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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: I'm in a relationship with a guy who is older and more experienced. I would like to have sex with him but im embarrassed as i have 'floppy' labia and am afraid he'll think im deformed. Is this common? and will he think of me as being weird?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2007): honestly don't worry about it! we girls come in all shapes and sizes. I'm kinda like that as well and no guy has ever mentioned it or probably even noticed it. not everyone looks like porn stars do. trust me, in the heat of the moment the last thing he's gonna care about is how big your labia are.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2007): I have one too, I used to be embarrassed but got over it. Feel confident, men do not really look at that stuff anyway. Plus if he takes enough time to really notice it is a good thing he is down there!
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reader, Yos +, writes (10 April 2007):
It's common and completely normal. I have seen enough to know.
He won't think of you as being weird (well if he does then he is weird), it is nothing to be embarrassed about. Good luck, and make sure you use contraception :)
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