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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

She lied to me so much about her past! Why is she doing this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6435 days ago

9 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I love my girlfriend for the past 2 and a half years more than i ever thought possible. In the beginning we would talk all night and realized how much our lives had been the same. I told her the worst things about me and completely trusted her. Over the past few years i am ... (231 words)

I like her so much and I find it very hard for me to date other girls. Do I wait for her?

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9 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - dear cupid.. i got to know this girl 3 years back and that was when i fell for her.i tried approaching her in various kind of ways and not even a chance was given to me by her to get myself near her.she seldom answers my calls and she rarely replies my messages.i confe... (261 words)

I like this teacher and I just can't get her out of my head! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

9 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i wrote up on 6th April this year and posted the question which i have written below, I don't mean to annoy anyone on here but it got no answers and i really really need your help, i hope none of you take this the wrong way with me posting it again i'm just really worried ... (643 words)

I really like her but she's really flirty with other guys and is always being pursued by them...what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6434 days ago

9 April 2007 (M) - theres this girl i've been seeing for about a month who i am crazy about. she says she loves me and wants to be with me. the problem is that she is really flirty with guys and is always being pursued and sleazed over by them. i've been in relationships before with no trust an... (165 words)

Can boys get turned on without getting an erection?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6433 days ago

9 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - heya :) me and my bf are both 16. and we are eachothers first bf/gf. the other day he came round my house and we were snogging and then we got on the bed and were snogging and i was on top of him. my mates say that usually teenage boys get erections just by kissing a girl... (98 words)

It's been 3 months...should I tell him I'm in love with him or should I wait?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6435 days ago

9 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im 16 and i have a 16 year old bf. i think i am falling inlove with him. but i dont know if he loves me. i want to know how he feels and tell him i love him. but im not sure how cos apparently boys dont like talking about how they feel and about their relationship etc... (96 words)

If I don't miss him every second of the day, does that mean I'm not in love with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6434 days ago

9 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hellooo im 16 an have been with my 16 year old bf for 3 months and a bit. i think i am falling in love with him :) because whenever i look into his eyes i just get a wonderful feeling and i just cant stop staring! occasionally i really want to see him and cried last night... (164 words)

Did my new short haircut turn him off me? What's up with this guyt?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6435 days ago

9 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - been with my boyfriend for four months, its been fab in all ways. we spent the week in london this week and it was great. i even asked him if we were spending too much time together. he said no not at all, im loving every day. He also said he wished we were together in 30 years ... (384 words)

My friend doesn't seem to want to talk to me anymore. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6435 days ago

9 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been friends with this girl for nearly a year now and up untill recently we have been very close friends and I think a lot of her. I do not have any sexual feelings for her and I relly value her friend ship. But I had a big argument Sunday night with one of her friends ... (182 words)

Partner totally told me out of the blue that he was leaving me. He is acting weirdly though. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6435 days ago

9 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Help! My partner of nearly four years woke up a few days ago and totally out of the blue told me he was leaving me and moving out. We have always had a good relationship, though with its fair share of hard times (his mother passed away 2 years ago when he was only 19 years ... (162 words)

We spent three years together then he suddenly dumps me with strange reasons. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6435 days ago

9 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm having trouble accepting that my ex doesn't love me. We were together 3 years and one day 4 weeks ago he sprung it on me that he didn't love me and ended our relationship. We were very close throughout our relationship and he was always so affectionate and caring towards me ... (255 words)

I have an opportunity to express my feelings. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6435 days ago

9 April 2007 (M)

- I am currently best friends with a girl I used to go out with. Recently, we had a chat because she had been having trouble with her bf but that seems to have been resolved last night. The problem is that the situation was very similar if not the same as what happened between... (364 words)

When are you not a virgin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

9 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - do you have to orgasm to say that you've had sex or do you just have to have been in and out... (22 words)

bf is very controlling in our relationship. Am I wasting my time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

9 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm with my boyfriend a year and it's been a little rough. We're a lot better now. I'm 19, and I just got an awesome job. Pays a lot. I moved in with my bf months ago, we're paying $800 for the basement of his mother's house. He doesn't have a job right now. I'm paying the ... (138 words)

How do I show the mother of my children that I still care for her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6434 days ago

9 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship with the mother of my children on and off for the past ten years. We have not been together the last 2 years, but it seems as we have had the same relationship as always. The past few months I have realized that with her is where I want to be. ... (117 words)

How can I get my bf to like my parents?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

9 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am with my boyfriend for a year now, and early in the relationship their were harsh words exchaged with my bf and my parents. I love my family so much, and I love my boyfriend so much too. We plan to get married in the future, but my boyfriend won't get involved with my ... (108 words)

We're separated but she stills seems to want to be a couple even though she says differently. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6435 days ago

9 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - i am at the end of my tether, my ex and i split 8 mths ago, we have a 2 yr old daughter and we were living together, in the new year after both walking away from each other i returned to see my daughter, i always said to my mates i was totaly over my ex, but who was i kidding i ... (586 words)

Why hasn't he told his friends that we've brokaen up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6435 days ago

9 April 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello.. Two weeks ago me and my now ex-boyfriend broke up after three months together, we got on really well and did so much together and he is everything I could want in a boyfriend, share same interests, same outlook on life, he cared about me a lot and was very loving a... (621 words)

How do I show a long distance friend that I care for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6435 days ago

9 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I was wondering if a relationship can develop with someone, even if you only see them infrequently. I met an amazing girl two years ago and we became friends. But because we live in separate cities, we have only seen each other six times since we met. When we do meet, it a... (343 words)

He says he loved his ex gf more, in their past relationship, than he does with me! How do I deal with this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6434 days ago

9 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf and I were filling out this book of questions for couples and we said we would be completely honest with each other. We came to "Have you ever known better love?" I said no, but he decided to tell me that he does feel like he was more in love when he was with his ex (his ... (270 words)

I want to have a relationship with my 30 year old teacher! Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6419 days ago

9 April 2007 (F) age 30-35 - Someone please help I'm attracted (to the point of wanting to have a serious relationship) to my highschool teacher, I not entirely sure what to do. He is like 30years old and i'm 15... (35 words)

His Mom doesn't liike me nor does she think I'll be faithful to her son! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6435 days ago

9 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been together for one week now and i love it things couldnt get no better.his mam however told me the other day that she thinks im going to be unfaithfull to my boyfriend with him been in the army and away for a long time, but im not like that and i sed ... (130 words)

I get 'stage fright' and can't get an initial erection, when I start having sex! Any tips to getting over this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6435 days ago

9 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - hey... wenever i go for sex with my gf i get 'stage fright' (cant get an erection) for about 5 mins ... its all good after that but how do i get it to stay up .. thanks :) ... (42 words)

Will my guy ever agree to marriage and children? What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6435 days ago

9 April 2007 (F)

- My boyfriend and I of a year and a half had a conversation last night that I believe will break us up for good. Since I've met him he's been back and forth about ever getting married and having kids one day, he is so scared of this. I told him last night that I cannot ... (142 words)

How can I deal with my feelings for this other married man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6434 days ago

9 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a married woman, and I've fallen for a married man. This started last year when I noticed him from afar looking at me all the time. I ignored him for several months, being married - but eventually I realised I was attracted to him, and we had a serious BOOM moment of ... (495 words)

Is it possible to catch any kind of STI/STD by giving a man a blowjob?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6435 days ago

9 April 2007 (F) - Is it possible to catch any kind of STI/STD by giving a man a blowjob?... (15 words)

I'm starting to have feelings for my best friend's boyfriend.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

9 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i think i'm falling in love with my best friend's boyfriend. he's someone i've been friends with for a while and i see him almost daily, and i've been really close with his girlfriend since we were tiny. now i know he's "off limits" and i would never do anything about the way ... (214 words)

He said he couldn't afford time off work to go away with me for 2 days yet he can afford 2 weeks off to go away with his family!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6435 days ago

9 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend and i have been together for 3yrs+ this year he suggested goin away and i agreed that it would be a good idea i started researching good deals etc. when i approached him bout deals id found he sed that he was interested and will let me no. a few weeks later i asked ... (231 words)

Am I hot or am I not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6435 days ago

9 April 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Are there any ways to tell if i am hot? Because i think i am (im not gloating) and when people say stuff, not about me, like "he's hot" and "he's fit", i think to myself: a)eww thats just wrong, why are you telling me this and b)well am i not as hot as him though? ... (77 words)

My boyfriend has had 100's of one night stands. Can he really have changed and know what 'making love' is?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6435 days ago

9 April 2007 (F)

- My boyfriend has had 100's of one night stands. Can he really have changed and know what 'making love' is? ... (20 words)

My boyfriend's brother has been hitting on me behind his back, should I tell him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6435 days ago

9 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok. Heres what im going through. I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months. It feels like I"ve been with him for longer than that. Well he has a brother who hits on me behind his brothers back. I ignore him and I try to get it through his head that I care bout his brother. My ... (93 words)

We're engaged but she has this guy friend she doesn't want me to meet! Why is that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6435 days ago

9 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Girlfriend may be cheating? Hello, I have a short question or rather Id like to hear some advice and opinions. My girlfriend and I have been together for 3 years and we recently got engaged(maybe 8 months ago). However, she has a friend who she doesnt want me meet. She see's ... (213 words)

My son's older ex gf is pregnant and now, she won't leave him alone! What can he do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6435 days ago

9 April 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My son had a couple of dates withy a woman 10 years older than him, she ended the relationship as she did not have time in her life for him. a couple of weeks later she rang him saying she was pregnant, and she was keeping the baby regardless of what he wanted. My son was ... (117 words)

Is she cheating and lying to me? Your advice is appreciated.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6435 days ago

9 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, I'm new to this site but I need get some help with this before it slowly drives me insane and this seems to be the only place where i can do it. About a year ago my GF and I decided to take a break, I was having some personal issues and at one point got a litt... (1047 words)

Our friend is is way too promiscuous! We are worried- how can we get her to stop behaving this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6435 days ago

9 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend is 18, she lost her virginity at 16 and never slept with anyone else until about 9 months ago, and since then she has slept with 35 men. All of our friends our worried, and the thing is that she is even starting to sleep with other friends' boyfriends. What do i ... (76 words)

He winds me up all the time and we argue! He thinks it's nothing-so how do I deal with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6435 days ago

9 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I've wrote before, and you helped so i'm trying for help again. Me and my boyfriend, well, now ex boyfriend have broken up, but we still want to be together but we just keep arguing, at first, we spent all our time with his best mate, and we argued a lot. then we spent less ... (142 words)

I said something to her I regret and now-she doesn't want to be with me! How can I get her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6435 days ago

9 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - i need some help i meean serious yesterday i split up with what i say is the best girlfreind i everhad in the world i said something that i regreat so much now and now she doint trust me but i really do love her and she said she cant be with me coz she dont trust me, i trully d... (100 words)

Sam wants sex, but I don't want to rush it. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6435 days ago

9 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid i have been going out with a guy called sam and he wants to have sex i know am ready but i don't want to rush into things what should i do?... (37 words)

Do I ask him if he really likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6435 days ago

9 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hmm well i like this guy A LOT! and i think he is totally fit. we get along quite well we always smiling to one another when we talk. he shouts my name from across ANYWHERE! but he has a lot of other girl mates and i dont really know if he is treating me like one of them. also ... (123 words)

Am I staying because I'm afraid to be a single Mom or do I really love him? Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6435 days ago

9 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Please help me, iam in a realationship with the father of my child, we have been together 3 and a half years, we are on the verge of breaking up!! i dont know if i love him or if iam just scared of being a single mum, please help i dont know how to sort myself out!!!... (57 words)

He agreed to tell me if his ex called, but whenever I with him he hides his phone!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6435 days ago

9 April 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - This is a continued saga... my bf and I have been arguing about he and his ex calling each other and the fact that he hides it from me so i won't get mad. He has promised not matter what the circumstance, he would inform me if she has been calling to save us the argument. I ... (140 words)

I feel he still loves his ex gf..should I stay or go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6435 days ago

9 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My question is "should I left my true love because he loved another gril truly, before he knows me?" "I'm 21 and my man is 31,my lover has loved a french girl when he was 20 years old, and they left each other 3 years ago. I feel that he loves me, but I believe that tru... (137 words)

He left us for the women at work, he now wants us and regrets it what he did, but shes pregnant and he says he wants nothing to do with her!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6435 days ago

9 April 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, I really need some advice, i have found out something that has been going on in my life for a while and i was unaware of this, in Jan 05, my partner who i hve been with 10 yrs, we hve 2 kids got a job, it was a\managers job and we were so pleased and for a few mnth... (486 words)

Im secure about myself, How can I learn to love what I have ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6435 days ago

9 April 2007 (F)

- im really insecure about my body, how can i learn to love what Ive got? xx... (16 words)

Help I'm attracted to my aunties fiancee's Brother! What can I do

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6435 days ago

9 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Help im attracted to my aunties Fiancees Brother !! What can i do ?... (14 words)

I have this mad crush on him and he's leaving in May. What can I do?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6425 days ago

9 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - When i Started High School In Year 7 There Was The 1 Lad In Year 8 And I Hated Him I Couldnt Stand Him. ..................................................... Im Now In Year 10 And I Am Truely Crushin on him so Badley He Is All I Think About - Heres My Story.. Hes a T... (323 words)

My husband and I are separated, but would this sexual encounter that happend be classed as cheating ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

9 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel absulutely terrible. My husband and I separated two weeks ago with the chance of reconcilliation. This past weekend I invited a co-worker over to have a few drinks. When she came she brought someone a guy that we work with. Well, when she left he stayed. We were ... (124 words)

Im dating a male, but in the back of my mind im paranoid I could be lesbian!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6435 days ago

9 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Help- Im confused! Im a female dating a male, who I can not stop thinking about. However, i work in the sports industry and am getting paranoid I could turn lesbian. When i shut my eyes I think of males but this who lesbian thing is bugging me. I have never actually fancied a ... (93 words)

Yesterday I left my bf of 3 years, but not sure I did the right thing, he puts drink and his friends before me but I already miss him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6435 days ago

9 April 2007 (F)

- yesterday i left my boyfriend of nearly 3 years and moved in with my mum with my one year old daughter.my question is did i do the right thing. i have many reasons to leave him, he is controling, i do everything for him and it just isnt enough and he is more interested in his ... (101 words)

He said I do figure in his future and he loves me but his lack of experience sexually, scares him to commit to me, do I let him go ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6435 days ago

9 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear doctor Pete. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years. I want him to be apart of my future-live together, travel even get a house and someday get married.I needed to find out where we stand and if he sees me in his future. While he says he does see me in ... (158 words)

Question for the men: Would you consider a fulfilling sex life to be more of a priority over other aspects in a realtionship ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

9 April 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Question for the lads..Would you consider a fulfilling sex life with your partner as a top priority in your relationship or would other issues be more important to you ie companionship,compatibility etc? Comments appreciated.... (34 words)

Is she just not telling me shes been dating someone else as we have a house to still sell ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6434 days ago

9 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been broke up for a few months now from my partner of 6 years. She gave her reasons for leaving me which I understand as it was pretty much my fault. Part of me now thinks she had someone in mind before leaving me. We have not really spoken since, now and then but... (192 words)

We broke up as my family didnt like him, hes dating again and Im jealous!! Im hurting what can I do ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6435 days ago

9 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend broke up with me because my family and friends hated him. I really liked this guy any even though he broke up with me about 4 months ago, i still have feelings for him. Anyways, 2 months after we broke up he gets this new girl and may i say, i am WAY prettier than ... (157 words)

Is 15 years to much of an age difference?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6391 days ago

9 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Is 15 years to much of an age difference?... (9 words)

Im starting to fall for my brothers mate, I doubt this would work so what should I do ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6435 days ago

9 April 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - there is this boy who is really nice and we get along fine but i think i'm starting to fall in love with him and it's killing me because last night i had the fourth dream in a row about him. But nothing could ever happen because he is my brothers best mate and hes two years ... (65 words)

How can I make her feel better about her work stresses, and help her to be more happy ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6435 days ago

9 April 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, There's this person in my new workplace that I think we get along pretty well and I feel we have become pretty good friends. The only thing is, she's becoming less and less enthusiastic about work (which isn't the problem...but is part of the cause)and becoming more ir... (198 words)

I sent him a letter to see if he felt the same way I did, but now I'm worried as I told him that if he didnt feel the same its best we break up but thats not what I want!

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9 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I met John on an online gay connection site in July, and since then we have been "hooking up" at least once or twice a week - despite the fact that we live an hour apart, and I have no car and 4 roommates. On top of it all, I am 18 and John is 39 (age is not an issue for us, ... (413 words)

Been reading books on dating, attraction, seduction, motivation, anxiexty... but being a virgin at 20 is still eating me up!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6428 days ago

9 April 2007 (M) age 36-40 - I am a 20 year old male virgin. For the past seven months the fact that I am still a virgin has been eating away at me. During the duration of this time, I have been reading non-stop books on dateing, attraction, seduction, motivation, anxiexty mostly all self help books. Any ... (182 words)

We broke up over something I did, he says he loves me but cant be with me, what can I do ?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6428 days ago

9 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend broke up wiyh me toyaly out of the blue, because of somethin wrong i did many months ago. he's been telling me how much he loves me lately, so i'm in total shock and don't know what to do. i love hims os much, but he says he just cant be with me naymire and doesn't ... (63 words)

How can I show her I care for her and shes much more than just a distraction to me!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6435 days ago

9 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - What can I do to show my girlfriend that I'm not a distraction for her college home work and while shes at school i'm not a distraction.I just want her to trust me I dont want to push her away we have been together for 2 years now and I love and want to spend the rest of my ... (76 words)

He says hes more likley to pay attention to other females than most! But would never cheat, how can I trust him and move on from this ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6435 days ago

9 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in a serious relationship with a guy who is 32 and I'm 22.The problem is with my insecurities and jealousy. We both go to school but go to seperate universities and the temptation of other girls/ guys is everywhere. I don't feel the temptation but i can't help but feel ... (221 words)

What is generally more important: A successful, ideal career or a successful, life-long partnership?

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9 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - What is generally more important: a successful, ideal career or a successful, life-long partnership? Please, if you've any examples they'd be most appreciated...oh, and this is assuming it's either one or the other, and that they're not manageable together.... (40 words)

We've been dating 2 months and I wasnt invited to his family easter dinner! Was it because he thinks its too soon, do I have a right to be included ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6435 days ago

9 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I wasn't invited to my b/f Easter dinner tonight with daughters and other faily members. We have been together for 2 months, I met his younger daughter who lives with him and he invited his older daughter who lives with his ex wife to come for dinner tonight (I never met this... (170 words)

Was it his ex that called or am I just being paranoid ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6435 days ago

9 April 2007 (F) - my b/f stopped by my house for easter..about 8:30 or so his cell rings..he answers saying hi whats doing and then says im at so and so place(he said my name) and said i will call you on my way home..(obviously he wasnt going to carry on a convo in front of my family, i wouldnt ... (255 words)

My menstrual cycle is all over the place! Can anyone shed any light in this area ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6435 days ago

9 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone i am a 18 year old girl and i am having female problems... the last period i had was sept,2006 it lasted a week and then feb2007 i was spotting for a day and then it went away and then april7,2007 i started bleeding and it only lasted an hour, i am not pregnat ... (102 words)

We have decided to put things on hold and be friends until we have sorted our priorities and so on, and then pick up where we left off, trouble is when we see each other how should we act ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6432 days ago

9 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my guy for nine months. I love him, he loves me... But in the last few months we've had our own stresses; he's been really busy with school and I have been reestablishing my life from deciding to move closer. (I live an hour away as oppose to being states awa... (327 words)

He's putting his drinking before me... !

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6436 days ago

9 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my current boyfriend for 1year and 3 months. When we started dating we were really close and always loved to hang out and things like that. recently he has been prioritzing his drinking before n e thing else... including me. he has started to not take any ... (110 words)

He tells me he loves me, we do things together, sexual and otherwise, but were are not a couple! Is he just using me ?

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9 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating this guy for about 2 and a half years. He recently broke up with me, saying he wanted time to himself, we were to young, etc etc. Although it has been about 3-4 months since this happened and yet he still tells me he loves me, he still treats me likes his ... (175 words)

He fell asleep when I was performing oral sex! This bugs me-how do I handle this?

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9 April 2007 (F) age 51-59 - Have you ever been with a man that fell asleep with you when you were performing oral sex? He was erect, all was well, had showed much enjoyment then all of a sudden I heard him lightly snoring. I did not know what to do, it had never happened to me before, he had been ... (59 words)

The thought of the future without him scares me; we shared so much! How do I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6436 days ago

9 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I ended a two year relationship with my boyfriend last September after some very troubled times of arguing. The problem is that between September and last month we have had limited contact. The this period I have been in spurts of thinking it is 'back on' to being 'off again'. ... (276 words)

I get night-time erections!

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9 April 2007 (?) - as soon as i fall asleep i get an erection until i wake up in the morning! why is this? how can i stop this? i'm 16.... (27 words)

How can I tell this girl, online, that I would like to go out on a date?

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9 April 2007 (?) - how can i ask this girl online that i would like to go out on a date? it's too hard to bring it up. any ideas? ... (26 words)

We broke up but he won't take his stuff. Is he using this as a reason to stop by?

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9 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, Where do I start: Okay, I've been dating my boyfriend for a year. Around 2 weeks and a half ago I broke up with him because I was confused about a lot of things at the time on how my feelings were for him because for the last few weeks I was feeling like he wasn't doing ... (315 words)

I have a mad crush on my doctor! How do I make my feelings go away?

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9 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - This is just it: I have a mad crush on my doctor. I'm sure it's some kind of transference type thing, but in the meantime, how do I keep from making a jerk of myself? I barely know the man, and he's not my type at all...so why is this happening...and how do I make it go ... (82 words)

He lives across the country and I care a lot. How do I deal with the long distance?

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9 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i've fallen hard for someone who lives on the opposite side of the country and it's highly unlikely i'll be able to see him again for at least another three years (until i graduate university). we email constantly and chat online and i got to see him for a week during winter ... (154 words)

My fiancee is leaving me for my friend/boss! I am heartsick over this..what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6425 days ago

9 April 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - My Fiance, who is bipolar, recently - when confronted said she wants to be with my friend/boss and has embarked on a relationship with him. I had suspected before this that she was "sinking" into a depression and had also not taken her medication for a week or so shortly before ... (233 words)