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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I am so confused! Do I love my boyfriend or do I still love my ex??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6419 days ago

16 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i was with my ex boyfriend for 10 months on and off. however at the end off last year we split for good and a few months later i got with someone else and i have recently been told that my ex has now got a new girlfriend i was pleased for him however i was upset as he was my ... (122 words)

She knew about the event before it took place, could she now get in to trouble even though she wasnt involved ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6427 days ago

16 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone i need help i know this girl and she is going around telling everyone about a murder that happend a couple of days ago that she knew about it befor it happend and i was wondering if anyone knows if she will get into trouble if she was truned into the police? she had ... (69 words)

How do I stop wondering about my gf's past relationships?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6427 days ago

16 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I know its none of my business, but I cant help but to wonder about my girlfriend's past relationships (what all she did with them). Why do I do this, and how do I stop?... (38 words)

She 's older than me and is concerned about that. How can I show her that age doesn't matter?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6426 days ago

16 April 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been in love with one of my friends for a while now. I am sixteen but she is 20 months older than me. She says that she finds me attractive and if i were the same age as her she would get with me. How can I show her that age doesn't matter?... (55 words)

My kids are gone and I'md depressed and alone. Who do I turn to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6428 days ago

16 April 2007 (M)

age - I feel as if life is just over. I've spent the past 10 year just raising my children alone, its wrecked my career and now I'm unemployed. My eldest daughters just gone to university the youngest is on her way. Both are happy loads of friends. I'm very depressed and lo... (117 words)

I fell for her hard and I want a chance to be with her! Tell me what I can do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6427 days ago

16 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Thank you in advance for your answers. It all started about a month ago...after I just broke-up with my gf and exactly on the same day she broke-up with her bf. We were complete strangers, almost complete strangers. I met her at a school event a few days before, she is a... (634 words)

He said he never loved me and walked out! I am so depressed that I can't get my life on track! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6428 days ago

16 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am having problems at the moment. Six weeks ago my partner of four years (friend of ten) said he needed some time to figure out what he wanted from the relationship as he wasn't sure that he still loved me. Events came about when I sat him down to talk, and asked him if he ... (604 words)

Is there such a thing as a 'need-to-pee' orgasm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

16 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Can girls really have more than one kind of orgasm? I heard that they can have two- the "normal" kind, and another kind. The "other" kind was once described to me as a sudden need to pee. Does anyone know how much of this is old wives' tale, and how much is true? Is there ... (66 words)

He kissed me and I told him to get off but at first he wouldn't. I don't feel I can trust him anymore. Any advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

16 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Im going to make this quick. Theres this guy, Boy we'll call him. Hes much older than me... 4 yrs. Im twelve hes sixteen. We have been freinds forever and I invited him to this chocolate fondue party. He was in my room eating chocolate. Apparently there was some chocolate... (153 words)

We broke up and I want her back. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6427 days ago

16 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my girfriend of 1 year and 3 months broke up 2 weeks ago, and she said it because the night before i had told her i was that interested in sex with her i enjoy it when the attention is on me, and it wasnt her it was in general, he reasons for breaking up with me were ... (232 words)

Guys, do lads feel the heartbreak we do and what is the perfect girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6427 days ago

16 April 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - This is to all lads, men any age of male. What is the perfect girl? What really matters? Do lads feel the heartbreak we do? How can you tell a lad likes you? Thankyou... (49 words)

My confidence was crushed in the past but I have gained it back. So is it wrong for me to not think I'm 'not' ugly/bad-looking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6420 days ago

16 April 2007 (F)

- Hi I just want to know is it wrong for me to not think I'm ugly/bad-looking? I know I'm not exactly the sexiest, best looking 19 year old girl there is, but I don't think I'm ugly/bad-looking either. But I get girls that (in my opninion) don't 'look after themselves' in... (209 words)

I dumped him and later regretted but now he hardly talks to me! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6427 days ago

16 April 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok... SO im 14, you all probably think im silly and dont no what real love is. But I went out with this lad, i hardly knew him when he asked me out, so first time i said no. He was at my school and in my year but I had never really spoke to him. Eventually after a few days... (266 words)

Condoms the 1st and 2nd time..no condoms the 3rd and 4th time! I am terrified I'm pregnant. ANy advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6428 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) age 30-35 - i need help! i had sex yesterday..first and second with condoms..3rd 4th without a condom..im soo scared that my bf cum inside of me..and it have to be week before i get my period. i think im suppose to get my period around the 20th or 23th..and now im terrified..im 17 and cant ... (92 words)

If we had a great weekend well then why he has not gotten in touch with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6427 days ago

16 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - This weeken my baby daddy stayed with me. We had a great weekend, no arguments no nothing. Then he left Sunday because he had a sofball game to go to. he called on the way back to his home to tell me he was having truck problems so I made sure he was going to be ok. Did not go ... (139 words)

He's catholic, I am not. My opinion on a religious topic struck a nerve with him. Will I always have to watch what I say?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6428 days ago

16 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My partner is Catholic and I am non-religious, although I would not say an atheist... I feel spiritual, but just havn't figured out my beliefs yet and see alot of hypocracy in the human side of religion! I made a comment the other day about religion, as I have a strong and ... (142 words)

He's 7 years older than me! Do I have a chance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6413 days ago

16 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - There's this guy i like but he's 7years older than me, i think he may also like me. Do I have a chance? plz help me!!!! thnx xx... (37 words)

Having a hard time with know my gf had sex with someone else before me! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6428 days ago

16 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm having a hard time with the fact that my girlfriend has had sex with someone before me. I really have no room to talk, as I penetrated before her, I just stopped myself, and was out immediately. I also have done everything except sex previous to our relationship. I real... (96 words)

Any side effects to using 'penis pills'?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6428 days ago

16 April 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - what would the side effects be of a 15 year old using penis pills?... (14 words)

He seems to correlate money with affection! Are his expectations too high, or am I just cold?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6428 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - Did I do something wrong? I picked my fiance up from the airport and couldn't figure out how to unlock my door or the trunk right away, but when I finally got it I got out to ask him how his flight was. He told me to go back and do it again (and kiss and hug him) without ever ... (238 words)

How do you get over your first real girlfriend? Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6428 days ago

16 April 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I need advice now, yet again. My main question is, how do you get over your first real girlfrined. I had one for almost a year, it got serious. We were open and honest with each other. It never hit a rough spot at all. I think someone was just more impressive than me. Shou... (89 words)

Problems with the pill. It's affected my period! Can anyone help me figure this out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6428 days ago

16 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - To whom it may concern, I am writing to you because of a problem i have atm, regarding my period. I started taking the pill about a week ago, because i wanted to be prepared and didn't know the implications of starting taking it when my next period began. I started taking i... (182 words)

My husband had an affair and I left the home 2 years ago. We have dated but I feel I can never trust him again. Any thoughts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6426 days ago

16 April 2007 (F)

age - My husband had an extended affair about 2 years ago..pretty bad. I have left the home and just now filed for divorce, it has been 2 years. We tried to date, but I can't forgive him nor forget. I am afraid he will do it again...is it possible after I divorce him that maybe he ... (79 words)

He doesn't share my feelings...but do you think that there's the possibility of a relationship with this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6426 days ago

16 April 2007 (F)

- I should probably say up front that both the person I'm talking about and I have never had a boyfriend/girlfriend, had sex or even kissed anyone. Also, if some parts of this post aren't clear, it's because I'm attempting to truncate a really huge complicated situatio... (667 words)

Why are some of the male agony aunts so abusive,when sending private mail

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6428 days ago

16 April 2007 (?) age 51-59 - Why are some of the male agony aunts so abusive,when sending private mail ... (13 words)

I have these weird moods where I cry and just want everyone to leave me alone. What is wrong with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6428 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - I dont know whats wrong with me but i have been like this most of my life. I love my boyfriend with all my heart. I have this thing with me where i get really really irritated and annoyed with people and i think it has alot to do with my work cuz i get really pissed off at my ... (264 words)

My best friend and I argued and I want to have a meeting with her to explain things. What should I do and say?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6428 days ago

16 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have recently argued with my best friend. Can you please give me advice on how to organise a meeting between us. Recently someone told me that friends are never your friends if you are quite rich and she when we last argued told me she only liked me because of my money. But I ... (118 words)

Guys, do you find it really unattractive when girls have a gap between the front teeth?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6415 days ago

16 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm a teenager with a gap between my teeth. I was wondering if guys find it really unattractive when girls have a gap between the front teeth. Does it make even pretty girls look ugly in a guy's opinion??... (40 words)

We have a daughter and I want to plan for a future but he doesn't. Should I leave or stay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6344 days ago

16 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for 11 years. And I think it might be time for us to go our seperate ways. We have a 3 year old daughter who makes this situation the hardest. I want to do family things, hangout and make friends together. Save money for our daughter, vacations, ... (230 words)

I only like much older men, guys my age just don't do it for me. Has anyone else felt this way?

This question has 57 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

16 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently, I have realised that I only like much older men than me, I have dated guys my age but it just doesn't do it for me. I'm not talking a couple of years older either, I mean men in their 30s and 40s. Now I have never had a relationship with an older man, and a bad ... (82 words)

She agreed to date me provided we kep it quiet. Now the cat is out of the bag and she just wants to be friends now! What's going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6428 days ago

16 April 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Theres a girl in my class that I really like. We have always had passing conversations and last week I asked her out by writing a letter. In the letter I put some really soppy things. A while after she sat a few meters away from me at dinner with her friends. It was then that ... (219 words)

She's 6 months pregnant and she left me...I want her back! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6418 days ago

16 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, I have recentely parted from my partner, she is six months pregnant. (Please note) that this was my partners decision. For a while we haven't been getting on, there are lots of reasons as to why, but the reason why i write this is because, yes i want her back, an... (144 words)

How long do you think you should be in a relationship for before proposing?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6398 days ago

16 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - How long do you think you should be in a relationship for before proposing? I've been with my girlfriend for five years and it's been fantastic apart from the occasional row over nothing and her having a one night stand near the beginning of the relationship which i've now ... (173 words)

He never gives me a reason to doubt him but I am plaqued with mistrust in this relationship! Why am I this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6428 days ago

16 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have alot of trust / jealousy issues and am looking for some help! My boyfriend is very good to me, and trustworthy, and I have known him for a long time before we got together (he is my bros best mate), yet I still find it really hard to trust him! I hate the thought of what ... (184 words)

I really like this girl who is s lesbian and she thinks I am hot! Is she messing with me or is there a chance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

16 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, Well I really like this girl who is a lesbian, and recently I told her. And she thought it was funny and tried to make me jealous by telling me about her sex life. But then she started to tell me that I'm really hot and stuff. I'm really confused. Is she just me... (67 words)

He deletes the history on his computer so he must still be looking at porn, but hiding it! I hate it and its ruining us!!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

16 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a huge problem with my boyfriend looking at porn (which I know he does). I looked on his computer once and saw in the history all the sites he had been looking through. It hurt so badly and I still can't stop thinking about it everyday, and wondering if he's still doing ... (167 words)

Does a number really matter if both people are equally interested in one another ?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6413 days ago

16 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, im a 17 year old nearly 18 year old seeing a just turned 27 year old, we've been dating for a month now, ive told my parents about this and they seem to think that he is using me and repeatedly say "why would a 27 year old be interested in a kid" but he doesnt seem 27 hes ... (115 words)

I like my drumming instructor but he has a gf! Do I keep my feelings quiet or should I tell him??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6428 days ago

16 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey im a teenager who does drumming lessons,my relatives friend is my teacher,he is older than me and has a girlfriend.he is not happy in his relationship.and i really like him,inside i know i shouldnt...when we together i have a feeling he likes me or is it just me hoping he ... (86 words)

My life is a series of heartache and problems---is everyone's life like this or is it just mine?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6428 days ago

16 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey. i dont really need advice but i its something else i need?? my life has been a complete wreck!! :: when i was 5 i found out my dad was actually not my dad. then when i was six i saw my biological dad in morrisons. then when i was 8 he hung his self before i actually got to ... (166 words)

He doesnt seem as interested about me moving closer to him... Do you think I should now forget the move!?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6294 days ago

16 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear agony aunts/uncles, I have this friend for whom I´ve had a big crush, and so he had for me. Last november we met and told each other feelings, and finally were togheter (without sex). He came back to his country and we kept in touch since then. Some of his emails are r... (165 words)

I want to get married and have a family, but not sure it's what my current bf wants also!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6428 days ago

16 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a dilemma at the moment. My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 2 years. I do love him VERY much. He was my dream guy before I got with him. But I have a problem, I'm 24 and am wanting to start a family soon and get married. I don't want to be having ... (390 words)

I know he wants to chat with me, but how can we make this work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6428 days ago

16 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hello i have a question i met this man on marriage site he said that he would love to chat with me so we got along very well we exchanged e-mails and chatted we live on different continents and he also has too much work therefore we dont chat often he cant even give me an ... (129 words)

Does she want me or not, I'm confused!!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6428 days ago

16 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been in a relationship with this lass for 8 months i meet her through a friend she was once going with, he was sent to prison but they had split up before he went so we started to go out together!i am a lesbian and it is her first time. he has now come out of jail and ... (105 words)

I think im love with my boyfriends brother! Is this just a phase ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6419 days ago

16 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been dating for two years now.I think I am in love with his brother!Is this just a phase or what?... (25 words)

Why does it take so long to find out someones cheating, and does it happen more in LD relationships ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6306 days ago

16 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - When a man cheats (or the other way round) why does it take ages, sometimes, for the other personn to find out that they are having an affair. And when they do find out why may they give them another chance, possibly for them to cheat all over again? Is this more likely t... (61 words)

Is it wrong to be wanted and desired ? Married 14 yrs tomorrow and I want him to be crazy over me!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6428 days ago

16 April 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi all, I really need your help.Is it wrong to have the need to be wanted by someone ? I like attention, but from only someone who loves me. I feel the need to be wanted and desired all the time. Is there sometehing wrong with me ??? I am married and my wedding annivers... (224 words)

Why does my Fiancee blame me for everything when we row, infact even when we dont things are my fault!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6428 days ago

16 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Why is it easier to blame things on someone else when things don't go as one has planned? When there is an arguement betweem my fiancee and myself, no matter who has started he blames always it on me. He brings up the past of me and tells me how it was my fault for this and ... (231 words)

I have a crush on a guy at work, I'm 21 hes 40! I cant read the signs, but could he like me too!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6427 days ago

16 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Please Please Help Me!! I have a major crush on a 40 year old bloke at my work place! I dont know if hes married,divorced or single. I know he has a daughter the same age as me (21) but i dont want to say anything incase he says im too young or hes already taken!! I cannot s... (133 words)

She never told me that she liked my ex, shes now having a fling with him, I'm hurt she never told me before!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6428 days ago

16 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi not sure how to handle this situation. I have a really good friend and we are very close lately she has been going through a bad patch with her man and has been messing around with a few different men. But something she told me yesterday has got to me, she admitted that ... (266 words)

Im 14, but around the time of the month I get very broody!! Why is this ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6428 days ago

16 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, I am 14 years old, and my boyfriend of over a year now is 17. (we havnt had sex.) I love my boy alot and i have alot of trust for him i truely believe hes my soul mate. The question thats on my mind, its kind of been bothering me...Sometimes, usually around when i g... (199 words)

Worried that hes already done the get married have kids thing, It wont happen for us, scared its not me anymore!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6427 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) age 41-50 - I think I am just feeling sorry for myself, but I dont know what to do. I live with my partner, have done for just under 4 years. I love him immensely and that isnt in any doubt on either count of us. He adores me and does do alot for me. We really are good together, a... (610 words)

I'm obsessed with sex because hes not putting out! How can we get it back ? I'm scared Im gonna stray!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6428 days ago

16 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, We have been together 4 years and are still very much in love, we are a young couple in their 30's. I feel as though the relationship is going slowly downhill. We do equally do things for one another, I mean we both share the cooking cleaning, everything and he oftens do... (520 words)

Im in contact with an old flame, I still really like her, but shes seeing someone else, Do I stay in contact incase one day she's available again ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6428 days ago

16 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - i have a problem. i went out with this girl about 6 years ago for a few months and got on really well, just she was pretty young then.i am 4 years older than her we both moved on and i never really forgot her. i got married but my marriage broke up about 6 weeks ago. i sa... (323 words)

She wasnt happy and enjoyed the outside attention, would it work if we got back together, or is she just playing me for a fool!?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6425 days ago

16 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Where do I start? My g/f and I of four years ago split up yesterday, and I'm absouletely heart broken. She is 29 and I 30. The problems started 6mths ago when I questioned our relationship not knowing what I wanted at the time. It didn't help at the time that a long ter... (870 words)

Im sick to death of my husband, Sometimes I love him, others I dont, I want to make it work, maybe I dont, Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6428 days ago

16 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone.. I'm really in trouble here.. I have been married for 4 years with my hubbie for 8 have one child and its just gone down down down hill. I really love my husband but i hate him to. I hate the fact that he promises things and never goes through with it. ... (236 words)

What does the term "Dirty sex" mean ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6428 days ago

16 April 2007 (F)

- Hi, I heard the term 'dirty sex' and i was wondering what it meant exactly. What exactly is dirty sex and what does it include??? Thanks. ... (30 words)

Did my ex really take my little boy out with the girl hes just finished with ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6428 days ago

16 April 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My ex has recently finished with his live in girlfriend and is doing the right thing by allowing her to stay until she can find a place of her own. She thinks it all my fault and has been threatening and violent towards me and because of this and the fact that she will no... (293 words)

Is this all my fault because I wouldnt have sex with him ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6428 days ago

16 April 2007 (F)

- Hi plse help, ive wrote before im in my 30s and a virgin, been with my now ex bf for over 1 yr. He said he needed time to think 3 weeks ago and kicked me out then on saturday just gone i got a phonecall from his mum... his 8 y/o daughter passed on the message me and him are ... (217 words)

Did he act in this way because he is innocent, or because he is guilty of something!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6428 days ago

16 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have been very honest to my boyfriend from the beginning I got with him. But I have a feeling ( a gut one) that he is not. He is not attentive to me as much as he was earlier in the relationship. He mentioned about a female friend of his, and later on, I asked him ... (219 words)

He suddenly stopped calling, dont know what happend, should I call him ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6031 days ago

16 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Sir/Madam, i have been dating a man for a few months and now he suddenly stopped calling me and meeting me, but i really love him and once i sms him but he never give me reply..i dont what happened to him, do you think i should call him.... (52 words)

Should my partner also play the part of my best friend ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6428 days ago

16 April 2007 (F)

- I have a serious bf, but recently, I was thinking to myself, should my life-long partner also plays the role of my best friend? I mean, I trust him and love him dearly, but I sometimes can tell my girlfriend stuff that I would not tell him. Am I doing anything wrong in the ... (71 words)

How important are looks to a man ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6428 days ago

16 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - How important are looks to a man? Long hair, short hair? Short, tall? Brown eyes, blue eyes? How big is too big? How small is too small? What about chest size... does size really matter? Let's get really honest here. We're not all supermodels... but how darn important are ... (63 words)

I've just started using tampons and I'm 18, how do I know if my Hymen is still intact ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6428 days ago

16 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 18, and have only just started using tampons, I'm not active in sports and stuff and i want to know how do i know if my hymen is still intact? I have fingered myself and have been fingered by my boyfriend and have not felt like anything has "broken" inside (i haven't bled ... (89 words)

I feel like he does all the work when it comes to sex, any tips how I can make it better for both of us ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6428 days ago

16 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help please... Alright I feel like my sexual relationship with me and my boyfriend is one way. He always fingers me, gives me head etc. but I don't give him head because I don't like to, I also hate hand jobs (I'm not good at them and don't know what I'm doing. I ... (139 words)

Do you think she slept with this other guy before me when she was 14 ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6375 days ago

16 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I found a picture of my girlfriend and her boyfriend when she was 14. He was acting like he was going to grab her breast, and she didnt look like she minded too much. She was put on birth control at about this age because of her devastating periods. I wonder if she was intim... (257 words)

Would you forgive a boy who cheated on you and lied to you for your entire relationship ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6428 days ago

16 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - would you forgive a boy who cheated on you and lied to you for your entire relationship? he told me he had never done anything further than fingering a girl. 2 years later i have found out he had oral a before our relationship started a couple times. during our 2 year re... (142 words)

Just had my first break up... How do I cope ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6428 days ago

16 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I just had my first break up...how do I cope. He was like my life for five months. Everything I see reminds me of him. I cant get him out of my mind. Any suggestions?... (35 words)

How do I make this sharp pain go away when having sex whilst on top ?

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16 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - When me and my boyfriend are having sex he encourages me to do cowgirl, or girl on top, I try performing this but around my hip I have a sharp pain that makes me want stop. He feels bad and blames himself for pushing me, but I know that it's me. What is this and how do I make ... (62 words)

If shes not physically attractive to me anymore, I loose interest, this prevents a relationship, any advice ?

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16 April 2007 (M) age 41-50 - I am a single guy and have strong belief that i could not be happy with a women unless she is physically attractive to me. In other words, the moment i find her not of much of an attraction physically, i loose interest in her and there is nothing much remaining that would keep ... (160 words)

Together for 6 years and on a break, he needs time to figure it out and I'm hurting, why cant he just tell me it will all be okay!?

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16 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I (of 6 yrs) have been on a break for the past 2 months. It started after a huge fight which was all because of a misunderstanding. Now that things are cleared up, he is still in the "grey." He says he needs time to figure things out, but I miss him a lot. I do ... (169 words)

I like being on top, but how should I move so the guy likes it ?

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16 April 2007 (F) age 41-50 - im 22 and i really got one simple problem , i like being on top but i dont kno really how shall i move foward backward or up down??i mean for a man to be satisfied with it??up and down is good but it slips.oops plus wat speed is best... (50 words)

I'm so sexaully frustrated and my partner isnt meeting my needs!! Its driving me insane what do I do!?

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16 April 2007 (M)

- I no longer know how to deal with feeling sexually frustrated all the time. I have talked to my partner a few times about the lack of action in the bedroom but he doesn't seem to think it is that big a deal. He tells me he doesn't feel like it as often these days and telling me ... (165 words)

His mum really doesnt like me, I want to prove to her that Im not bad and want her to like me, but how ?

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16 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend mother doesnt like me for many reasons and i know one would be that me and my boyfriend have gotten into situations that had to stress out our parents and i know that can be resonable cuz if i were her i probably would think im a troublesome kid too but recently my ... (301 words)

When he said he would quit smoking, did he really mean, I'd like to but dont think I will ?

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16 April 2007 (M)

- After being together for almost a year I found out my bf smoked. He had hid it well and told a few lies to cover it up. When I found out he smoked he said he'd quit when he was ready. When we moved in together he was worried the smoking would be a problem (although he has... (189 words)

Am I just to selfish to ever have a serious relationship, or am I right to wait for "the one"?

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16 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 23 and single. I think I'm always going to be alone, and I feel like a jerk because my standards for women are so specific. The longest relationship I have had is 4 months and it was back in high school. I have never considered any to be "serious" relationships. For the ... (163 words)

I feel like our relationship has gone downhill and he doesnt care, should I leave or give him another chance ?

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16 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years and i do love him we moved in together after only being together for 8 months we bought a car together and we have a cat and a guinea pig since we moved in together i feel as though our relationship has gone down hill and fast it ... (154 words)

He cheats and lies all the time! But tells the kids its my fault daddy wont be at home anymore, how can I leave him in the least damaging way to the children?

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16 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Wow, I am either a hopeless optimist, or just truly pathetic. There is a chance it is a combination of both! I have been with my significant other for nearly 9 years. We have three children together. Through out the years, we have had several issues. The biggest ones, he lies ... (231 words)

Shes so happy with me, but I cant carry on and want out, How do I do it!?

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16 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Ugh I am not happy with my girlfriend anymore. We've been dating for 2 incredible years but I can't do it anymore. I really need out of this relationship but she is so happy with me. What should I do? How can I do this peacefully?... (50 words)

With all this going on I'm depressed and feel as though my BF doesnt care, any ideas how I can be a little happier and get my BF to care more ?

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16 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so i guess even the helper sometimes needs some help. Anyway, a while ago i posted on here with a question about how far i should go with my boyfriend and stuff. Well all of that is going fine and we are really happy in that area. Recently though i have been rather depr... (545 words)

He has left me 3 times in 6 months, this last break up is all too confusing, I Dont think hes coming back, not sure where to go from here!? (long)

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16 April 2007 (F) - We broke up last night. I didn't see it coming. I did, but I didn't. He came home from work around 7:30 (this being Saturday evening) and said to me with no notice, "You're not going to like what i have to say, but I really HAVE to paint the condo (his villa that he wants to... (1687 words)

I've been seeing the guy from work, trouble is how do we be together when there's an object in the way.... The Boss!! ?

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16 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, My problem is that I've met a guy, ive been working with him now for about 3months and he's so lovely... Just recently i got his number and we've texted and spoke to eachother on the phone everyday... We've met up a few times and i spent the night with him on one of... (161 words)

Is it unusual for a couple to not be holding hands or kissing or anything after our first 2 dates?

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16 April 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, i'm 14 years old and recently asked a girl if she'd go out with me via msn, she said yes. I'd known this girl from my last street i lived in and we were good friends but hadnt seen her in about a year and a half. We went out to the cinema at the weekend and it was weird ... (161 words)