see what happens. If he continues to not talk to you, move on, stop talking to him and leave your boyfriend.
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