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writes:My girlfriend of one year has just come back from a five week long holiday on the other side of the world. She's changed. She seems to have something on her mind and she's not affectionate with me. Am I being paranoid or has something happened?
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reader, Royofthe Rovers +, writes (11 April 2007):
 Yeah, just talk to her about this. Don't be aggresive about it but just say it gently, maybe treat her to a quiet night in, dinner and stuff and just bring it up in conversation. Long holidays away can change people, they come back more chilled and with a different perception on the life they are returning to.
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reader, Dagwood  +, writes (10 April 2007):
 Hi Anon. Well if she' not acting the same as usual then there seems to be some issue that's bothering her. It could be that she met and felt an attraction for another guy whilst away and is questioning your relationship. Or it could be something very simple like; PMT, a money problem or a work issue. If it's really bothering you then discuss it with her but don't put any pressure on her... just be yourself. Be confident not needy. Maybe send her flowers to say how happy you are to have her back...If she really wants to tell you she will... Hope things sort themselves out soon. Take care.
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