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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Do those "relationship saver" adverts on here work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6437 days ago

6 April 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Has anyone downloaded any of these relationship saver things that are advertised on here, and more importantly are they successful?... (20 words)

My mums BF masturbates over playboy and so it, this upsets her but she wont dump him! What can I do to help her ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6437 days ago

6 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi my mom is going out with a guy and she ahs been with him for nearly three years and time and time again he has been masturbating over playboy girls and it makes my mom really upset she loves him but i told her to kick him out but i dont want to see her with a broken heart, ... (79 words)

I've got genital warts, does this mean I will have to use a condom for the rest of my life, what about when I want to conceive ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6437 days ago

6 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I just started dating a guy and he knows that I have genital warts and we haven't had sex yet. I eventually want to have kids, I'm not talking about anytime soon, but when I do will I have to have his semen implanted inside me so that he doesn't get it? I have been treated for ... (95 words)

I used to masturbate to climax, now I cant and feel empty, am I not ready for sex ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6436 days ago

6 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi ive just turned 19. i strated to masturbate when i was 14 everyhthing was great, got my orgasm and reached my climax and went all the way, you know to the end when u feel that youve released all the tension. i dont feel that any more, i get excited but dont reach my climax ... (83 words)

I used to hate him, now I fancy him! Sometimes he talks to me, others he ignores me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

6 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - When i Started High School In Year 7 There Was The 1 Lad In Year 8 And I Hated Him I Couldnt Stand Him. Im Now In Year 10 And I Am Truely Crushin on him so Badley He Is All I Think About - Heres My Story.. Hes a Teachers Pet, Goody 2 Shoes Ect Ect, Not My Usual Type But F... (319 words)

We have decided to use condoms for our first time, but would it be a good idea to get the morning after pill aswell?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6436 days ago

6 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boy friend are discussing having sex for the first time and i feel fine about it, to be honest i'm quite excited and we're going to use condoms but i was just thinking that i deffinetly don't want to get pregnant or anything i would just cry for days so would it be a ... (94 words)

Does she want to be with me or is it the sex she wants!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6433 days ago

6 April 2007 (M)

age - I have known this girl for over 7 months now it has moved to her staying over sleeping separately then then sleeping together then we split for about a month no contact... Got together again moved in with each other great sex, then she left again wanted to be just friends... ... (109 words)

I'm only 14 and pregnant, by bf told me that if I didnt get rid of it he would through me down the stairs! Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6437 days ago

6 April 2007 (?) age 30-35 - my boyfriend told me if i didnt get rid of his baby he would throw me down the stairs. i finished him because i was scared and even though i love him i dont want him to hurt me or my baby. he has been gettin his friends to ring my mobile. im only 14 what should i do. please ... (66 words)

We are both virgins and his penis is too big, so we cant get it up!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

6 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and I are both virgins and his penis is too big that we cannot get it up ! what can we do ?... (25 words)

I've been with her for a year now but her kids are just out of control!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6437 days ago

6 April 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - i love this girl we've been going out nearly a year, but .... her kids are a pain !!!!they treat her so bad, bullying her wouldnt be far from the truth ! her kids, both boys are 11 yrs and 8 yrs, the 11 yr old is the nasty one he picks on his brother violently and also hits his ... (139 words)

Is this just a coincidence or is she lying to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6435 days ago

6 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend is on birth control. She says that she started at age fourteen because of abnormally bad periods, not to have sex. She started dating her first boyfriend then, which lasted 6 months. Is it a coincidence? Or is she lying to me?... (47 words)

She doesn't want her to go out with my guy friends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6437 days ago

6 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a girlfriend that likes to go to clubs with her girlfriends. She doesnt dance on other guys. I had no problem until she said she didnt want me to go with my guys friends. I think she may be doing something she shouldnt. What should I do?... (53 words)

My husband is 25 years older than I am and the stress between us regarding the age difference is beginning to show.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6438 days ago

6 April 2007 (F) - I am 41 and my husband is 66. We met 13 years ago and have been married for 5 years. We also have an eight year old daughter between us. The problem is we have been having marrital problems and we seem to argue and disagree about almost everything. When we met I was 28 and ... (314 words)

I know my boyfriend has been physical with a man as he's bi-curious, he says he wants to be with me but is that only to make ME happy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6438 days ago

6 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - my bf recently admitted that he has been physical with a man which didn't shock me because i knew he was bi curious. we discussed as to whether he wants to be with me and me alone as a woman or whether he wants to be with a man. he chose me as we both feel that his interest in ... (139 words)

What has caused my libido to drop?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6435 days ago

6 April 2007 (M) - Recently I haven't felt that horny and really for the past year I haven't been as horny as I was when I was about 15-16. I don't know why this is, but in the past few weeks I've had driving tests (3) and eventually passed. This is the only thing I can think of. I've also been ... (94 words)

We used to argue and bicker all the time but now that he's gone I miss him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6437 days ago

6 April 2007 (F)

age - Hello, i live in a sheltered housing for people over 50. There is a shared lounge that we can use to meet up. As we are all over the ages of fifty, we often meet there, and have our own little groups. Just lately one of the gentlemen who live there has had to move out to live ... (419 words)

I'm just not sure how I feel about him any more, my feelings are changing about him and about myself.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6438 days ago

6 April 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for around six months now, he treats me great and I know he does care about me quite alot. This which makes it harder for me to be feeling how i do, because I don't feel as much for him as he does for me. we had a few problems with communicati... (223 words)

It is possible that I miscarried without even knowing I was pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6437 days ago

6 April 2007 (F) - Hi everyone; ok straight to the point, i usually have very light periods at the begining of each month (start between the 1st-3rd). Last month I had sex with my boyfirend, and then not again until yesterday. I had not started my period for april , so i was slightly late and i ... (88 words)

I have feelings for him sometimes and even have feelings of jealousy for this other woman.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6438 days ago

6 April 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - This sounds very silly when I try to sort it out in my head but I am seriously struggling with the issue. I met my boy friend's boss a few months ago and since that time have been around him socially several times. I find him very attractive and if I were not in a commited ... (138 words)

Are there any guys out there who could give me some insight into his behaviour?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6436 days ago

6 April 2007 (F)

- Why would a guy appear to like my attention, look into my eyes, be interested in visiting my blog on Yahoo etc. yet never take the opportunity to return any emails or texts with even an OK or a thank-you. We feel really comfortable with each other at work and have exchanged ... (144 words)

she made out with him and gave him a hand job and this really bothers me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6433 days ago

6 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I like one of my close friends, she is everything i'm looking for in a girl, and i think i might luv her. but the only thin holding me back is that when i asked her out, she said her guy friends are either "jus friends" or "dating friends",at that poitn i was in the 1stone, but ... (232 words)

Should I finish with my current boyfriend and move in on this other guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6437 days ago

6 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in a long term relationship, but i recently met someone else at a party and can't stop thinking about him, what should I do?... (25 words)

I fear that we have formed a codependency, he wants control over so much of what I do and makes me feel bad about being me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6437 days ago

6 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been in a relationship for 4 years with my boyfriend. It has been pretty intense as we went to uni together and have lived together for over 2 years. We got together as each others first serious partner. I fear that we have formed a codependency, he wants control over so ... (166 words)

I feel so depressed all the time. How can I get back to my happy bubbly self?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

6 April 2007 (F)

- hii at the moment i am 14 and pretty much every day im deppressed even when im with my mates and having a great time people will always ask whats up becuase these past 2 years have been awful for me and i dont no how to get back to myself again i mean i got compleatly ... (170 words)

I have a crush on my fencing teacher but I think he likes me too.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6433 days ago

6 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Readers, I have this crush on this guy who is about five years my senior, and he is one of my fencing coaches. I have a crush on him, but I haven't told him yet! Also, I think he has a crush on me too, because when my parents signed me up for private fencinng session... (107 words)

He doesn't even want to be friends with me any more and I love him oh so much!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6436 days ago

6 April 2007 (F)

- hey at the minutie im trying to get over someone ive loved more then anything and had my heartbroken over many times so i decided that i would only try and like this guy as a friend (which is what he thinks of me) but for the last for weeks ive been tryin to be his mate and he ... (207 words)

Can anyone justify or translate his behaviour?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6438 days ago

6 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, so... I got with my bf at the beginning of the year and we've just split up now.. so we were together around 3 months. I was his first proper girlfriend... He never used to call me, or text me and everyime we met up I had to go down see him.. he never came to mine. W... (220 words)

I always get carried away emotionally whereas she's emotionally blocked off.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6432 days ago

6 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my girlfriend have been going out for three months now and i am starting to develop feelings for her but shes unsure. Im scared from past relationships while shes had none. I want a fairly serious relationship but she just wants fun and wants to take things very slowly. ... (109 words)

One of our best friends even decided that she doesn’t want to speak with him or even see him again because of how he's been treating me since getting married.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6438 days ago

6 April 2007 (F)

- My husband and I have been having relationship problems ever since we got married a bit over a year ago. (We have been together a total of 4 years.) Our problems range from him not helping me around the house, to making “dates” with his ex, to saying insulting things about my ... (296 words)

Everyone thinks we're an item...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6437 days ago

6 April 2007 (F)

- Ok, Im 14 and so is the guy i like. I started talking to him a few days ago, and we already went shopping today (not just us 2, but my other friends were there aswel). We just messed about today, talked and basically had fun. I am a tiny bit overweight but when i asked him... (221 words)

I don't have much interest in either sexes, could I be "asexual?"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6433 days ago

6 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I am worried that i might be asexual as i don't have much interest in either of the sexes. I used to get attracted to girls when i was younger (now i am 24), but my shyness prevented me from relating with them at an intimate level. This along with some failures i had in ... (172 words)

How can I get rid of these feelings for my teacher?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

6 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, i really need your help here. I wrote up just before christmas i think the title of my question was "i don't want to think about her like i do becuase i don't want to be bi". Anyway i have come to realise i'm not gay or bisexual but i still am really really confused. The ... (561 words)

I thought I loved my boyfriend but I can't stop thinking about this other guy.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6437 days ago

6 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Cupid, Help! I have a great boyfriend, however I cant stop thinking about this guy I meet 6 months ago. The new guy and I exchanged #'s but we never met, just chatted. Needless to say we have not chatted in a while and I feel sad. Why do I feel this way, I thought I love... (93 words)

I'm just sick of being alone and having no one to make me feel loved.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6314 days ago

6 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically, i'm just sick of being alone. Im 17, and i've never had a boyfriend. Well, not a proper one at least. I think i had one a couple of years back, but it lasted about 2 weeks, so i don't consider it so. I've only ever had one kiss (and it wasn't that great!). I look ... (228 words)

How can my boyfriend be so certain that I'm really the one for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6434 days ago

6 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello. I'm 22 and my bf will be 24 in a couple of months. We've been dating about 1.5 years and up until recently it was so wonderful. He is my first long term boyfriend and I lost my virginity to him. He has had prior relationships lasting a few months at a time and has ... (366 words)

How can I forgive him in my heart and move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6436 days ago

6 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel such hatred toward my ex and I don't know how to get over it, even 3 1/2 months after we split up. I think about him all the time. Any ideas? Also, if I bump into him, I don't want to appear to be bothered by him? Any ideas? Our relationship lasted 3 months ... (844 words)

I don't want to ask him out in case it makes me look desperate!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6438 days ago

6 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Everyone! I really really really like this boy, but I don't know how to tell him without getting embarassed! And my friends all say that I can't ask him out because it will make me look desperate and if he says no I will look stupid. What do I do?!! Please reply to this... (71 words)

How do you build self confidence and become positive about life and become successful in everything you do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6438 days ago

6 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - How do you build self confidence and become positive about life and become successful in everything u do?... (18 words)

Hes out drinking all the time and I know hes dating which I understand but now I am worried that he is spinning out of control

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6438 days ago

6 April 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I wrote 3 months ago about my break up of a very intense affair I had for a year.The break up was because I am married with kids, he wants kids and I cant have anymore.He wants to remain friends and thats working ok but he has changed so much since the breakup. Hes out drinking ... (129 words)

He was told to stop drnking or he won't live much longer but he won't

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6438 days ago

6 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating this guy for 9 months now. All he does is drink because he can't work after being hit by a car 4 years ago. He never has hit me but does call me names like dumb bitch,etc..He now wants a care giver and gets mad when I don't help him put a shirt on or brus... (208 words)

My bf matches his undershirt to his underwear, but don't people only do this when they know they're going to sleep with someone!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6438 days ago

6 April 2007 (F) - Is this weird? My b/f matches his undershirt to his underwear(like grey, black, blue)...He has been doing this since i can remember and does it most times i see him..but isnt this something you do when you are going to sleep with someone? Sometimes i feel like is he going to... (142 words)

I have this notion that I shouldnt talk to women that are married, is this a wierd belief ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6438 days ago

6 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Well, i am 25 yr old single guy and carry this notion about females that it is a kind of abnormal to talk with a woman who is someone else's wife. I shy away or cut short any such conversations and extra care to not come in any close contact with them. Is this belief right or ... (94 words)

I really love him but hes 5yrs older then me! Should I tell him ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6438 days ago

6 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - please help.. There is a guy I really love but hes 5 years older than me..and right now that is a lot..I want to tell him i love him..should I ? ... (31 words)

Im 16 and my mums a bit protective of me and wary that I want to go out, how can I get her to see I wont get into trouble, just want to live a little ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6438 days ago

6 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i never used to go out becuase me and my boyf had trust issues so i never used to go but any way we split up and im now a free single 16yr old girl but now the problem is i started hanging with my one ofmy best firneds and she knows some well dodge people who do drugs alchol ... (237 words)

My past has caught up with me, and I have real issues with intimacy, would counselling help after all this time ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6437 days ago

6 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I am just coming to an end of a complicated breakup in which I have finally realised I have made some huge mistakes but also that I have some personal problems relating to intimacy with other people. This originates from a period when I was alot younger and my step-sister who ... (375 words)

She sometimes smells "off"... and can I just buy lubricant!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6118 days ago

6 April 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend is fishy how do i tell her i dont mean to be mean but the only way i can explain my gfs virgina is the smell of fish i dnt no why but it smellz very odd and can put me off sometimes how can i tell her or is there a way i can gt rid of it wifowt her nowing that im ... (101 words)

Is this what I should be doing, sex-wise?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6438 days ago

6 April 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - i need help!!!!!!!!! i am 15 and my gf is 15 and i have no idea what i am going to do she has asked me to be her first and i was like oh thank you baby but now im freaked out so i found this site why because i know nothing i have seen some porno but i have no idea what i am ... (195 words)

I've been seeing her for a year, we say we love each other kiss cuddle etc, but she refuses to call us boyfriend and girlfriend!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6438 days ago

6 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi and thanks in advance for your help, I have been seeing a girl for a little over a year now. She is amazing and she is perfect for me. I treat her so nice, polite, and id do anything for her, and she knows that. Yet, she refuses to call us "together" or "boyfriend and g... (158 words)

Im normally smitten by him, just lately I dont like him! Will the feelings come back ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6438 days ago

6 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Im 18 and have been going out with my boyfriend for two months. In the past few days I have suddenly felt that I don't like him as much anymore. The entire time we have gone out I have been smitten with him but now I just don't feel the same. Do you think my original ... (70 words)

Is there something wrong about being a virgin at 17 ? How can I reduce the tension ?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6356 days ago

6 April 2007 (F)

- Dear cupid... im a 16 ( almost 17 ) year old female and i was wondering if there is something wrong with me.. ive been with my boyfriend who is 20 for almost a month and we've started talking about sex witch doesnt bother me except that im still a virgin and have absolutl... (139 words)

I'm in love with my male friend, can friends male and female date ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6438 days ago

6 April 2007 (F)

age - I am a 44 year old female and I am in love with my guy friend, he is 47 years old. Can friends ( guy and girl) date?... (32 words)

I'm making all the effort in our relationship, when shes in a good mood its great when shes not I want to scream!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6438 days ago

6 April 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - So i've been going out with my girlfriend for just over a year. Heres my problem: Its a one-sided relationship. It seems like I put all the effort into the relationship. She never really calls me, its always me calling her. It's rarely her inviting me to do something, its me ... (208 words)

We both agreed that long distance was too hard for us (although I would have found a way) we hung out and things were great, not heard since, but I think I love him what should I do!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6436 days ago

6 April 2007 (F) - Hi I'm 23 and I started dating a great guy over Christmas, we had so much fun together but we lived an hour and a half away and only got to see each other on the weekends. We dated like that for three months, and never argued about anything except when and how to get together. ... (581 words)

How do I turn the cheek to him keeping in contact with (all) his exes?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6437 days ago

6 April 2007 (F)

age - My fiance believes that keeping in contact with all of his exes, even as far as going and seeing them in different states, does not mean he is disrespectful to me. I have asked him why he does it and he says, because he wants to stay friends with them. I keep telling him ... (146 words)

Together 16 yrs, shes been battling with depression and now says she doesnt love me! Please help I dont want to lose her!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6434 days ago

6 April 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Please help I have been with my partner for 16 years and 5 wonderful children unfortunatly I have been jealous and controlling over the years and over the past 6 months my partner has been getting counselling for depression 2 weeks ago she decided to tell me she no longer loves ... (158 words)

My friend has suddenly said that my husband has been sexually harrasing her for 10 years!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6436 days ago

6 April 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi,can someone please tell me what kind of a friend would have a complaint about your husband and not tell you ????/ She claims that he has been sexually harrasing her for the past 10yrs, telling her that she is sexy and that he wants to have sex with her. Now she knew th... (190 words)

My gf does moan and groan during sex, but how do I know shes had an orgasm ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6425 days ago

6 April 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - HI i have been havin sex with my girlfriend for the last 5 months and I lost my virginty to her, she does moan and groan alot while we are at it but how do i no if she is having an orgasm or if she has cum? any replies would be grateful thanks... (55 words)

Why should I even try... he was looking at porn even as he was babysitting our kids!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6438 days ago

6 April 2007 (F)

age - found out husband has been on internet porn communicating with numerous women for over a year secretly. as we have had very little sex for over 7 years I find this not only extremely humiliating and painful but an insult to how attractive I am as some of these women were older ... (181 words)

Worried my clean-shaven approach will just emphasise the age gap!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6438 days ago

6 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, Just a quick question for the guys: when a woman completely shaves/waxes all her pubic hair, do you feel like you're with a little girl?? I shave everything because I feel much more comfortable and cleaner, but I've heard many guys say that they feel weird about t... (105 words)

How can I make sure this guy does love me ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6438 days ago

6 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I wanna make sure a guy I know is in love with me (they told me he was). and also, he seems very outgoing with other people but me, so what is going on , does he like me or not? how can i make sure without asking him out? how can i make him to open up to me? and do opposites ... (66 words)

I feel so guilty and horrible for doing this behind her back, should I tell her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6438 days ago

6 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm a bad person, don't judge too harshly. I'm on vacation in England at the moment (I'm from America), and I'm visiting family. I've been spending lots of time with my cousin Diana and her fiance, Jesse, because they're close to my age and we get on well (I'm 18, Diana i... (372 words)