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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I haven't been in a relationship since before the summer of 2007, and I really want to find a girlfriend, someone that I really care about. But I just don't have that many female friends. How can I be more outgoing around girls and become friends with more of them? Reply to this Question
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reader, beanie0216 +, writes (11 April 2007):
 You are pretty much old enough to be going to nightclubs, and lounges, and house parties, and fun events like this. You definately should find a girl at one of those places. It's fun to go out and meet all different kind of people. You have to get out to meet them. Good Luck.
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reader, nologo  +, writes (11 April 2007):
 Your expectations for a relationship are too high.
It sounds like you want all the three in one person:
#1: girlfriend; #2: someone to care about; #3: female friend
Although you can learn to be more outgoing around girls, one thing does not lead to another - not in this case.
Many girls treat friends as friends only, boyfriends differently, and they care about someone from their family.
You need more life experience: meet more different people.
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