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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My boyfriend and I are engaged, and he went in to talk to his boss in the army to quit, but he came back even more confused.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

27 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My Boyfriend and i recently got engaged, hes been in the army for 6 years, we have been together for a year. He recently signed off as he has started to hate it but has to work up until next march. Then today he had to go and see one of his bosses for a talk about why hes ... (109 words)

I love my teacher.

This question has 141 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

27 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and my teacher's 44. I have a feeling that he might like me too. I know it's a big age difference, but I can't help it. He's in here. *points to heart* I can never tell if he's flirting with me or not. When he sits next to me, he's unbelieveably close. I've seen him sit ... (846 words)

Should I tell him how I feel now or leave him alone since he's finally moved on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

27 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, OK so about 3 years ago I was dating this guy who I had known for years. He was amazing, treated me like a princess, was generally a perfect boyfriend. However I went to uni and so I broke up with him I'm not really sure why I just got caught up in everything I think. H... (169 words)

How do I get my man back?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5983 days ago

27 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - How do I get my man back? He tells me he wants to work things out but I am tired of waiting. Should I continue to wait for him?... (29 words)

I live in Spain and cannot speak alot of Spanish.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

27 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I live in Spain and cannot speak alot of Spanish. Theres this really cute Spanish guy i like, but i cant get him to notice me. Its really hard to talk to him as i cannot speak the language very well. Last time i talked to him i looked like an idiot and couldnt get my wor... (85 words)

I still think about his lies and am concerned that I will never be able to trust him again and if you dont have trust, is the relationship going to work? Will I ever be able to trust him again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6409 days ago

27 April 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years now. I love him very much and we have recently bought a house together. Before we met he used to take cocaine. He knew that I was against it and so stopped... or so he told me. Over the years he sent me texts by mistake/ saw ... (213 words)

Because of all these past experiences with those othr lads shes terrifyed of getting hurt and gets scared about that sorta stuff and i don't want her to think i'm joking and trying to make a fool out of her.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

27 April 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - ok ive never wrote up to these sites before so i hope i'm writing this right and that you can help me. One of my best friends is a girl and we have been really close all of our lives. She has found it ahrd to fit in at school and has been bullied a fair bit. I've always s... (327 words)

I'm only 12 years old and I'm pregnant. I did it with 27 year old man. I don't know how to tell my mom.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

27 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Help I'm only 12 years old and I'm pregnant. I did it with 27 year old man. I don't know how to tell my mom. Help!... (30 words)

My ex raped me while we were still going out. He wants me back and being lovesick as I am, I want him back too, but I'm so scared he'll rape me again.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6248 days ago

27 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - It's not a question exactly but i need advice. I dont want you all to say that it's up to you and its your decision or alecture on young love n sex cos i know all that :S but.... I am 15 in a fortnight and my (bf/ex bf) is 17. We went out for 2 and a half months and i told him... (155 words)

I'm scared of being rejected because I have never had a boyfriend before because no one had asked me out. I have started to think that I'm not pretty or thin or nice enough.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6312 days ago

27 April 2007 (F)

- For starters, there is this guy i like but he's a year younger than me. He's 16 and I am going to be 17 next week. I'm worried that if i ask him out, people will laugh at me because he is younger than me. Also, I'm scared of being rejected because I have never had a boyfriend ... (105 words)

He told me that all he needs is one more chance to prove to me that everything will be alright because I am the most important thing to him, but I'm just so confused! What is my problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6416 days ago

27 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a predicament. I recently broke off a 2 year relationship with my great boyfriend. The problem was that currently he is away at school, while I am at home. Even though he is only about an hour away, it is still hard for me because I want to see him so much. Over the past ... (446 words)

Would it be wise to send her an email asking her because I don't have much time after the weekend to ask her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6416 days ago

27 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - There is a college dance coming up soon and i really fancy the person i want to go with. We have made a good friendship this year and we will speak whenever an oppartunity comes. I am slightly shy, I'm scared to ask her. Would it be wise to send her an email asking her becau... (88 words)

How can I tell if he has changed emotionally and if he is ready what are the signs?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6416 days ago

27 April 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Six years ago I met this guy. We dated for about six months. He seemed emotionally unavailable to me so I pretty much moved on. We have remained friends over the years and kept in contact. We met up a few times over those years as well. He showed up to my house unannounced even ... (282 words)

I want the best for her and do love her but am not "in love" with her. Is this just a phase?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

27 April 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been married for a year to a great girl who deserves better than me. We don't have any kids. I had some doubts right before we got hitched but (foolishly) ignored them. There are no really serious problems; it's just "not there". I want the best for her and do love ... (196 words)

He is avoiding me because he doesn't want to hurt me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6415 days ago

27 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have known this guy for over 2 years now and we get along great. About a year ago, we started fooling around, and 2 months ago, I gave him my virginity. We have had sex twice since then, and now he is avoiding me because he doesn't want to hurt me. I am 18 and he's 10 years... (244 words)

He's romantic but impractical.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6416 days ago

27 April 2007 (F) - Hi, This guy at my church admitted he liked me which was really nice, but I told him for now I just wnat to be friends and he agreed and we've been like that for about 6 or 7 months hanging out,we have talked a lot and i really felt a bond being attached with him. I have the ... (420 words)

How do I find the clitoris?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6415 days ago

27 April 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - This might sound like a strange question, but How do I find the clitoris? I know there's a sort of a bump at the top of the vagina area that is really sensitive, and I'm pretty sure that the clitoris is supposed to be able to stick out just below that... One or two of the ... (191 words)

If you're in love with someone and planning a wedding, should you even be thinking about someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6413 days ago

27 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 27 and have been with this guy for almost 9 years. We broke up about 3 1/2 years ago for a whole year. Since we have been back together everything is great.We just purchased a home last year, and we have been engaged since for 6 months. I'm not sure if I love him as much I ... (181 words)

He raped me and forced me to do things! Now he wants me back..should I or shouldn't I?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6178 days ago

27 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - well it jus a question that i know i am the oe toanswer but i would like someone elses point of view. i am 15 in a fortnight. my ((bf/exbf)) is 17 i went out with him for 2 and a half months but i sed i didnt want to sleep with him and he sed ok thats fine and heseemed ok with ... (137 words)

He wants to move into a house with a female work collegue and I am worried and suspicious. Am I over-reacting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6417 days ago

27 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know whether I am over reacting about my boyfriend moving into a new flat with a female collegue, well when he says "flat", it is actually a room in HER house. What I don't understand is that he hasn't hired her yet (but he has known her for a long time) which makes me ... (487 words)

Is it true that if you are on the pill for a long time...you won't have kids, once you stop taking them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

27 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it true that if you are on birth contol pills for many years you cant have kids once you stop taking them? I have been on the pill on and off for about 2 years. If I go a lot longer will I still be able to have kids when I want to? ... (54 words)

As I was leaving his place, he said "I will walk you home if you make it worth my while". Now he's real off with me! Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

27 April 2007 (F) - Im 13 and the lad I like is 16. Weve known eachother a year now. We are really close and gotten into each other alot but it doesn't lead anywhere else.A few days ago i went to his and we got close kissing etc... just as I was about to leave he said I will walk you home if you ... (120 words)

What can we do to stay secret and to make it work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6417 days ago

27 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - For the past year i have been in love with my cousin's ex-husband. He loves me too but there is a 10 year age gap and i'm underage. What can we do to stay secret and to make it work?... (40 words)

Why are homosexuals (male) do polygamy? And why do they resort to threesomes when they feel there is no love in their relationships? Why, huh?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

27 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, just a quick question.... Why are homosexuals (male) do polygamy? And why do they resort to threesomes when they feel there is no love in their relationships... Why, huh? I'm gay and I just feel mad about this! All people that I meet are cheaters or freaks!... (48 words)

I have a heavy period and I'm scared of what will happen in school! Any suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

27 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - dear agony aunt, i have started my perids a couple of days ago, when im in school i feel all scared of what will happen but in my house i am fine, also i am pretty heavy which makes it worse! and when i need to change it i will need my bag but we not allowed. angony aunt ... (77 words)

He doesn't want to chat to me everyday! Do guys really act like this when they love a girl? Or is he scared to let his emotions get the best of him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6409 days ago

27 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - ok i'd like a guys opnion on this. Im in an long distance relationship for the past month, hes on the east coast and im on the west coast. Hes told me he loves me and i love him the only thing is he says i should know he loves me and he shouldnt have to chat to me every day. he ... (133 words)

She keeps pushing me away!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6417 days ago

27 April 2007 (M) - She keeps pushing me away.... My girlfriend and I got into a fight again.....It started on Tuesday when my father made some harsh remarks about the 2 of us to me, while my g.f. was not around. It really upset me and I decided to tell her. Also, my roommate isn't the mo... (440 words)

Im so lonely, I had no one to dance with at the wedding as usual and Im soooo shy, please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

27 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I have just come back from a family wedding and i am so lonely as when i was taking photos of the first dance the bride and groom invited everyone up and i had no one to dance with. I am painfully shy with girls and have only had 1 serious relationship. I am stressed at work ... (70 words)

He took my virginity, but now he doesn't want to see me anymore. I am in love with him so what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

27 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have known this guy for well over 2 years now and we've been best friends. We got together about a year ago we started having oral sex on a pretty regular basis. About 2 months ago, he took my virginity and it was absolutely fantastic! We've done it a total of 3 times, and ... (228 words)

How can I make our sex life more interesting!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

27 April 2007 (F)

age - Has anyone any advice? Been with my bloke for three years and the sex is really boring. He isn't turned on by sexy underwear, i been and tried that one. He just cannot cum with oral sex. We end up in the missionary position all the time. I ask him if there is anything he would ... (121 words)

Could be baby be at risk because the father was on steriods!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

27 April 2007 (F)

- I slept with a stripper 4 months ago and ended up pregnant. I haven't been in contact with him much since then, just to tell him about the baby and stuff like that. He seems interested but that's not the problem. I found out from a friend of his that he's on steroids. Will ... (79 words)

I don't want to be with someone who needs to be online chatting with other women! But he won't stop..what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6417 days ago

27 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I have been in a relationship for about a year with one of our finest Military Seargents who lives on base. We met online on HOTORNOT in the Meet me section and just hit it off from there and see each other on the weekends when were not fighting. I have asked him... (190 words)

Any tips to show my interest, but not come on too heavy!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6417 days ago

27 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there this is quite a silly question but im not sure what I should be doing. I met a guy a week ago at a wedding and ever since I cant stop thinking about him, we talk ever day all the time. Thing is I felt this bond with him almost instantly I felt butterflys when he ... (146 words)

Im not a virgin, but will be my first time with the new person, is it normal to be embarassed ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

27 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm about to sleep with someone for the first time and I feel really nervous about it. I've slept with others but not this person in particular so it will be our first time together. I actually feel a bit embarassed about my nether regions, is this a common thing?! Sounds like ... (72 words)

My jealousy is getting out of control and I dont know how to handle it!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

27 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - im in a year long relationship and over time i have become more and more paranoid that my girlfriend is going to cheat one me. recently shes been goin to pubs and clubs etc with her friends and it makes me feel sick knowing that some guy could be with her. its driving me mad. i ... (79 words)

She told me she wasnt in love me and left, denied having someone else when in truth she has a toyboy!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6417 days ago

27 April 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - i have recently split up with my wife and was just wanting to sound off about it. been with her for 16 years and married for 11 years, we have 3 kids the oldest at 10. i have given her everything shes wanted during our relationship, then she drops the bombshell shes not ... (208 words)

Slept with 6 different men unprotected! Im pregnant, Should I keep the baby ?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6134 days ago

27 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Im Pregnant.. For the past 3 months i have been sleeping with several different guys, six.. two of them are teachers in my school.. usually i stay behind to do "coursework" but always turns into something else.. i have recently found out im pregnant and i am not sure who the... (94 words)

Treated me well until I got attached, Now hes got me where he wants me hes awful to me!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

27 April 2007 (F)

age - i have become a emotional wreck,i have been divorced for 2 years.i got my own house and my 14 year old son lives with me,wasnt to much worried about dating,but thought it would be nice to find someone one day to settle down with and spend the rest of my life with,i'm 44 now.i ... (470 words)

Due to get married after 7ys together, not sure if I'm "in love" him, is this just pre-wedding nerves ?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6413 days ago

27 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Help!! I have been with my partner for nearly 7 years, we live together and are due to get married in a few months. However - I really dont know if I am doing the right thing! I do love him and he is a great guy - BUT - I just dont think that I am 'in love' with him. ... (111 words)

I have strong sexual feelings for my aunt in law. her and my uncle got divorced about a year ago. How can i seduce her without scaring her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

27 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I have strong sexual feelings for my aunt in law. her and my uncle got divorced about a year ago. How can i seduce her without scaring her? any tips?... (30 words)

After 2 years she wants a break, I feel in limbo, what do I do ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

27 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok being dateing this girl for 2 years I worship the grounds she walks on She rcently broke up with me she tells me she stills loves me still misses me but just wants to be friends feel like my heart has been ripped out...... Then she tells me she just wants a breck ... (128 words)

Together 4 yrs, I had to go away, she said she would wait, I got back and shes vanished! How do I deal with no explanation and no contact?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

27 April 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend of four years planned our breakup two months before I was to take a work related trip to Italy.We spent Christmas and the night before I left together.We exchanged gifts made love, and I looked into her eyes to say to her how much I loved her and how much I would ... (211 words)

I really like my ex boyfriends dad! Could he really be in to me too!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

27 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright, so I have always found myself attracted to much older men. I'm 18 now and the men I find sooo sexy are 30-45. Recently, an older man (approx. 40 yrs old) has been talking with me quite a bit. This is messed up, but he's my ex boyfriend's dad. My ex was a bit of a ... (172 words)

Do women shave their private parts for anything other then sexual reasons ?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6044 days ago

27 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Are there other reasons women shave down south besides sexual reasons?... (11 words)

Anyone have a stab at interpretting this dream, and should I tell this guy I love him ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

27 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Lately I've been having really bad dreams about this guy I am in love with. This guy is my closest friend and I would do anything for him. Usually in these dreams he is around me but he is having fun w/ other people usually this one specific guy me and him used to work w/. In ... (280 words)

I'd just like to know how i can get the truth out of John, I mean if he truly cares about me at all he wouldn't lie right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

27 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Ive known this dude for 9 months now and we are really good friends. He and I met at work and I guess you could say we clicked. We were hanging out every weekend, at work, and I even went on his family vacation w/ him (he invited me). I have very strong feelings for this guy, ... (488 words)

I finally found a man thats interested, not gay, and not a jerk... But... Hes married!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

27 April 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - All of my life I have had the worst luck with men. I fall for men who are either gay or not interested, jerks or clueless. I met a guy three months ago and we instantly clicked. We get along really well, he's extremely cute, we make each other laugh, we have a lot of fun ... (239 words)

We are long distance and have alot of phone sex, is that all he wants from me ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6412 days ago

27 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - phone sex can it be away to show you love each other from a distantce ? i mean me and my man have been doing it for a while we are a way for the time being and i feel that its good because masterbation is healty but also because its better than no sexual play with your partner ... (183 words)

He slept with his ex, Im still with him, I love him, But should I stay!?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6396 days ago

27 April 2007 (F)

age - I've been dating this man for 14 months, I thought everything was going well. until 3 weeks ago he told me he went to visit his son from his former gf who only lets him see the child when she wants to, and he works double shifts he can only go when he is off. She has created ... (418 words)

Does she like me? Is it later on down the road? I can't tell! Should i press the issue on further? I don't want to be the annoying guy who she is sick of.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

27 April 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I am so confused and dont know what to do! My story is long but if anyone can help i will really appreciate it. it is puzzleing my mind and i really need some unbiased advice, but you must know the story before you can help. but PLEASE, PLEASE read it and tell me your ... (526 words)

He's been cold with me ever since we got back together, Does he still love me and I just need to be patient ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

27 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - does he love me? ok here goes he say he does but i feel like he dont, we have been thru a hard time in out relationship since hes family doesnt like me and he has been telling them were not together. i love him so and feel as i can say forever but every time i bring up our ... (378 words)

My boyfriend of 5 years has been hitting the pub a lot recently.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6418 days ago

27 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My BF of five years has been "hitting the pub" a lot recently. He goes through these little independence phases every once in a while. I sit at home with our two boys and wait. Then he says he will come home ina few hours and doesn't. On the contrary he will stay out very late ... (92 words)

My husband and I have been married for 2 years and we fight CONSTANTLY.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

27 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I have been married for 2 years and we fight CONSTANTLY. He is verbally abusive and very moody. He was raised in a "broken home" could that have something to do with this. Should we seek marriage counseling? We have an 18 month old baby together and I am worried ... (71 words)

I am 17 years old and want a baby with my 20 year old boyfriend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

27 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - im 17 years old and want a baby with my 20 year old bf. im almost 18 and have a lot going for me but i love him so much and he really wants a baby and so do i were planning to get married and we are moving into together our parents are supportive about our relationship; i dont ... (225 words)

He told me that it was because of his ex wife and how she treated him, that he cant trust anyone anymore.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6417 days ago

27 April 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - i met my bf about a year ago, at first things were great, he would call me almost every hour on the hour, want to see me, be with me, take me out, he wanted to do everything together, until about 2 months ago, when he started to change towards me, he stopped calling me as much ... (205 words)

How can I have a more fulfilling sex life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6417 days ago

27 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have no problem reaching orgasm by myself by stimulating externally, but when i'm with my boyfriend i'm not used to the size of my clit, and when i touch myself there it feels numb, or at least, severely desensitized. it's not like we dry hump til i lose feeling in my lower ... (91 words)

I recently found out that my girlfriend bragged about our sex life to her small group of friends.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

27 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I recently found out that my girlfriend bragged about our sex life to her small group of friends. I was shocked... I don't know if it was a bad shock or a good shock. Probably a little bit of bad shock, but mostly good. Its just, I have never heard of girls bragging up their ... (89 words)

am i being paranoid or what? Do you think she's seeing someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6413 days ago

27 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - hi guys,am i being paranoid or what? my girlfriend of 2yrs has slowly been pushing me away, not turning up at my house on numerous occasions and when she does there is always an excuse, phone was flat out or misplaced it, she dont mms me as often in fact very rarely, dont kiss ... (122 words)

I don't want to be "that girl" that's over emotional and freaks out over everything.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6417 days ago

27 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Whenever I get into a fight with my boyfriend, no matter how small, I almost sob. He's not verbally abusive, it's just that I'm a very nonconfrontational person, and conflicts scare me a lot, I don't know why. To keep from sobbing, I just sit there in silence for a long time ... (187 words)

Should we look into new kissing techniques or do you think it means that I'm just not feeling the chemistry?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6418 days ago

27 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - With the exception of my neck, I am not turned on by my boyfriend's kisses on any parts of my body, to the point that i've sometimes wanted him to stop kissing me because he does it so much (haven't had the heart to bring it up). Should we look into new kissing techniques or do ... (75 words)