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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He wants time to himself now, and we only see each other on weekends! What's up with this guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

10 April 2007 (F)

age - I have been dating a 44 yr old divorcee male. We are the same age and have alot in common. He has told me that he "IS" my boyfriend and will date no one else. He tells me that I have not pushed him into anything as far as a relationship goes. Now, all of a sudden he says, ... (93 words)

Can't forget the guy I had before my current bf! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6434 days ago

10 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a 20 year old girl and i have been with my boyfriend for three years. However things have been very rocky of late. I had a long distance relationship before him and we stayed friends when my bf and i got together. However we no longer talk as our feelings were always strng ... (152 words)

Her parents said that she cant date till she turns 16 but should I still ask her to a concert?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

10 April 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - i met this amazing girl. her parents said that she cant date till she turns 16. i was thinking about taking her to her favorite bands' concert with my youth group. what do you guys think i should do? ... (41 words)

The man I loved went back to his wife to have a baby! Help me understand this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

10 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Im in love with a married man. he has gone back to his wife to have a baby. Why do it to her and me?... (25 words)

We need info on the age of consent laws. Any good websites out there?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6434 days ago

10 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - As an 18 year old girl, I have a lot of younger and older friends. I notice so many younger girls in relationships with older guys, but they aren't getting in trouble. How about some sites for us confused people where we can look up all of this age of consent nonsense? As said, ... (150 words)

I'm 17, he's thirty. Would we be illegal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

10 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 17, he's thirty. Would we be illegal? This is completely hypothetical, by the way, lol. And just what exactly is sex in the sense of age of consent, because this is a foggy area to me. I know I'm legal for guys my age, but what about guys over 18? 16 is age of consent in my ... (117 words)

How can I be more outgoing around girls and become friends with them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

10 April 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I haven't been in a relationship since before the summer of 2007, and I really want to find a girlfriend, someone that I really care about. But I just don't have that many female friends. How can I be more outgoing around girls and become friends with more of them?... (50 words)

When is the best time to perform oral on my new g/f? Before or after pentrative sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6431 days ago

10 April 2007 (M)

- When is the best time to perform oral on my new g/f? Before or after pentrative sex? If this makes her come will she then want sex? If I do this before sex then shouldn't climaxing for her happen at the end of our love making, not the beginning? many thx... (56 words)

Started an affair with a married guy--any advice?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

10 April 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have just started an affair, I have known my husband for 12 years and been married for 10 years. We have 2 yound kids and I love them very much...however I feel that I am falling in love with this other man. I do not feel quilty at all. I don't think I can leave this other ... (94 words)

Confused about my feelings for my bf who's in jail! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6434 days ago

10 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - well you see my boyfriend and i have been together 3 years already. i have a year old son with this guy but he got locked up when my son was 2 weeks old. i dont really feel anything for this guy but he loves me and i cant leave him cuz i'm the only one who is really helping him ... (120 words)

How can I tell if the hot chick on the bus really likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

10 April 2007 (F)

- Hey, I think I have been struck with the love bug and it's killing me!! I have seen this hot chick on the bus I get, I fancied her from the minute I saw her mainly because she is hot! Recently I have found out the woman I liked for many years is getting married. This through me ... (249 words)

I dreamt I was holding a guy's hand and in bed with him! Am I gay??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

10 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a 17 year old male, and i was in a great relationship with the one girl i ever loved and then she broke up with me and i felt so alone. then last night i had a dream about a guy that one of my best girlfriends was dating who i dont know much about and we were holding hands ... (97 words)

He said he doesn't want me to leave but he's afraid to make the "commitement' to me. Should I just walk?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

10 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My current boyfriend and I have been on and off for almost 6 years. We are trying to make it work this time but I have plans for my future and know what I want. He doesn't have the same views so I said then we shouldn't spend any more time with each other. If we still aren't on ... (347 words)

I'm still a virgin an I'm scared first time sex will hurt! Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

10 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 18 and i am still a virgin. i dont no what to do and am scared it will hurt. what if im too tight? ... (26 words)

Do I take a chance and have freedom or choose the secure lifetime with my bf?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

10 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been in a relationship with a great guy for over a year. I'm 21 and he's 27. The courtship was wonderful and we moved in together about 6 months ago and we were engaged earlier in April. But we started having problems shorty after our engagement...Money was tight, I wanted ... (177 words)

Is she frigid? Should I dump her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

10 April 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been going out with this girl for about a month now, and all we've done so far is hugging. She talks about kissing and snogging over MSN, but when I'm in front of her she always finds an excuse not to. I don't want to grab her and snog her in case she's not ready. We're ... (88 words)

I like my brother's friend..but my brother is very protective! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

10 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - plz help me! i really like my brothers mate but the problem is my brother is really protective! I've also been out with one of his friends already and it got serious so their friendship suffered and i don't think he would want that to happen again but i like this lad so much, ... (58 words)

I love him but I feel like I am the other woman in this case because he still has another relationship

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6432 days ago

10 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I was in a relationship for 12 years. We been seperated for 7 months. We both went different ways and had other relationships. Mines ended, so my baby daddy that I had been with for 12 years came back in the picture. We talked and talked he told me he stilled love me and that ... (193 words)

How do you tell a guy you've drunkenly kissed each week that you'd like to take things further?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6434 days ago

10 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - how do you tell a guy you flirt with at work and drunkenly kiss each week...that you would like to take things further, if he feels the same way??? i cant stop thinking about him and think i need to do this in order to clear my head of all the questions!!!... (55 words)

Do you think we should have sex now or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

10 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - well heres my question: i am 14 and am madly in love with my bf of 7 months we have recently been talkin bout having sex for the first time. we are both virgins but he is 16. do you think we should have sex. we have talked about it for a few weeks but not rushed into anything... (76 words)

I'm 14 and my mum doesn't even know my boyfriend exists let alone a baby is on the way in 5 months!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) age 30-35 - hi im louise. i am 14 and i have been going out with this lad ashley now for a while (13 months) his mum knows everything about me and i am really close to her. my mum doesnt even know he exists. i have tried my hardest to keep the fact i have a bf as far away from her as poss ... (217 words)

I feel at the end of my tether and close to tears regarding my relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

10 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hello i have been in a relationship with a man who is older than me by 8yrs, he is 40yrs old and i am 32yrs old. Originally when we first got together, over 2yrs ago i felt he was a breath of fresh air, compared to all my friends, and previous men i had dated. He wasn't... (635 words)

Guys! Does it matter to men if a woman has stretch marks on her body??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6431 days ago

10 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, i know you dont have to be perfect to be found attractive but how important are stretch marks to men? and does it effect them being physically attracted to you?( a males opinion as well please) Thanks x... (45 words)

My partner and I argue and she belittles me--how can I deal with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6434 days ago

10 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am a 27 year Old man with 2 pre-school children and a 3rd child due in July. I am having problems with my relationship with my partner who I love dearly. The problems I /we are having are constant arguing over minor things such as: 1) Money (not that its a problem just ... (200 words)

He wants to go out with the boys more often on his own...will he cheat on me if he does?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

10 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - my long time boyfriend and i have been arguing about him going out with the boys lately. he wants to go out soon alone however i believ he may hang with a guy and girl...thats ok except the girl likes him and im not sure if she would do anything and im not sure if my guy would ... (114 words)

Questions about birth control and pregnancy...advice please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6434 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - i need some help i got a few questions 1 im on the injection is it possible that i might be pregnant because i keep being sick and getting tired 2my parents want me to go on the pill how will this harm my baby if i am pregnant 3 how much will it cost around to get all ... (74 words)

Are there any ways of making anal sex for a girl less painful?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

10 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Does it feel better when a guy's giving a girl anal sex or having sex the regular way? Also..are there any ways of making anal sex for a girl less painful? I recently discovered that when my bf fingers me there it feels really good, but i'm really not too sure i feel abou... (71 words)

She and I have a lot of problems-do I try to get her back or just forget this girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6434 days ago

10 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, am new to this and I hope someone can give me some advice. A year ago I joined a dating website and in the first day a girl sent me a message. We talked every night for many hours on the phone and the web. She then drove 200 miles to see me after 2 weeks and she is so ... (625 words)

I'm 13 and barely hugged a boy while my friend has scored with someone! I need advice on how to do things with the boys??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

10 April 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - im just 13 i've started 2 talk 2 a boy whos 14 and i really like him but hes into se and everything..my best freind is going out with sum1 and scored and i've bearly even hugged a boy. i just want 2 fit in but i don't know how to do anythink i've not started my period yet and ... (87 words)

I really like her but I'm too shy to ask her out! Any tips or suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6425 days ago

10 April 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - To Anyone I think I am in love infact I know I am She is 14 and I 15 we go to differnt schools But we go to church together I think she is the most beutifull girl I have ever seen but I BE TO SHY TO ASK HER.I relly like her she always smiles at me and flirts and I sm ... (76 words)

What if the guy you love is dating someone else? What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6434 days ago

10 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - what if the guy u love is dating someone ele? i really love him see befor we got together i told him i was pregnet and he said he didnt care he said it was gonna be his and he tells me so many things so sweet.... i really love him and i dont want to lose him he said he ju... (85 words)

Don't want to be with ex cuz he cheated, but now I'm having an affair with him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6434 days ago

10 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I got married to a guy, a year later he cheated on me with my best friend, we had a child together. we did not talk for about 2 years, now he is back to see our child, in the mean time a met another guy and got married and had a second child everything was great then i cheated ... (139 words)

He don't communicate with me and I don't know what to do with him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6415 days ago

10 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 29, he is 30 we both born in July month. We now have a child less than 6 months old, we met 5 years ago, dated in the first 2 years and met again in the fourth year, but our relationship has never really taken off, i.e. we don't go out, talk, get to know each other,meet ... (355 words)

Do you bleed the first time?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6356 days ago

10 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a virgin and what i'd like to know is if you definetly bleed the first time you have sex? And also if you bleed still when you've broke your virginity? Thanks... (38 words)

His best female friend is now single.....is he going to feel differently towards her now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6434 days ago

10 April 2007 (F)

- Hi, Im 17 and have been with my boyfriend for about 10 months, we have a really good relationship and i am really happy with him. Recently however, his best female friend has just split up with her boyfriend (I believe they were together for a good year or so), and i know ... (286 words)

Some woman my guy knew is calling me and harrassing us...how do I deal with the stress?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6432 days ago

10 April 2007 (F)

age - I'm new and not sure how to post. I have a problem and need help bad, so I’m going to write to you. December 9th of 07 I met my boyfriend online. This man was calling me 4, 5 and sometimes 7 times a day to chat. Then 3 times in the past four months he wouldn't call me back and ... (785 words)

Life with his ex-wife changed him and it causes me upset! Is this fair to me and is there anything I can do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6434 days ago

10 April 2007 (F)

- I had a causal talk with my boyfriend yesterday. We are in a serious relationship and are planning to buy a house and move in together some time this year. We talked about how men are annoyed at women when they complain about the slightest things, and some women’s expectation ... (262 words)

We slept together-no sex-and he told me he had weird thoughts all night! Does this mean he likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6357 days ago

10 April 2007 (M) age 36-40 - I'm 19 and I came to knew a guy about 9 months ago and we became buddies since then. He's the typical type of 'romeo' who changes gf like changing clothes. But I have to admit I have some feeling towards him and sometimes there's chemistry between us. I tell him anything about ... (147 words)

So many boys want to date me but I reject them all for my married neighbor who is 40! Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6408 days ago

10 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and is madly in love with my neighbor age 44 (looks 30). He is married but only see his family twice a mth over weekends coz they are overseas. We have been seeing each other almost daily for past 2 yrs, but he would only kiss and hug me. I want him to make love to me; ... (138 words)

He keeps saying he wants us to live together and get married.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6434 days ago

10 April 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - my bf keeps saying he wants to live together and get married. he mentioned on Easter he wanted to tell my family but he didn't because he thought he'd embarrass me with an announcement. the problem is, he only seems to bring this up when he thinks i'm mad at him but doesn... (71 words)

It feels distant that he stands there and watches the clock for the time. Should I take this personally?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6434 days ago

10 April 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - my bf comes over my house to visit each night for about 1 1/2 hours after work. he is constantly watching the clock and will not stay 1 minute past the usual time. He's always asking what time it is and he stands up watching t.v while I sit there. He says its bcause he came ... (141 words)

I'm in too deep...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6434 days ago

10 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ive fallen really bad , i care so much he said he loved me ! but he has a girlfriend! i love him so much , i know you will tell me he isnt worth it but i'm in too deep!... (41 words)

My girlfriend has absolutely no confidence and is always putting herself down.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

10 April 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hey. me and my girlfriend have been going out now for 3 and a half months. i really like her in fact i think i love her. im 17 and shes only 14 but we both say age doesnt matter. i am not pushing her into anything. we have had sex twice but i dont make her if she doesnt want ... (226 words)

A woman calls on the phone and tells me all the sexual things she's done to MY BOYFRIEND, he says it's lies...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6428 days ago

10 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend goes out at the weekend with his mates an always ends up at one of there houses after to carry the night on. He eneds up rolling in at silly times the next morning,he knows im not happy with it but he still dose it. last night he gets a call on his mobile, when i ... (97 words)

How do I get my life on course and start feeling better...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6434 days ago

10 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm such a mess. I've had depression since september when I started college, had to drop two of my A levels because I fell too far behind, I got cheated on by the love of my life who broke up with me in October, but we still have sex whenever he gets lonely and rings me because ... (103 words)

I want him to actually take me out somewhere, like a date? Should I ask him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6434 days ago

10 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Well Ive Been with this guy for 6 months now, i really love him and i always see him and go to his house. all we do it kiss, and do other stuff. we havent had sex yet. But we dont do anything else, can he take me out or something?? we're always in his house. he never takes me ... (129 words)

The guy I fancy mailed me asking if I want to go for drink! My friends say not to reply straight away as I will look too keen!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6434 days ago

10 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I really fancy someone at my old job that i left last week. He is 30 and i am 20, and we used to flirt like mad. We built up such a close relationship, but he never asked me out. On my last day he asked for my email address and we exchanged them, had a cuddle and said our ... (153 words)

She cheated on me and we broke up, Ive bumped into her again, We still love each other but I cant get hurt again!! What should I do ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6434 days ago

10 April 2007 (M) - Hi. i have a really big dilemma. I was with my girlfriend for 2 years, then she went to uni and eveythu=ing went worng. she cheated on me once, and then lied to me about ohter smaller issues, and my paranoia adn insecurity went through the roof, so i ended it all. I saw her for ... (106 words)

He feels too pressured for sex!! He only does it for me and hes losing interest rapidly! What Can we do to get it back ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6434 days ago

10 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - We are a couple in our early 30’s. We have been together 4 years. In the main things are fantastic, totally in love, have a lot in common, are very close and hes my best friend its all good except the sex life! Its been about a year now that we have butted heads over this ... (714 words)

I want a relationship with communication and NOT secrets!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6434 days ago

10 April 2007 (F)

- My boyfriend of 2 years and I had a really huge fight yesterday. It started when he told me his boss had asked him to work away in the other office for 2 days out of the week, which he would stay down there. He then told me that I couldn't live without him for that long ... (519 words)

I found a used condom underneath my boyfriend's matress and it's not been with ME!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6434 days ago

10 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I found a used condom underneath my boyfriends matress which he claims was ours, however im not that stupid! however this has now lead me to believe that he has been cheating, can anyone find any other answer to this?... (40 words)

I tried to rekindle our friendship and have just made things worse.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6434 days ago

10 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I recently posted a question asking for help because my friend was not talking to me after an argument I had with one of her friends I tried calling her today as we were meant to be meeting up all I got was her answer phone I left her a messsage saying I was apologising to her ... (128 words)

I'm guilty of cheating and now I don't know who to choose.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6434 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - im guilty of two timing! ive been dating my first bf for almost 8 months now. he's serving the country so he's always busy but i love him for who he is. he's funny and lovable. but he can get kinda sticky at times. u know, like talking on the phone every night, calling ... (246 words)

We used to get along so well, no he's so distant towards me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5506 days ago

10 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay i really like this guy and i have done for over a year. We used to get on so well, we were always talking, always texting and whenever we were in the same room we would be talking to each other. I really liked him and i probably made it obvious but i never actually told ... (223 words)

Is it safe to be dependent on someone in a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6434 days ago

10 April 2007 (M) age 41-50 - I feel that someone from outside could understand myself better than I could and that my worth depends on how that person evaluates me. Especially I think like this for any girls I form a relationship with. If she criticizes me or talk things I shared with her with others whom ... (77 words)

I think he's cute, but the shallower side of me seems unsatisfied.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6434 days ago

10 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm in a relationship with a guy for the last 3-4 months. We started off as best friends, and I've never felt such a connection with someone before. Initially I knew he was attracted to me, but I resisted as I was playing something out with someone else. I eventually did end ... (207 words)

I've only JUST passed my driving test but my girlfriend talks as if I've been driving for years!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6434 days ago

10 April 2007 (M) - I have recently passed my driving test! wooohooo! And have been out every day driving since I passed. Now my girlfriend thinks I'm really good at driving. I haven't been really far yet and have stayed local to get used to my new car. However she keeps going on about how her... (189 words)

I don't know whether I've actually been sexually harrassed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6434 days ago

10 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to know whether I've been sexually harrassed. I don't think it counts because I sort of gave consent, I'm annoyed with myself because I didn't have the confidence to tell the guy that I didn't want him to touch me, so I don't think it counts. What can I do to make myself ... (73 words)

I have developed feelings for her but she doesn't feel the same.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6434 days ago

10 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been friends on and off with a girl for 2 years and a half years, but lately we have got closer since my break-up with my ex; she has been helping me through it, talking on the phone, texting, but recetly I have started to develop feelings for her. She kept telling me ... (156 words)

Should I go to live with my dad or try and stick this out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6434 days ago

10 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey! ok I am a 16 year old girl. My parents have been divorced since I was 8 I think? My mom re married and now has 2 toddlers, my dad is still not remarried. I have always had such a strong bond with my dad. I have always been a daddy's girl. I think it is because it has ... (688 words)

I know he will never do it again (have a one night stand) but I just want to smack that girl.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6427 days ago

10 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - okay I decided to stay with my boyfriend after he had a one night stand but it's really hard. everytime i walk down the street im thinking is that the girl? it's driving me insane, when we are together things are gr8 they are even better now than they were before, im scared i ... (137 words)

Do I continue to have 3-somes to please HIM or say something to him about it.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6431 days ago

10 April 2007 (M)

age - Nothing is ever simple.. We are a male couple of 45 and 37, we have been together for 10 years. We are your non- scene couple who have little/few friends, ironically mostly straight. We both work long hard hours and find spare time a premium, however we do enjoy our... (255 words)

What are my options? I don't want to force him for children in the future if I get broody.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

10 April 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My bf and I have been together nearly 4 years. We are engaged. We are planning to marry in the summer. To get to where we are took a lot of arguments and fights because he has been married before and has a child. He didn't see the need to marry. He doesn't want children. I ... (178 words)

He told his ex that he's willing to break it off with me to reconcile with her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6434 days ago

10 April 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi there, I just found out that my boyfriend cheated on me with his ex on one night just last month. I came across his emails to her and realized that he sought her out first. Also, they have been writing emails to each other for quite some time. From the exchange of rece... (260 words)

Together 8 months, but his insecurities are causing rows! How can we stop these petty rows!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6435 days ago

10 April 2007 (F)

- Me and my bf have been together for 8 months we are very much in love but my bf's insecurity is getting to our realtionship causing arguements and fall outs. He did actually 'finish it' by text last night because he had got all funny with me for not contacting him allday. He ... (136 words)

I dont feel the same way about my fiance that I once did, would this be wrong to marry him ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6435 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - I am currently engaged to a wonderful guy, but I am not sure that I love him like I should. Occasionally I would get butterflies but not all the time. Also mostly everything he does bugs the crap out of me. I have my days where I can't get enough of him, but most of the time I ... (205 words)

I am 18 and my girl friend is 14... Is this wrong?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

10 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 18 and my girl friend is 14... Is this wrong?... (12 words)

We're each others first bg/gf but she likes another guy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6434 days ago

10 April 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been going out for 2 months now. We are each other's first bf/gf. It's been going fine, but she likes this guy more than me, but the guy liked her for a bit but is now going out with a different girl. My girlfriend is always sad now and upset, and wants ... (111 words)

No periods for 6 months, I'm not pregnant, and I dont have insurance to go to the docs, What could be wrong ?

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10 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i really need advice! i havent gotten my period in 6 months, and ive taken 8 pregnancy tests, all of which said negative. i also have frequent, sharp pains right by my uterus on both sides, when i walk, or lean my weight towards one side. id go to a doctor, but dont have ... (77 words)

I cant be myself around him, in case he doesnt love me, but he says he wants me to be myself or we will have to end it!!

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10 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Am an 18 years old girl and i have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 months everything was fine at first , i could be my self around him , we always had a laugh , and had loads of things to talk about but now i can't be my self around him i close but there is so much i ... (176 words)

Hes still using the call services contacting women, they text all hours of the day and night, and he says theres nothing in it!!!

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10 April 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have lived with my boyfriend for 4 years, we have been together for about 6. About 3 years ago he started having what I consider "inappropriate relationships". He was buying calling cards to call other girls after I say numerous calls on his cell phone bill. He claims all ... (141 words)

My GF has just come back from a 5 week holiday, she seems to have changed, or am I being paranoid ?

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10 April 2007 (M)

age - My girlfriend of one year has just come back from a five week long holiday on the other side of the world. She's changed. She seems to have something on her mind and she's not affectionate with me. Am I being paranoid or has something happened? ... (48 words)

Im in love with a married man, he says it could take up to 3 months to be together!! What do I do if it has'nt happend ?

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10 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - DearCupid, I am in love with a married man. When we met, I was married but very much separated (my ex husband moved in with another woman 2 weeks later). He told me he was married but separated too, and we dated and fell in love. He would always come to my house because ... (459 words)

Am I really just not ready for a relationship that requires commitment ?

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10 April 2007 (M) age 41-50 - Ok, i am 25 and think that i have a high sex drive or hypersexuality and adrenaline levels in my body. And i am scared of entering in to any kind of commitment as that would really restrict my energy towards a specific person only. And then there are those control traps using ... (118 words)

My husband making me feel so unloved, and unhappy, he is so mean to me and tells me I'm lazy, despite full time college, teaching part time, and looking after 3 kids!!

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10 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Is my marriage over? Please help! I have been married for ten years to my husband. The problem is, I feel so unloved and unhappy. He says very cruel things to me, and acts as though he doesn't care for me at all. I go to college full time, substitute teach part time, not to m... (152 words)

I dont want sex to be a chore in the future, so how do we find the right balance ?

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10 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - there's a lot going on in my life at the moment and i think my sex drive suffers because of it. I can't seem to keep up with my mans demands sometimes. i think it hurts his feelings and i love him deeply and dont wanna make him feel like that, however i dont want to just have ... (82 words)

I want to remain a virgin until my wedding night, my bf just thinks I'm messed psychologically, should I just give in on the sex before marriage thing ?

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10 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm to be married within the next 5 months and things are all ok. I always believed in not having sex before marriage and held up all these years.So my fiance has tried many times to have sex with me and since I refused he has actually stopped trying to get physical with ... (299 words)

My bf doesnt just flirt with other women, he gets their numbers!! Ive told him I'm not happy but he doesnt see it!!

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10 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend doesn't just flirt with women, he takes it a step farther by getting their numbers too. I take some of the blame for his behavior, I introduced him to a pickup artist book I was reading. Since he has read that book he has made it a mission to pickup any ... (169 words)

My gf is 24 and her friend is 40! This relationship of theirs seems messed up, what can I do ?

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10 April 2007 (M)

- My girl is 24, and she became best friends about 2 years ago with a 40 year old woman. About a year before we met. I am not one to come between friendships. But, her friendship with this woman is unhealthy. This woman is not a bad person, mind you, but their relationship is ... (154 words)

After 6 months, she said she was too consumed with the relationship and broke it off!!

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10 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I am in the army where i met this beautiful girl who was dating a guy back home and we instantly became friends..she was having troubles and i stepped in and well one thing lead to another and we started dating! We moved very fast but the feelings were there..I ... (209 words)

What should I do? Act like I dont care? Break up with her?

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10 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok well it starts off me being with my girlfriend for 2 and a half years. During this time we had to attend different schools. I found out that one night when she was drunk she messed around with another guy. After a period apart we got back together. Things had gone along ... (314 words)

I'm 14 and my friends freaked when they found out my bf was 19! Does age matter?

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10 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 14 years old and my boyfriend is 19 years old. We really like each other. I told my friends and they freaked out and they had tons of things to say. I know that the age difference is pretty big but does age really matter if you really like the person. I dont know what to ... (63 words)

After all this crap and abuse I still think of him sometimes! Why am I doing this?

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10 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I wonder if someone might be able to give me some insightful perpectives on my situation. When I was 10, I met this boy because our families lived closeby and were good friends. We liked each other a lot. I know it sounds silly because both of us were just 10. Nevertheless, ... (944 words)

I have 'floppy' labia..will my experienced guy think this is weird?

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10 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a relationship with a guy who is older and more experienced. I would like to have sex with him but im embarrassed as i have 'floppy' labia and am afraid he'll think im deformed. Is this common? and will he think of me as being weird?... (48 words)

I am liking sex with my gf way too much...am I becoming addicted to it?

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10 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I are having sex. I fear that I am becoming addicted to sex, and not caring about other things about her. I love my girlfriend very much. I also love to please her, and really don't want to stop having sex with her. What do I do?... (53 words)

I'm 15 and I like this hockey player who is 20! Is this wrong?

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10 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I met this guy at these hockey games I always attend. He was a player on the ice but he was a goalie. When he wasn't in net he would have to sit on the bench and my friends and I always sat behind the players bench. Well this guy named John (the Goalie) started to stare at ... (175 words)

How important should parent's / friends opinions about your boyfriend be to you?

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10 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - How important is your parent's and friends opinions about your boyfriend to you? I've been going out with a boy for a year and a half now. My parents and my bf didn't get off on the right foot to begin with and in the past he has spoken boldly to them and seemed disrespectful ... (265 words)

My doctor and I are seriously attracted to each other. Is a relationship possible??

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10 April 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My doctor and I are seriously attracted to each other. Is a relationship possible, or is it even legal? Please advise.... (22 words)

I lost a baby and we are trying again...Will my next baby be okay?

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10 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I had i still born on the 13 of this month. i was 5 months and 4 days. i had a little gurl, i got to see her she had my eyes and my husband mouth and nose. (r.i.p. baby gurl) I know can't no other child i have replace the spot she holds in my heart. but me and my husband was ... (109 words)

I'm so depressed it's affecting my bf and out relationship! Any advice?

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10 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i have depression and my boyfriend mood is reflecting off mine so we both end up depressed i don't know what to do he wants the fun loving side of me. i don't know what to do? i ve tried everything... (41 words)

He said he loved me but I didn't reply as I'm not sure about him! What should I do?

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10 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - So my old fling and I have been hanging out...and I'm willing to admit that I still have feelings for him bùt I'm not sure about him...one of the times that I took him home...he told me he loved me. I didn't tell him anything...I just said goodbye. I don't know what to do or ... (57 words)

I don't think we're marriage material..how do I tell him this?

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10 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, ive been thinking a bit lately. Have put a few problems on here and appreciate the advice. Actually no, I value the advice I've received. But one more for you agony aunts. I'm due to be married next year, sex life is non existent, ive never had an orgasm, my dog gets rubbed ... (138 words)

I am very nervous about my b/f going away a week without me! What can I do?

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10 April 2007 (F) - I feel nervous about my b/f going away a week without me..i seriously believe that whether its a guy or girl..if you are away for a week with friends at bars where a lot of partying is happening--you are going to wind up crossing the line somehow--whether its flirting or ... (91 words)

I am bad at relationships! Can anyone help me?

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10 April 2007 (F)

- HaPpy Easter guys...I dunno how to begin or wht 2 say cos actually am all messed up! I feel so lonely cos am single and ppl around me r all couples, I've had 2 relationships in my life and they were quite recent and both of them ended badly I was so in love with them and I gave ... (458 words)