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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I have a straight friend who has a girlfriend but I'm curiously attracted to him but he's not interested. Help!!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6446 days ago

28 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - i have a straight friend who has a girlfriend but every time i visit him at home when his girlfriend is out i tend to talk male sex and i feel that i'm curously attracted to him and would like to kiss him but he's not interested. help! ... (48 words)

How do you delete a post you wrote?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6096 days ago

28 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya, can you delete posts you sent? I want to delete one please help if you can?! =] Thanks!... (22 words)

He says he likes me like a sister but I want more than than from him, I want a proper relationship with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6447 days ago

28 April 2007 (F)

- okay..i like this guy hes only 9 days older than me and were extremely close. we always talk to each other online and hes been to my house with friends. A few days ago he said you're like a sister..and im like your brother, that really hurt me coz i like him more than a friend... (173 words)

My girlfriend of 4 years has been acting really unusual lately!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6447 days ago

28 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - pls.help, i need to know whats really going on with my gf. we've been dating for about 4yrs and lately she been acting unusal, for example she just cut her hair very short and added a dye, and during sex, which has decreased dramatically, she tries to insert a finger or two. i ... (76 words)

Should I continue seeing this guy online? My dad would go mental if he knew!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6432 days ago

28 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 13 turning 14 and he's 18 turning 19. I have known him for a while now then a little later we started dating. Sounds stupid but we met over the internet, and haven't met face to face yet. I love him and trust him, that he's being honest with me. But if my father found out ... (67 words)

I really like this guy and sleep with him but I want to keep our relationship secret.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6447 days ago

28 April 2007 (F)

- I sorta hooked up with this guy last night, and we were both drunk, and like we were going to have sex but i said no cause we didnt have protection and we were both drunk and i didnt wanna wake up the next morning having him forget all about it. But I wanna do this with him, ... (189 words)

My boyfriend and I are both 13 and I'm scared in case I want to have sex.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6447 days ago

28 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I Need Help. Im 13 And Have A Boyfriend The Same Age. I Dont Know Whether it is Just My Age Or Not But I AM Scared In case I Want To Have Sex. If That Makes Any Sense. Please Help Me Im Confused. ... (47 words)

What if I've got it wrong and I really do love him? What will I do then? Can someone help me please?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6446 days ago

28 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am married with 3 children. My husband and i have been together for 10 years. Last year he started a new job which meant he had to spend a lot of time away from home. Meanwhile i was pregnant with our 3rd child, running a business and moving house. He became more and ... (392 words)

My boyfriend texts me and I know he loves me but he never tells me how he feels on the phone, only in texts.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6447 days ago

28 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi every one i just want to know if any one out there can help me with my bf the thing is my bf dont talk that much and i dont know why that is really he will text me all the time and tell me how he feels about me but when it comes to talking to me on the phone he wont tell me ... (145 words)

I'm scared he wants to have sex with me because I'm only young.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6446 days ago

28 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My Boyfriend and I Have been seeing each other for a couple of months. Im really scared he wants to have sex and because im only young, im scared that i feel like i do to, is it because of my age or not?... (44 words)

I don´t understand women. Give me some perspective, please!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6445 days ago

28 April 2007 (M)

- I know people will think I´m and idiot at the end of this but it is true. I don´t understand women. Yes I have a sister and I´m still friendly with my mum, I have friends who are girls. But I went on one date and I know it was a disaster because I don´t understand women. ... (127 words)

This long distance relationship didn't work due to costs! But I still feel I was just dumped..can anyone help me with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6447 days ago

28 April 2007 (F)

- I was with this guy, in a long distance relationship, he said that it wouldn't work i knew it wouldn't. He said that we couldn't afford to see each other, which is true. But it doesn't seem much of a reason. I feel so weird about this i miss him but i feel as though i was a ... (109 words)

People say when you want to be confident, you should look at what you´re good at. What does that mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6447 days ago

28 April 2007 (M)

- i´m trying to build up my confidence so that i can do anything i want. I´m already doing that by travelling on my own around europe. There´s just one problem. People say when you want to be confident, you should look at what you´re good at. What does that mean? does that mean ... (76 words)

I'm prideful, but I'm far from selfish, and I never want to see her hurt this bad again. How can I make it up to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6447 days ago

28 April 2007 (M) - I made the mistake of thinking my girlfriend was doing a few things as a cruel mindgame on me, only to find out later that it was a few series of consecutive mistakes. Problem is, I had already yelled at her thinking I was in the right, which resulted in her leaving me. A few ... (279 words)

She been hurt by a guy in her past and is scared to make love to me! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6447 days ago

28 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - i am a virgin, but my girlfriend has had sex once before. it was a really long time ago that she did it, but she was really hurt by the guy emotionally and is afraid something similar will happen again. we've been going out 7 months now and i've assured her that i would never ... (93 words)

Mom seems critical about the way I live my life. I know she loves me and wants to help..but I need tips on how to deal with her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6444 days ago

28 April 2007 (F)

- I feel my mon is real nice to me but too critical sometime and insists on me putting up with people I dislike to be more sociable and to try dating guys I do not like just to see if they can be an interesting boyfriend or somethig, she always puts me down in her appreciations ... (109 words)

Unhappy with my marriage...hubby and I just don't talk and spend time together! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6447 days ago

28 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid, i am been very unhaapy of late my husband and i work 24-7 and we dont spend any quality time together except on our day off. We work together but never see each other if u see what i mean, when we re at home we never seem to converse and to be honest its not often ... (245 words)

I like her but she likes me as a friend..so why can't I just be myself around her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6446 days ago

28 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I like this girl at work but I dont think she likes me,she only likes me as a friend. I get a funny feeling and I cant act myself when Im around her and I just cant seem to talk to her. Im not sure what to do. What should I do? ... (57 words)

Can asexuals have successful romantic relationships with sexuals?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6446 days ago

28 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Can asexuals have successful romantic relationships with sexuals? Hi, I’m a 25 year old guy, still a virgin, and asexual. I was just wondering can asexuals have successful romantic relationships with sexuals? If they can, can you give some example please. Either on websit... (163 words)

I have recently been introduced to my Brother's drinking mate, he is 27 and gorgeous. I really like him but I don't have the confidence to tell him how I feel.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6447 days ago

28 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have recently been introduced to my Brother's drinking mate, he is 27 and gorgeous. I really like him but I don't have the confidence to tell him how I feel. We get on really well and we always flirt and he always gives me a kiss on the cheek when we say goodbye but I am sca... (87 words)

Do you think i should tell this boy that i love him or just keep it to myself?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

28 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Do you think i should tell this boy that i love him or just keep it to myself? my close friends know, and my parents have guessed. he's involved with someone who is also very close to me. although i don't intend to try and break up them (and i doubt i could even if i did tr... (120 words)

I don't trust my friend with anything now that she suddenly told her mom and sister in front of me about my pregnancy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6447 days ago

28 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - you see. i have this frined. ((call her girl)) and i went to her house the other day. we are quite good friends and i do tell her everything. she tells me everything and we keep it to ourselfs. only i went to her house and we was sat in her living room with her mum and her ... (257 words)

I have a very close female friend. it's her birthday in 3 days. We're 16. I dont have much money. Any idea what i could get her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6447 days ago

28 April 2007 (?) - I have a very close female friend. it's her birthday in 3 days. We're 16. I dont have much money. Any idea what i could get her? I got her lots of things at christmas and i'm worrying she might expect the same! plz help!!!... (47 words)

Is it possible for a no strings relationship to develop strings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6447 days ago

28 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it possible for a no strings relationship to develop strings? how can you tell if the person is still interested if strings develop?... (24 words)

I think I might be losing my boy friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6446 days ago

28 April 2007 (?) age 30-35 - Hi! Well I have BIG problem. I think I might be losing my boy friend! well the other day my girl best friend told me that every1 is saying that me nd my boy best m8 BADLY fancy each other.Of course my boyfriend found out about this. Though I do have a major crush on my... (163 words)

What else could cause her to be dry tonight after 3 days no sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6447 days ago

28 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Ive been dating this girl for about 6 months, I lost my virginity to her about 5 months ago. Anyway, she has been really into me and we have a good time together but she has been really weird lately. Every time we have had sex she is always very wet. She may dry up a bit aft... (259 words)

Basically i feel that she deeply wants me to please her, or care for her, but that is not possible as she is quite nasty and forceful.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6447 days ago

28 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - hello, I am a 24 yrs old single guy, currently staying with my uncle and aunt. My aunt seems to be a dominating woman and she is trying to teach me things i don't really agree with. Basically i feel that she deeply wants me to please her, or care for her, but that is not poss... (164 words)

I still hold something in my heart for my old fling.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6445 days ago

28 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm sitting here in this party....its pretty lame. Yoù know I've been thinking aboùt how I'm feeling. I gùess I've noticed that for some reason I still hold something in my heart for my old fling. And I gùess also that I don't know exactly how I'm going with things....I miss ... (152 words)

She has no problem giving me oral, but she won't let me finger her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

28 April 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been fooling around with a girl for a while now, we aren't going out or anything, but whenever we hook up she has no problem giving me oral, but she won't let me finger her. And I found out her ex bf who dated her for ten months had the same problem.. Any ideas why?... (59 words)

I was just curious if there are any products out there that could whiten/lighten my skin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

28 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I was just curious if there are any products out there that could WHITEN + LIGHTEN my skin. When I was small I was born with pale white skin. Since I am older and the sun is out more frequently in my area my skin has been tan. I would like my natural skin color back. I don't ... (104 words)

He is not in love with her but at the same time he won't leave as he feels she will make it difficult for him to see his daughter

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6444 days ago

28 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - this is goin to be a long one sorry i've known this guy for many years but its only over the past two we've really got on. we met up agen round one of our friends house and instantly we had things to talk about and practically ignored everyone else that was there includin my bf ... (428 words)

I've got a bad habit of not realizing and standing up for my mistakes, or when I do it's already too late, so she's always the one coming back.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6447 days ago

Since my girlfriend and I have broken up recently, I've been trying to figure out what went wrong, and even though we both truly love each other, I believe that me not accepting her friends was a big factor.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6447 days ago

28 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Since my girlfriend and I have broken up recently, I've been trying to figure out what went wrong, and even though we both truly love each other, I believe that me not accepting her friends was a big factor. Please know that it wasn't my intention to have her choose me over her ... (177 words)

I want to know if majority of Caucasian girls rather not go out with chinese ethnic background?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6447 days ago

28 April 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a 16 chinese british male, 17 in 3 days. i live in a area where the majority of people are white, there are only 2 other ethnic familys in the town i live in. i've never had a relationship and i've always got denied by girls. they say they like me but not in that kind of ... (76 words)

Is she pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6447 days ago

28 April 2007 (M)

- ok when i first met my new girlfriend she dated a guy who lived pretty close 2 her and they had sex she told me she had a period after him (which i say is good means shes not pregnant) and we have sex 5 days before the end of march with a ripped comdom (i didn't notice) i... (434 words)

Do i risk everything by still seeing him and commiting to our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6447 days ago

28 April 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a single mother of two and have had my ups and downs with men. i have meet the man of my dreams and we have grown very close. he told me something the other night about himself because he wants no secrets and wants us to become closer and move to the next level. he has ... (196 words)

I think i'm fallin for my best mate.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6447 days ago

28 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I think i'm fallin for my best mate. He is soooo cute and treats girls like gold but i am terrrified he'd freak and cut all contact with me, we've been in the same friendship group since early high school and i kinda dated 2 of his close friends, 1 pretty seriously, so i think ... (133 words)

He's currently single but one day he'll find someone and probably settle down, and that will just finish me off. I can't tell him again,and risk our friendship but neither can I watch him be happy with someone else.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

28 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, please look at this I haven't told anyone. Basically I need to go back several years when I was with a guy,lets call him H,for half a year.I broke it off because I still had feelings for my ex,and even though I did like H I didn't think it was fair to put him through my ... (462 words)

I feel jealous that she has had a better life then me and I keep regretting not being with other girls

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6447 days ago

28 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - hey guys need some help! Ive bin with my gf for nearly 5months now, its bin great i love being with her we both feel so comfortable with each other! bt she is my first gf, she has been with 2 other guys n had a fling before, bt the relationships have onli been 2monthn n 2wks! ... (260 words)