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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What does "age of consent" actually mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

8 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - The age of consent in my state is 16. Does this mean if I'm 16 I can consent to sexual activities with someone over 18, 21, etc? All my friends and I keep arguing back and forth about the meaning of 'age of consent'.... (44 words)

She told me about her past fling - was she trying to be honest or what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6467 days ago

8 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - hey guys just wanted to know! if my gf tellin me bout a fling she had in the past which was meaningless no sex btw she told me voluntarily, is this a sign of honesty so i don't find out from someone else?? it did really hurt me tho, and i am the first guy she has been ... (93 words)

He said he still likes his ex, then made me tell him I'd always love him no matter what - does that mean he's going to get w/ her now?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6466 days ago

8 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i was talking on msn wen he told me his ex had texted him saying "do u still like me?" and he texted back "in what tone do u mean like?" and then he told me that he still liked her and had feelings for but he didn't want her. i was really upset, and then he ... (143 words)

We get along great online, but I'm hesitant to meet her in person! What if it goes quiet?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6467 days ago

8 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey, basically i've been getting to know this lass really well on the internet..sounds abit corny i know! But she's been on webcam etc...and well we have a great laugh together! She only lives like an hour away in the car or on train, and we've said why don't we meet up for a ... (140 words)

I wasn't invited to Easter dinner w/ my bf's family! Am I wrong to be a bit upset?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6466 days ago

8 April 2007 (F)

age - After spending much time together this weekend, my bf went off to a big Easter gathering with his family, and some non-family members. I never got an invitation, and it felt like a knife to the heart. It hasn't been the Easter I hoped for! My family is elsewhere in the coun... (103 words)

Why can't he live with the fact that I don't want sex, I just want to make out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6467 days ago

8 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend were making out toppless and it seems that almost everytime we do he starts to pull at my shorts, i hum uh huh or no, and he says ok (deep down we both wanna wait for marrage) well i continue making out and he says "r u serious?" why can't he live with the ... (63 words)

I really like him but he's unsure of the age gap. How will I know if he likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6467 days ago

8 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - well i've liked (practically loved)this lad for about 3 years, recently he broke up with his girlfriend and i wanted to try and get with him. There is 2 problems though - one he is nearly 5 years older than me and second he is my brothers mate! I like him so much but i don't... (176 words)

She has told me she just wants to remain friends but I think I could really fall in love with her. Do I keep trying or move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6466 days ago

8 April 2007 (M)

age - I am a 48 year old who is very interested in a 35 year old female. I have been divorced for 9 yrs and have been looking for a long time for a woman with just her qualities. I am very picky. I have asked her out and we went out twice. She now claims I am too old for her and ... (168 words)

What do YOU think of my boyfriend's comments?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6467 days ago

8 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - What do you do when your friends bail on a night out and you ask your boyfriend if you can join him and his mates and he says "but, I'll feel obligated to be with you all night, when I'm meant to be with my mates?" ... (50 words)

I am in love with some one and he has a girl friend but I cant stop thinking about him it feels horrible how can I stop feeling like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6467 days ago

8 April 2007 (F) age 30-35 - I am in love with some one and he has a girl friend but I cant stop thinking about him it feels horrible how can I stop feeling like this?... (30 words)

I started to have sex a month ago, now I've had 6 guys and feel I just can't say no!!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6467 days ago

8 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I had never had sex until about a month ago. now I have already had sex with six guys and it's almost like I can't say no anymore .. and I cant stop . What do I do ?... (43 words)

Why are the guys in my school so shallow and immature?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6465 days ago

8 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I need a guys opinion. I think the guys in my school are immature because they only think really skinny girls are hot. very skinnneeeeyy. Not true, right? I am curvy and my boobs are big! what else do they want.? I weigh 150lbs and im 5'4'' ...yes i am curvy. Are all ... (61 words)

I need to open up more, how can I do this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6456 days ago

8 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i guess im just really depressed but i need some help. So im almost 15 and i know that i have plenty of time to date but i feel soooo left out. im not a loser, and im likable but i dont know why guys just wont make their move! im kinda shy, and thats is my number 1 curse. ... (197 words)

I told him how I felt and asked him if he felt the same and he said he didnt. He said he likes me but im not his type.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6467 days ago

8 April 2007 (F)

- I have feelings for one of my friends and i thought he did too. We always flirt and he always tries to make sure he can be as close to me as possible when we sit, and he puts his arm around me and sends me texts saying he misses me and I was really convinced he liked me. T... (116 words)

I'm a female, lately I've had mixed up feelings for a female friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6462 days ago

8 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a female, lately I've had mixed up feelings for a female friend, but the thing is that I've always liked guys. I've known her for few months and we became good friends, but I'm not sure why I'm having this feelings for her. I really don't want to have this feelings for her, ... (119 words)

We split up but he wants to stay in touch with me, now he has a new girlfriend, what must she be thinking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6459 days ago

8 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi My ex and I split up last year and have been in contact on and off. We have decided to stay friends, although there had been talk about maybe trying again in the future if we were single when we had sorted personal stuff out. We had also discussed sleeping togethe... (319 words)

He has been getting his friends to ring me assuring me that nothing is going on between them but I don't know what to believe or what to do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6467 days ago

8 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I wrote on here before for some advice bacause 5 months ago i found out my bf was textin and ringin a girl from his work.I had rang the girl to ask why they were textin each other and she said NOTHING was goin on between them and they were just "friends". I told them both that ... (381 words)

Help! I feel I'm losing him and I don't know what to do any more.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6465 days ago

8 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi guys i wrote before about my fella and his mum... u gave so much good advice and im so greatful. my problem is his mum hates me shes done everything to break us us. shes lied and said people have told her im cheating, then shes shown a letter i wrote for him to everyone ... (218 words)

Everything started out great, it was dark, we were kissing, we took off our clothes, and right before game time...I lost my bat!!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6467 days ago

8 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I recently just tried to have sex for the first time ever with my girlfriend. Everything started out great, it was dark, we were kissing, we took off our clothes, and right before game time...I lost my bat! The whole time I was just asking "Why god...why...?" She was unders... (150 words)

How can I let him know I'm not ready for a relationship without hurting his feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6467 days ago

8 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have just started dating a guy who is an absolute gentleman. Problem is that I'm not as attracted to him as I was in the beginging and he is getting more serious than I hoped for. I need some advice on how to let him know I'm not ready for a relationship without hurting ... (67 words)

I've fallen hard for him but he seems to be pushing me away, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6467 days ago

8 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently moved to another state and left all my friends and old relationships ready to start over. I moved and met a guy who made me really realize that i could get over the past and be happy with him. He acted like i was his everything. He told me he hadn't been in an ... (117 words)

Torn between two lovers.......

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6467 days ago

8 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - So basically, there's this boy, J, I was kinda/sorta seeing. I had a crush on him initially, and we just used to talk a lot, really freely. We went out for a few days before I decided it wouldn't work (my mother hates him) and broke it off. Even so, we decided to see each other ... (343 words)

He says he likes me more than a friend but I don't particularly find him physically attractive although he has a terrific personality!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6467 days ago

8 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - ok i really really like my friends personality, hes just like me, we have so many things in common and get on so well, we can talk for hours. thing is hes told me he likes me more then a friend and im confused as i honestly dont find he physically attractive. im confused, ... (68 words)

Should I email him or wait until I see if he emails me first?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6192 days ago

8 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok i started this job last summer, and there i met this great guy, whom is ten years older that me, im 20 and he is 30 but that not an issue. He is funny smart, fit, and attractive. We had been doing some major flirting by way of eye contact, touches, and we even shared a ... (263 words)

After getting over my ex he's came back into my life and I think I'm falling in love with him again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6431 days ago

8 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - 2 years ago, I split up with my boyfriend because he told me he loved my best friend. I was only 15 at the time, but I was devastated, and the break up caused me to become very ill (I ended up going to counselling because I became anorexic/bulimic...). Just recently, I've com... (170 words)

I don't know what to do without ruining our amazing friendship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6467 days ago

8 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey about 7 months ago I met a guy through my friend who was dating him at the time (they split about 2 months ago now). We clicked instantly - our personalities pefectly complimented one another. Over time he's become one of my best friends, but I've also fallen for him in a ... (195 words)

I need some tips on how to lose some weight.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6467 days ago

8 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, i would like some tips on losing weight. I'm not fat or anything, just a bit chubbier than what i'd like to be. So recently i've started going on daily walks and i eat healthier which so far has enabled me to lose about 3kg but i'm at point which i always hit where it is ... (144 words)

I cheated on him twice but now I want to put things right, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6467 days ago

8 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years, and i have cheated on him twice and they were the two biggest mistakes of my life. I just want to put things right between us because I love him so much. I need help what should I do. ... (51 words)

I want to be MORE than just friends with him. Do you think he likes me as much as I like him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6465 days ago

8 April 2007 (F)

- Ok, Im 14 and so is the guy i like. I started talking to him a few days ago, and we already went shopping (not just us 2, but my other friends were there aswel). We just messed about today, talked and basically had fun. I am a tiny bit overweight but when i asked him ... (249 words)

My dad thinks he might be a conman!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6467 days ago

8 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i am 30 years old and divorced with 2 kids i met this guy who was 24 at the time but was not from around my area.at first he was really positive and wanted to spend time with me but then for some reason he stopped replying to my texts then when he did text he seemed as ... (294 words)

How do I find it so hard to let people in and trust them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6467 days ago

8 April 2007 (F)

- I find it hard to let people in. I am dating this really nice guy and I love him more than I have ever loved anyone.. I'm just soo scared.. I dont want to get hurt as I have had some s****y relationships in the past... I told him how I felt and he told me he loved me m... (159 words)

How can I get my stomach to look the same at both sides?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6467 days ago

8 April 2007 (M) - dear cupid I have a small problem, I have recently been losing weight and started to do sit ups etc, now whenever I sit down, my left part of my stomach goes in and the other one doesn't, its likes having a six pack but only one part turns out properly and the other part d... (98 words)

What places do you guys recommend for two 16 year olds to go to know each other?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6467 days ago

8 April 2007 (?) - i really like this girl i met online. she lives in a same town as me so it's not hard to meet as we live close, but i've never met her. i told her she was beautiful in the picture she replied with your so sweet, thanks, etc and since than she was talkin really sweet and more... (188 words)

Shes pregant with my kid but wants to be back with her ex.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6467 days ago

8 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I need opinions! Please ! I have been with my girlfriend for 8 months she left her boyfriend of 8 years for me ! She is pregnant now and since she has become pregnant has been thinking that she wants to go back to her ex. We are amazing together never fight argue or anything... (223 words)

I have lost my self-confidence since I lost him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6467 days ago

8 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I was with this guy for a while, everything was perfect and i had so much confidence in myself... now we have stopped seeing each other, we are still friends but i miss him and it has caused me to become unsure of myself and shy, and almost no social life. What should i do? I'm ... (73 words)

My husband of 5 years says I've never satisfied him sexually and wants me to be like a pornstar with him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6464 days ago

8 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband of five years said that I'v never satisfied him sexualy, and he wants me to perform like the women in his many porn DVD's. Is that reasonable? He expects me to be always ready for sex ie fully shaved (and I'm very hairy) and doing it up the bum with no lube. I just ... (65 words)

I was sexually abused and now I find my bf looking at child porn!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6448 days ago

8 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Last year I found out on my bf's computer that he was looking at porn... but also he was looking at pictures of 11-15 year old boys.. It broke my heart when I found this. I confronted him about this and the fight ended up as me being the bad guy because I was the one who didn... (418 words)

I need to talk with him urgently about our future

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6467 days ago

8 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, i wrote a couple of months ago about my bf wanting to break up with me and he did..... its like hes changed into a completely different person. At first i was quite upset but now ive realised that i dont want to be with the new person hes changed into anyway, its stil... (194 words)

Is she trying to give me the slow brush off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6467 days ago

8 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing a girl from work for about 5 months. It is my first serious relationship, i am 24 she is 25. She previously dated someone else in my company for about 4 years but was repeatedly hurt by him. He would break up with her over what sounds like committment issues ... (251 words)

How do I take it a step further? Do I give him a hint?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6467 days ago

8 April 2007 (F)

- hey! ok well...i work with this guy and all the girls think he's just hot and brilliant and i recently found out that he is interested in me and likes me. We've been speaking for a while now but i can't seem to take it a step further. I've been waiting for him to ask me out o... (114 words)

I want to trust this one but I always get paranoid!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6467 days ago

8 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have had quite a few relationships and i am in one now, but i cant trust my boyfriend, i get paranoid if his phone is off or he doesnt reply to my texts. We have only just started dating but he lives about 20 miles away from me and im scared incase he does something to upset ... (95 words)

I'm against him using porn. Shouldn't he understand?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6465 days ago

8 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i am having problems with my boyfriend. once before i found pornos and i broke em and threw em away.i take that very seriously and i find it disrespecful. i told him if i find them again me and him are done. i am pregnant with his child and it breaks my heart. do you think ... (104 words)

How can I found out if these other boy's like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6467 days ago

8 April 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - dear cupid im 9 years old and i just wanted to ask you somthing, i like a boy namde ryan, i like 2 others boys but I dont know if either of them like me. if they dont tho how do i find out why they dont like me and how can i chage it? Love mayishia... (59 words)

So many doubts about my relationship....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6467 days ago

8 April 2007 (M)

- See also: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-think-i-might-love-my-chubby-hairy.html My New Girlfriend is acting werld for the next 3 weeks shes on a job centre course from 1pm - 4pm everyday now wouldn't u think she would agree 2 met me at 4pm till 5pm i know its only an ... (326 words)

When I watch a couple making out of something sexual I get turned on. Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6467 days ago

8 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - why does this situation happen? i'm always curious. whenever i watch a couple making out or having sex, or lesbians doing the same thing, my vagina reacts with a feeling and i could feel it reacting. it does not hurt. why does this happen?... (47 words)

I think I might love my chubby, hairy, saggy girlfriend but sex puts me off!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6173 days ago

8 April 2007 (M)

- See also: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/so-many-doubts-about-my-relationship.html Is This Normal? when i was in high school i was 15 dateing a 14 year old girl and she was on the chubby side and everyone all my mates and family picked on me because of her size. and... (431 words)

He doesn't like saying "I love you" Is he only with me for sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6467 days ago

8 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend doesn't like saying i love you even when i say i love you to him. it seems like if ever he says i love which is once in blue moon, he's under pressure to say it. i always feel that he's with me for wrong reasons. i say i love you to him everynight b'fore i go to ... (124 words)

I did things with my friend's ex and I regret it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6467 days ago

8 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I wanted to ask for an advice. Few weeks ago I went out with some friends, whom I haven´t seen for a while. We were enjoying ourselves and having some drinks. Later that evening, I asked a male friend to give me a lift home. To make it short, this guy dated a friend f... (96 words)

Ex made me choose between him and his mate!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6465 days ago

8 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I just started to date my ex really good friend and when he told him, my ex totally flipped and couple of days later, asked him to choose between him and me. Given 20 year friendship, he had to choose my ex. Right now we are trying to find the best solution. We both tried ... (65 words)

28, a virgin, and scared beyond hope - normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6445 days ago

8 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - So it seems that I'm going to be 28 soon, it's been 6 years that I have asked that infamous question "why am I single" and to this date, I'm still clueless. I remain single, virgin, daily masturbation routine, and pretty-much forced to live life within my own thoughts and ... (263 words)

How can I trust him? Is he seeing someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6464 days ago

8 April 2007 (F)

age - i am having mixed feelings about my ex he has told me that we are working on our relationship. He knows that if he gets in a bind that i always back him up.but when it comes to his feelings he wont be open with me, if i called him to do something for me he will. I keep asking ... (100 words)

She sees porn cookies on the PC and is accusing me of looking at porn sites!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6468 days ago

8 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My g/f and I have been together for 11 years and we have 2 children together,lately she has been accusing me of looking at porn on the computer. she says its found in the cookies when ever she disects the computer. I AM NOT looking at no porn and for that matter it seems to be ... (102 words)

My boyfriend moved in 3 months ago and our sex life is almost non existent!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6468 days ago

8 April 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - hi my boyfriend moved in 3 months ago and our sex life is almost non existent lucky if its once a week he watches a lot of porn on the computer what should i do we are in our late 30s ... (41 words)

Can you give me some tips on how to appear confident at this function?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6468 days ago

8 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - There is a function on tomorrow night that I badly want to go to but I am really scared as I will be going on my own which I don't really like and there is a fair chance my ex will be there. I don't know how to handle it. I figured that I needed to get back into socialising... (449 words)