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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I am 18 and i am still a virgin. i dont no what to do and am scared it will hurt. what if im too tight?
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reader, chrissy32789  +, writes (12 April 2007):
 Dear anonymous writer,
It is gonna hurt when u have sex for the first time and sometimes after but just be relaxed i know most guys like girls on top but when you first do it lay down on your back and let him do it, use a condom mainly the one with lub on it cause on the box they say not to use any other lub on it but let him take it very slow, and u be relaxed think of something special to keep ur mind off it the first time u do it u prolly wont enjoy it but after that it will be so worth it, and as far as being to tight dont worrie you can fit ne size in you the hole will streatch well good luck
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reader, mylove_5757 +, writes (11 April 2007):
 I agree with the fact that you should use lubrication. When I first had sex, I didn't use any, and nothing hurt, all I felt was a little pressure but after a couple minutes, the pressure was gone and it felt amazingly good.
You just have to so very comfortable and relaxed because if you aren't then your muscles down there contract even tighter.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2007): hi there! first of all you should be completely honest with the person whom you will share this experience with & remember that sex is a special thing, nothing will be like the first time! The more relaxed the environment the better it will be for you. By letting the other person know that you are a virgin will give a clear understanding as to how this person should perform while having intercourse with you, another meanings, allowing you to control the moment by letting the other person know when you are ready to take it to that level. I suggest that foreplay is the best solution & making sure that you are fully lubricated, relaxed and asking the other person to take things nice, slow & gentle*
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