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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Does his lack of contact mean hes just not interested in me ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6459 days ago

25 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, ok so my boyfriend has been away for four weeks and i will see him again in two weeks when we go travelllng together... he did promise that he'd call every day, tho i didnt expect him to coz hes on holidays he shudnt have to but he's only called about 3/4 times..a couple ... (74 words)

I sometimes agree with the nasty things they say about my GF, should I finish it ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6458 days ago

25 April 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - ok me and my girlfriend are kinda having problems. i love her to death but my friends hatee her. non of my friends like and they say mean things that i sometimes agree with . should i keep her or dump her? please help me!... (45 words)

I cant cope living with his father anymore! Cant see a way out but to end things!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6458 days ago

25 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Help. Im on the verge on ending my relationship. We have been together 3 years and have a 1 year old daughter. We live with my boyfriends father as I had to take extended maternity leave (our daughter was sick) and we couldnt afford to pay my mortgage. My boyf is 25 years ol... (157 words)

I broke it off as the age difference was too much and we had nothing in common.. Now I'm lonely!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6459 days ago

25 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - hey, i have jus been away for a few months and got back feeling a bit strange with everything and decided to split with my girl. she is devasted and i feel terrible. the reason is that i feel the age gap (7 years) is to big and we dont do anything apart from spend time ... (131 words)

He makes me wet, but that's all. What can be his problem?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6458 days ago

25 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm going out with someone for about 6 months. The first 3 months we had a lot of sexy moments together. I'm about 80% sure that he likes me because he invites me to go out, he say nice things to me, frequently he calls me that he miss me and want to see me, but for about 3 ... (108 words)

I want a baby but im only 14 years old!

This question has 79 answers - newest was posted 5367 days ago

25 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help me! I want a baby but im only 14 years old! My boyfriend is 16 and we want to be parents already! I feel ready for some reason! What shall i do!!??? Please please help me.... (39 words)

I'm missing him fancying me. Is this totally selfish and stupid?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6454 days ago

25 April 2007 (F)

- I've been chatting to this guy for a couple of months, and found out that he fancied me a while back. I told him in the beginning that I wasn't interested in a relationship with him, but wanted to be friends with him. However, recently I've found that he doesn't fancy me anymo... (111 words)

When he doesn't get his way he is uncontrollable.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6455 days ago

25 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, I need some advice about toddlers. My son is two and a half years old, he is chatting well, understands and asks for things by name, and knows when he wants something he asks or gives the indication for it, and repeats words, problem is that he is a bit hyper active... (185 words)

Well my casual guy found out that i went on a date and he got really upset i think he likes me but im not sure.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6458 days ago

25 April 2007 (F)

- Well..i was seeing this guy casually and he made it clear that it was no strings.. then we started talking on the phone and calling each other all the time. If we wernt on the phone then we would text each other.. Well i was sick of being just a sh'G SO I WENT on a date with ... (144 words)

I think my boyfriend has cheated on me with his good female friend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6430 days ago

25 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and i get on really well were the best of friends and we are so in love however he works with a girl who for the past two years i have been extremely jealous of as much as i dont like her, my bf and her are still good friends, however the other night i foned my BF ... (259 words)

I have never ever had an orgasim even though I have been with a number or partners and tried everything you can imagine including doing it alone with no luck.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6310 days ago

25 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Can I get some advice? I have never ever had an orgasim even though I have been with a number or partners and tried everything you can imagine including doing it alone with no luck. PLease help if you can guve me any tips on how this can be acheived either alone or with my ... (66 words)

Are Good Looks Everything?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6459 days ago

25 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Are Good Looks Everything? Hi There, I was just wondering do you think that good looks are everything because i personally dont.. but many of my friends say that 'oooo hes ugly' when its there personality that attracts me to a boy and not just their looks..... (50 words)

I cant stop thinking about him! Have I done the right thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6459 days ago

25 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke it off with someone I was seeing because he is moving away and im scared of how much I will like him by then and how much it will hurt me. I cant stop thinking about him! Have I done the right thing?... (45 words)

Am i depressed? I go to work, cook, clean, wash myself etc. So I don't feel depressed but he says i am

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6458 days ago

25 April 2007 (F)

age - Am I depressed? My partner invited me to meet him, halfway through a work trip abroad, where i spent a weekend with him, but he spent most the time with his work colleagues with me tagging along (that's how i felt) and he bullied a female colleague into staying in our c... (245 words)

Is this normal that I feel shy around a boy I like or is there something wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6458 days ago

25 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Is This Normal? Sometimes i feel really shy around the boy who i like.. Is this normal or is there something wrong with me? ... (27 words)

I've ended it with a guy who goes away during the summer for his wake boarding. Have I done the right thing by ending it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6458 days ago

25 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently I have been seeing a guy I have known for a while, although he is 6 years older than me we get on like a house on fire and we always have such good fun together. The thing is, he is a pro wake boarder and in the summer we both have to go away, it was never a serious ... (202 words)

I want to save my marriage, but don't want to lose her. What do I do?

This question has 53 answers - newest was posted 6412 days ago

25 April 2007 (M)

age - Hi, I am married with a beautiful wife and 2 kids. Recently my wife has become much more demanding sexually, with us often making love 3 or 4 times a day. Although, you can imagine I am delighted with this, there is a fly in the ointment. She says that she wants to exp... (132 words)

I dont understand why he has gone from planning the whole future and being great together to wanting nothing now.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6458 days ago

25 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I've met a great man who i've fallen for and we have already talked about buying a house in the future and having kids and settling down together. We live and hour apart and he was willing to move here to be with me as i have a young son but within a week he said he didnt want ... (170 words)

My mom is threatening my boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6458 days ago

25 April 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - This boy called the house and it was my boyfriend and my mom found out and now she said shes going to get somebody to jump him stuff like that! ... (32 words)

After 27years together, wife says she needs space! Help..what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6459 days ago

25 April 2007 (M)

age - after 27years wife said she is not in love anymore needs space help... (13 words)

Should I stay with my present boyfriend or go back to the ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6454 days ago

25 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i split up with my boyfriend about 2 months ago however we promised to stay friends but my feelings are stronger then that. i few weeks ago he told me that he still cared about me and that he wanted to get back with him but then i didnt know what to do and i went away for 2 ... (204 words)

We are dating but he still 'logs on' to his sites! Does that mean he's not really interested in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6458 days ago

25 April 2007 (F)

- heya, i recently met a guy from an internet site (dont worry i did it safely) and he seems very intrested when im with him and mostly when i speak to him. however i know its wrong but i feel i was right to check his last log on and even after we went on our dates, etc. he s... (136 words)

Is it common for a man to frequently masturbate while his girlfriend is lying next to him in bed?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

25 April 2007 (?) - Bottom line question: is it common for a man to frequently (2-4 times a day/night) masturbate while his girlfriend is lying next to him in bed and they are not fooling around and/or he thinks she is asleep? Don't people usually masturbate in private unless it is part of ... (530 words)

I'm jealous and stressed that she's talking to guys online! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6458 days ago

25 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and i have been together for over and things have been mostly great. We have had our share of ups and downs but always manage to work them out. the thing is..lately shes been going online a lot and chatting with other guys. Maybe i'm overreacting but im kinda ... (91 words)

How reliable are home pregnancy tests while taking the birth control pill?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6458 days ago

25 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - How reliable are home pregnancy tests while taking the birth control pill? I get my period while taking the pill every month but sometimes I feel that taking a test would ease my fear a little bit, just to be sure. My friend told me that if you keep getting your period while ... (73 words)

No other guys compare to him! How do I get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6458 days ago

25 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Its Eating Me Up Inside.. I dont no how to get over this boy who i practically love.. I find it sooo hard.. A little while ago i didnt see him for about 6 weeks because i was grounded.. but then i come out again and i fell for him.. the moment i set my eyes on him.. its cle... (197 words)

Im attracted to my bf's friend "Bob"! Is this the 7yr itch at 4 yrs?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6458 days ago

25 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for 4yrs, and lived with him for 2. While I still find him attractive and think I would like to marry him and have a family, we dont have a lot of time to spend together, as we both spend alot of time working. I've always thought his friend "BOB" ... (135 words)

Are We Still Friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6458 days ago

25 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Are We Still Friends..? This boy who i like dont seem to want to talk to me.. He know's i like him and is on a 'Break' with his girlfriend who he loves dearly, i can accept that. He doesn't answer my calls or texts, but is talking ok to all of my other friends. Is he d... (92 words)

How do I get my wife 'off' by going down on her? Any tips?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6458 days ago

25 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - i would like for some help on how to get my wife off by going down on her i cant get her off that way... (26 words)

He doesn't want to be with me because he's scared I will hurt him again! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6458 days ago

25 April 2007 (F)

- I Was with this guy for nearly 2 months. The past week or two we started to argue quite abit.He threatened to break up with me n coz i was angry n upset i said fine! Neither of us rele wanted to break up. He knws i wanna get back with him and i have asked him repeatedly if we ... (125 words)

He won't commit to me but he won't let me go either! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6437 days ago

25 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am so confused. I really like a guy I know for years. He never makes an effort to see me but he will always text me! when i do see him we get on great. however, he just wil not commit to anything with me but wont let me go either. help.... (54 words)

I can't figure my ex bf out! We split up and he texts me, telling me, he still cares! What up with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6458 days ago

25 April 2007 (F)

- My boyfriend and I broke up 3 days ago and I wasn't expecting to hear from him at all. This morning I get an email from him saying good morning and how are you doing. I wasn't sure if I should respond back but I did anyway. I told him I was doing well and didn't bring ... (97 words)

I want to feel good about myself around him but I really feel like a failure. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6454 days ago

25 April 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm a gay man and I've been seeing a guy now since mid November last year. He's good looking, works as a fitness instructor and is very trustworthy. He's honest about his feelings and emotions and I initially found this difficult, but I'm getting used to it now. I've not ... (273 words)

My gf still gets upset about her baby's real father! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6458 days ago

25 April 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - My girl frind Erica has a 2 year old daughter Ashlyn and I love them both Ashlyn calls me dady and I call her my daughter. Me and Erica are both 17 years old and we want to spend the rest of our lifes toghter. But she sometimes gets upset steal about Aslyns real father and ... (67 words)

My girlfriend cheated on me with my friend. Should I take her back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6458 days ago

25 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend cheated on me with my friend. i gave him her number while we were broken up but i seriously didn't think he would succeed with her. He called her and they met the next time then started spending time at her house while she was babysitting. he slept with her on her ... (278 words)

Is it normal to still have feelings for your ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6458 days ago

25 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i have recently got with a boy and i dont know if i'm over my ex.. i scared i'm on the rebound and will just hurt my boyfriend if i stay with him is it normal to still have feelings for your ex? ... (45 words)

He has tried breaking up with me 7 times. How can I fix this relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6458 days ago

25 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend are both 20 years old. He has always told me that I am his first love. He is not my first love but I do love him more than anything. we have been together for 7 months and just recently moved in together. We have wonderful days together where we are so ... (175 words)

Why does he not see himself with me when we are so good together? How can he love 2 girls like this

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6458 days ago

25 April 2007 (F) - Ok, agony aunts, let me know your thoughts on this one please cos i am all out of answers!! I have been seeing a guy for about a year and a half. We work together and started seeing each other pretty much as soon as i started at my job. We have become best freinds. We love... (593 words)

We argue over his porn collections and he says I am being pathetic! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6450 days ago

25 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i am 22 years of age and my partner is 34. I have been dating him for 3 years now. I moved in with him about a year ago and just lately we have been arguing alot. Mainly about things that he has done or said. It all started with his over exagerated porn collection and the ... (170 words)

My parents were rigid and controlling and I have low self-esteem! How do I cope?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6371 days ago

25 April 2007 (M) age 41-50 - I have been brought up like an obedient servant by my parents who does everything they ask to, even if it's not something i want to do. They would pressurize me to do it if i denied and it is generally me who has to give up, for they are quite rigid and uncompromising. I have ... (83 words)

I'm wracked with guilt for having an affair! How do I get over this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6459 days ago

25 April 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - i had an affair and ended a 14 year relationship with the father of my 2 children,the affair was complicated and ended messily. i am racked with guilt for so many reasons,how do i get through or over this guilt?... (40 words)

What happens if you can't live up to other's expectations?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6457 days ago

25 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - What happens if you do not or cannot live up to the expectations of other people in life who are important for you?... (23 words)

He split from his gf and I comforted him but now..he wants back with her! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6459 days ago

25 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ok well im 14 and i really like this boy who's 17, and recently he split up with his girlfriend and i comforted him and he still wants to get back with her, and we always text and chat to eachother, and he has showed signs of likeing me in that way but i dont know how to tell ... (63 words)

I'm back home in Egypt but want to tell this girl in Canada ..I love her! Any tips?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6447 days ago

25 April 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - I used to live in canada for a semestre, but now i have come back to my home in egypt, but while i was in canada i loved this girl,and i still love her,but how can i tell her i love her?... (42 words)

Ladies, would you reject your guy for the pain you feel while having sex with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6459 days ago

25 April 2007 (M) age 41-50 - This is a question to all women in general as to whether you would reject your guy for the pain you feel while having sex with him? Or in milder case, would you blame or criticize him?... (37 words)

My Mother blames me! Any advice on how do I deal with her when she does this unecesssarily?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6459 days ago

25 April 2007 (M) age 41-50 - I think that being born as a child to my mother was painful for her and that i am guilty for the pain she had to bear. Atleast that is something she has been trying to justify to me. Any advice on how do i deal with her when she blames me unnecessarily? ... (55 words)

I am jealous and am losing my confidence, all because he looks at other females! Why is this happening to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6459 days ago

25 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Over the past year, I have beecome more insecure about myself. I was so confident before about myself that nothing bothered me at all, and I was just so happy. Now, I feel the opposite. My bf starts looking at other girls while im with him out in public, and just stares and ... (142 words)

Is it possible now for me learn a females sincere intentions and not gett used?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6459 days ago

25 April 2007 (M) age 41-50 - I am 25 and consider myself to be unlucky person to have not been loved by many people in this world, espceially by my own family members. This leaves me as the one who is craving for it, and sometimes in desperation that leads to being used by other people who understand it. I ... (132 words)

My husbands' low self-esteem is causing him to snoop! on me I have no privacy anymore! How do I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6456 days ago

25 April 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I am at my wit's end. My husband of ten years is a bottomless pit of insecurity and i don't know if i can take it anymore. He is a person who is very kind and loving, but doesn't often know his own mind. He doesn't have any interests or hobbies or friends. He is inclined to ... (274 words)

His last weekend before he goes abroad and he wants to go to a sports game with co-workers! Not me! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6457 days ago

25 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, This upcoming Sunday will be the last weekend that I can spend with my fiancee before I leave for 1 month for work abroad. It is important for me that we spend some time together since he works overtime nearly each day. We had planned on going to a sports game together... (158 words)

My bf's insecurity issues have rubbed off on me! Advice appreciated!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6457 days ago

25 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi im currently in a relationship with my boyfriend of nearly 2years. I need advice on some insecurity issues. We both have issues hes just as worse as i am that it's kind of rubbed off on me. I cant stand watching hip hop music videos because i get uncomfortable that he might ... (75 words)

The last few weeks she has been avoiding me. Do you have any suggestions on what is going on?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6457 days ago

25 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. Ok so there is this girl who liked me and we were great friends. But now over the last few weeks she has been avoiding me and not want to talk at all, and has been very upset with me, as it seems. Coming from the male standpoint I have done nothing wrong or that I am aware ... (99 words)

Please give me some advice on how i could get over him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6459 days ago

25 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Well i've been talking to this guy since DECEMBER 8 06 We met over the net. I think he is the sweetest guy on this earth becuz on Christmas day he called me to tell me Merry Christmas and on New Years he called me before anyone else. Me and him would talk everyday for hours.An... (109 words)

Is it wrong of me to keep my dad in the dark when it comes to my dating life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6459 days ago

25 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I'm 18 years old and in a relationship with an amazing man. I won't get all sappy and annoying but suffice to say, he makes me extremely happy and I feel very secure and loved with him. I endured a bit of sexual abuse when I was younger and I've never felt comfortable... (448 words)

What is the best sunscreen that has whitening effects that will make my skin lighter, and not make it tan?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6460 days ago

25 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - This has been happening for several years. I have oily face. No matter how much I wash it, my face gets oily during the afternoon. What should I do? I have acne right now, but I am taking pills and creams for it prescribed by the dermatologist. What is the best sunscreen that ... (72 words)

How do I get her back and can she trust me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6459 days ago

25 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been together for 7 years with a one year break up. We were getting ready to be engaged, and an ex called and says she comes over to our place when my girlfriend is not there. She broke up with me and says its over. I have had my fair share of ... (77 words)

Does too much wetness in a girls vagina gross guys out when they finger you?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5803 days ago

25 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Does too much wetness in a girls vagina gross guys out when they finger you? I'm talkinga bout a 16 year old boy.... (23 words)

4 week ago she found out that i had had sex with a boy she knew!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6458 days ago

25 April 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hello, i have a relationship problem :( my girlfreind of two years wouldnt have sex with me even though she wasnt a virgin. 4 week ago she found out that i had had sex with a boy she knew! i just need to know how to get her back and if the fact it was gay sex mean anythin... (68 words)

I feel like im obligated to both of them. What am I suuposed to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6459 days ago

25 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know what to do. I have two men that want to be with me. One of them is more focused on being with me we have a wonderful friendship but I do not want to be with him. The other man however doent want a commitment right now but we have casual sex and we are very close. ... (150 words)

I can't stop loving my cousin still!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6441 days ago

25 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I'm 19 years old and I've been in love with my cousin for so long. Ever since i wa 5 and he was 10. We were deeply in love until he was 15 and he started to change his way with me. That now we almost never talk! Every time i meet someone new i think i'm over my cousin but ... (91 words)

Is he trying to let me down gently?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6457 days ago

25 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been seeing this guy for 4 months. since the first kiss i've known he is the one. but we have only had one kiss and only been intamate during sex once. (we only had sex 5 times). he wheres a ring composed of his ex fiancee's engagement ring and two earrings as a remind... (296 words)

Is this normal that my Penis doesnt stand right up to attention when lying down!?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

25 April 2007 (M) - I am 16 and have had 2 sexual partners. My first, was very kind and considerate about everything but one thing she did just slightly mention once was that i have a "soft-cock". at first i didnt register what she meant (and she definitely did not mean it in a nasty way) but ... (173 words)

My girlfriend hasnt had a period for 7 weeks, we always use a condom and shes on the pill!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6347 days ago

25 April 2007 (M) - me and my girlfriend were best mates for 2 years before we got together so we know everything about each other, trust each other, have thought alot about it and liked each other for a long time before we got together, We both have ha dsex with previous partners and are both 16. ... (343 words)