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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I do really like him, but just don't know where I stand and he wont tell me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6414 days ago

30 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm confused! A guy I like admits he likes me and even kissed me a few months ago but now he still says he likes me and wants his freedom, but still texts me a lot and when he sees me with male friends he questions me. I do really like him, but just don't know where I stand and ... (66 words)

Has anyone any advice on how I can improve my body?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6412 days ago

30 April 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I am sixteen years old and am concerned with my body. I know that it is not right to be overly concerned with my body, but it would make me feel better about myself. Unfortunately i cant seem to get the body i want. Do not get me wrong, i and not overweight, in fact i am six ... (156 words)

I hate the girl I am in love with or I am in love with the girl I hate.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

30 April 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I hate the girl I am in love with. Or I am in love with the girl I hate. Not sure exactly how to state it. I have asked her out three times, seeing as she never says no, just that she needs more time and she expects me to be able to guess when she is ready for a relationship. ... (204 words)

When she goes out with me it's jeans and a jumper but shen she goes out with friends she looks amazing!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6413 days ago

30 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi! I am 19 and dating my wonderful 28 year old Girlfriend, we have been together for around 10 months and now live together, but recently she has started to be really funny with what she wears, when she goes out with me its jeans and a jumper but if she goes out with he... (102 words)

She keeps flirting with me but I don't know whether she's being serious or not.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

30 April 2007 (M) - I have a friend who is a girl I work with, she is in a relationship but not a very good one. We have been friends for 6 years and she knows I am in love with her. I told her about 11 months ago how I felt and she said she was very flatterd and that she thinks the world of me ... (208 words)

I had a party a few days ago and ended up sharing my bed with my mates girlfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6413 days ago

30 April 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I need help!! I had a party a few days ago and ended up sharing my bed with my mates girlfriend we had a bit of fun. But didn't go all the way and now I feel guilty cos it's my mates girlfriend and its really awkward between me and her what shall i do!!... (56 words)

We used to date but are now just friends, howeve when I talk to other girls she doesn't like it...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6410 days ago

30 April 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I have a friend I used to date, we work together. Our relationship at work has always been on the proffessional level. During our fragile,(on and off)relationship, I kept my friendship with other females a secret from her. My Female friends were there for me in my time of crisi... (201 words)

My boyfriend has said he wants a girlfriend but does not know that I know...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6408 days ago

30 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend has said he wants a girlfriend (he does not know I know). He told this to a girl that was interested in him. He says he is gay, but dated girls in high school. He has been in a fraternity for a couple of months, so I am led to believe that may have something to ... (106 words)

Is his ex trying to come between us?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

30 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I trust my boyfriend with my life. I just don't understand why when his ex that cheated on him with one of his best friends calls or texts him he answers or texts her back... should I hold this over him or be worried??? She has also been to the bowling alley were he's on a ... (71 words)

I feel that I'm going to lose him due to my sudden mood swings, crying spells, and saying hurtful things.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6413 days ago

30 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 2 years and are still going strong. Sadly I feel that I'm going to lose him though due to my sudden mood swings, crying spells, and saying hurtful things. I don't mean to and I cry after I yell and scream because I feel ... (136 words)

How can I make it up with her father?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6414 days ago

30 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I have recently had a massive break up with my girlfriend which has resorted in violence, We have both seen that there is a way through this and are willing to try but we dont know how to repair the damage that I have caused with her father, which up until know I have had a ... (82 words)

The semester is almost over and our last class is this wednesday, and i don't know whether to ask him for his email or myspace or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - I think this guy in my sculpture class is really cool. He is friendly and talented and helped me learn how to begin sculpting because I had no experience with clay before taking this class. We chit chat sometimes and we even had lunch together once, but he doesn't seem ... (309 words)

We still together now but I dont trust her anymore.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6280 days ago

30 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi Guys, I have been going out with My GF for one year now. One day(3 weeks ago) I saw her Email. She met a man in her job, (in the bar) they have been Emailing and texting each other for a while now, and a lot of tempting words were in those mails, like miss u xx , love u xx , ... (120 words)

How important is closure on a breakup?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6411 days ago

30 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - How important is closure on a breakup? Do the unanswered questions make things harder in the aftermath of a breakup? If a person fails to answer the questions that NEED answering in relation to their actions, should that cause a resentment towards them because of this? ... (56 words)

He says he cares, but I don't feel it. What can I do to make him see him from my eyes or should I just move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6398 days ago

30 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am dating a guy who is very nonchalant in nature and it makes understanding how he really feels about me hard to understand. I feel like I'm trying to get him to open up and it's not working. He says he cares, but I don't feel it. What can I do to make him see him from my ... (66 words)

Is there any other way of finding out if he likes me than just asking him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6301 days ago

30 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this guy who is a year younger than me, one of my friends(not close but still a friend) likes him too but doesn't know i also like him and my best friend previously liked him but thinks it's great that i like him as she is totally over him. When I'm around him at ... (130 words)

Should I take her back??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6412 days ago

30 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I was with my girlfriend for 7 and a half years and we broke up for three months we were really getting to each other and we both parted ways. I still seen her about once every few weeks for the next three months. She never told me she was seeing two guys at once and messed ... (347 words)

I don't know whether to work on it and hopefully get a good end result or just go back to being friends and find someone who does want to go serious.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

30 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - What does it mean honestly? I am 28 and came out of a 6 month relationship a month ago. Met a girl who is 21 and came out of a 5 year relationship 2 month ago. We got on as friends for a while, last monday we actually hooked up at the pub and came back to my place and had sex. ... (192 words)

What on earth did my dream mean???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6325 days ago

30 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - HELP! I had a dream that I was in the mall with my ex, and I kissed her! I honestly have no feelings for her whatsoever, and I have been seeing my current girlfriend for almost a year! What the heck did that dream mean?... (45 words)

I don't want my mum to be alone.........

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6413 days ago

30 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - You may all think Im mad or that my Mum is but here goes, I'll explain a little before I tell you the problem. My Mum's been through tough times for example violent partners and Alcohol and Drug abuse. Maybe she thought that that was her only escape but this eventually led to m... (298 words)

He threw a couple of cushions at me and now my friends are saying he is violent and I should leave him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6411 days ago

30 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi...... This weekend my boyfriend of over 1 year and me fell out. I know this happens all the time but we're currently buying a house together (i know it sounds soon but i've known him a lot longer) which is very stressful. His previous relationships have been hard on ... (186 words)

We broke up last July, I dealt with it as he wasnt around... He's coming home and will be where I am, I cant deal with this, Im too hurt! Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6414 days ago

30 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - sorry long post but pls i really need some help! my fiancee and i broke up in july he said he was too young to be in a relationship. His mum and i were very close and she said it was he was in debt and couldn't cope with the pressure of being adult. he moved away and f... (218 words)

I have a bf, but I get depressed as we dont live together, he likes his own space, I live alone and feel very lonely!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6414 days ago

30 April 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - When it comes to a Monday, I get to feel really depressed. I don't live with my boyfriend (mostly his choice) but we do spend quite a lot of time together. I have lived on my own for over a year. In that time I have never got used to it. I do have friends and things that ... (137 words)

She's flirting with another male, despite knowing I'm interested, he will use her, what can I do ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

30 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - ok i told a friend i liked her and she liked me but then last week she said she only wants me as a friend. i didnt know why she changed her mind but then i knew she started texting another guy from work which i was slightly jealous about and then when we all went out the other ... (128 words)

I ran up and snogged him to get him back for parading his new gf in front of me, now I'm scared he will hurt me!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6414 days ago

30 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have fancied a lad for 2 years and he has just got a new girlfriend and he knows the way I feel about him and his girlfriend and him are always hugging and snogging around my school and they do it in front of me in purpose and Its sooo Upsetting and I keep running to the ... (125 words)

My mum has changed since my dad left, and now I'm having nightmares about her!! Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

30 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I keep having violent nightmares about my mum trying to kill me because ever since my dad left , my mum has changed and she gets really angry and violent towards me and she says its my fault he left and she sometimes hits me to teach me a lesson and I keep dreaming about her ... (80 words)

I thought my friend felt the same way so I took the plunge, now I feel stupid! Has this happend to anyone else ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6394 days ago

30 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - ever told a friend how u feel thinking they feel the same way (as they said they had) just for them to suddenly say they just want to be friends for no obvious reason? i feel so stupid and cant think what ive done. has this happened to anyone and if so how have they dealt ... (61 words)

Hes led me on and then knocked me back! Im heartbroken what can I do ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6414 days ago

30 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi last month i got drunk and told a friend that i fancied him but he never really gave me an answer, just said that he was unsure about whether he wanted to get in a relationship at the minute so i said thats fine and just carried on chatting with him. since then we have bee... (239 words)

I love him so dearly that I can't do without him, but he is proposing to marry the mother of his 7 year old child!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6413 days ago

30 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a lover that is about 28 years old. I love him so dearly that I can't do without him. We have been dating for 2 years now. The problem is that he has a son of 7 who lives with the mother and he is proposing to marry her. Please help me. I am the first daugther of my ... (84 words)

Im 14 and hardly know any boys! How can I best get to know some ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

30 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, i'm a 14 year old girl, but i really don't know any boys! i'm not a shy person and i get on well with most people... the couple of guys i know (my parents' friends' sons) seem to find me fun to talk to and quite good looking :P the thing is that i go to a girls school, ... (103 words)

I don't know how to approach trying to get her interested in me again.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

30 April 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - there is this girl that i went out with for about 18 months about 2 years ago. she broke up with me and i havn't stopped being in love with her since. i'm not sure if i have a chance with her but i asked her to the school prom and she said yes. I don't know how to approach ... (72 words)

Should I tell him I like him too?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

30 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - ok im really confused about my feelins. a friend recently told me he fancied me. i was unsure at first if i felt the same but then the more i spoke 2 him the more i realized i did like him and i told him i liked him back. But then the otha nite wen we met up, he started g... (150 words)

We are both taking precautions but he is still so scared in case I get pregnant.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6407 days ago

30 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 months and we have sex 5 to 6 times a week sometimes more. We most always use a condom and I am on birth control, but he is so scared that he is going to get me pregnant. What can I do to make him see that I won't?... (58 words)

She's not his ex, she's STILL his girlfriend even though I've been seeing him for 2 months.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

30 April 2007 (F)

- I stumbled on this site and read a lot of sensible answers to questions. My boyfriend of two months and I seem to be on and off all the time. We seem to get close physically (we have not gone all the way) and then he wants to meet and tell me that we should cool it. He told me ... (115 words)

Should I continue seeing this man or marry re my own culture and religion?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

30 April 2007 (F)

- hi, ive been through alot of shit in my life and somehow have managed to come out of it all. ive been heart broken twice and hurt. currently i am livin in the opposite side of the country to my parents, i am studyuing and when im finished i am expected to move back down with t... (219 words)

I am in a serious relationship but have a "friends with benefits" relationship with my ex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

30 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have been in a serious relationship with a man I am deeply in love with for eight months now. I have a gut feeling that he will be the one I marry. Before we were in a relationship, we kissed a few times within a period of a week. The first time we kissed, I told... (198 words)

I have sentimental feelings with another girl but I feel pretty let down, can you help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6414 days ago

30 April 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Greetings. For some time now I've been having a sentimental relationship with a female. We are very compatible on the most important levels of this type of relationship. However, on certain occasions I can't help but feeling about 20% let down, because I feel that there is... (100 words)

I am 14 and pregnant and don't really know what to do for the best.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

30 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi agony aunts and uncles. im in a bit of bother and dont know how to handle the situation :S i am pregnant, i know your probably either thinking oh god another teenage slag up duff at 14 how stupid sort of thing but thats to be expected. i have been with my boyfriend now for 6 ... (173 words)

My first cousin and I are in love, is this so wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

30 April 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - About two months ago I admitted my feelings toward a first cousin (after a few drinks, son of my aunt, we are both 42). He confirmed that he felt the same way. we have since been talking and admitted that we have both felt like this for as long as we can remember. After a few ... (210 words)

I have a boyfriend but can't stop thinking about this married guy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6414 days ago

30 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am having same feelings for two persons...one is my boyfriend and other guy was one i flirted with, other guy is married but i cant stop thinking about him, what should i do ya...how can i stop thinking about other guy...please suggest... (44 words)

What makes a person in a relationship feel insecure?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6414 days ago

30 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - what makes a person in a relationship feel insecure,as my boyfriend says im just jealous of his past relationships... (19 words)

I'm 15 in one month and I'm with someone that's only just 25 is there anything wrong with that?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6407 days ago

30 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 in one month and I'm with someong that's only just 25 is there anything wrong with that?... (19 words)

Can I have an abortion without my mum knowing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

30 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i'm 14 and 15 in 1 month and i think i'm late, but i'm not sure because i keep forgeting when my last one was and i think i'm pregnant but i just split up with my boyfriend, my mum only found out 2 day that i wasn't a virgin but she doeasn't know that i have sex with my last ... (197 words)

I have started to have real strong feelings for my friend at school, any advice?

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30 April 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - so i'm good friends with this girl at school and i've now got strong feelings for her. i'm not sure if i should just tell her, for fear of our freindship becoming really wierd if she doesn't feel the same way. any advice... (43 words)

At times I get scared my bf has gone off me--how do I deal with my insecurities?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

30 April 2007 (F)

age - i have shown insecurities to my boyfriend,i dont think he is cheating or anything like that,but i some times get scared he has gone off me or isnt coming round anymore.he says i'm being silly and stop worrying.how can i show i am over this,as i dont want him to feel he has to ... (89 words)

Do you believe it is possible to be 'just' friends with your ex without any feelings of jealousy when either of you move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

30 April 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - OK, here are a few questions for you all about ex's. 1. Do you believe it is possible to be 'just' friends with your ex without any feelings of jealousy when either of you move > 2. Should you both just make a complete fresh start from each other? 3. If your new pa... (112 words)

Girls, is it okay to be in love with someone but have a soft spot for his friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6414 days ago

30 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i wonder if you guys or girls can help with this question. i have asked questions about this before. Basically, i am living with my partner of 3 years, we have a big group of friends who my partner ha been friends with for year and they are now my friends too,there is this ... (322 words)

Is it love when you fight all the time and want to get back at your bf?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6414 days ago

30 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im 16 in june and ive been dating this guy for almost 6 years but he is 22 in june and we have been fighting alot for the last 2 years i dont know if im in love with him.... when we fight i always hurt my self or get really upset and do anything to get him back, what should ... (67 words)

Is this guy just using me, or does he like me ? What would this conversation tell you ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6414 days ago

30 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a conversation i had with a guy i liked, i get most of it but not all.Is he using me? Does he like me? Just please tell me what he means? Me: What do you think of me? Him: How do you mean, you have to be more accurate? Me: What am i to you? Him: You are a f... (396 words)

We dated but then went back to being friends as she wasnt ready, should I wait for something more ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6414 days ago

30 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - i let slip to a close girl friend i liked her n found she liked me too... we weren't 'officially' going out but things were really good for a couple weeks or so until after one day i saw her she TXTd me she wasnt ready for a relationship yet and needs to sort out her own life... (207 words)