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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Any ideas on how I can cope with my shyness?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

2 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi! i am good friends with this boy who i have secretly fancied since day one and have recently found out he likes me too. but the thing is i am very shy and even more so when im around him. so does anyone have any advice on how i can cope with my shyness and how i can get him ... (66 words)

Should I go to the doctor about this or am I worrying about nothing?

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2 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone I need some help. i am a 16 year old girl and am very thin. last week i went onto this website to see what my bmi was and found out my bmi is 15.6. Should i go to the doctor about this as its low or am i just worrying about nothing?... (55 words)

Does anyone have any idea what's going on here as I am soooooo confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6473 days ago

2 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am not sure what is going on here, if anything? My ex broke up with me at the end of last year. I have moments when I feel very bitter about it as I saw us having a real future together. He seems to have no concept of how much it upset me when he split up with me, and he w... (584 words)

I think I may be pregnant and am about to go on the pill!

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2 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i think i may be pregnant; however, my sister in law is taking me to get put on birth control sometime this week. Will they do a pregnancy test first?... (30 words)

How do I convince her that I don't "need" her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

2 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend, who I am very much in love with, hates the feeling of being "needed" by anyone other than her 3yr old daughter. I completely understand why that would be. My question is: How do I convince her that I don't "need" her, I "want" her very much. Well, how do I ... (109 words)

My erection is fine until I put on a condom then it goes limp...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6471 days ago

2 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I have not had a lot of sexual experience. I do well when the woman is "manually" getting me ready but go limp when I am about to put on the condom. Any suggestions? I also have two other questions but will post in a seperate email. Thanks ... (54 words)

What is the secret of making a girl feel wonderful and sexy?

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2 April 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone Just a quick Q, how do you make a girl feel wondeful and sexy. For example in the film 'The Aviator' the main actor meets a waitress and he complements her formaly and politely, the waitress blushes so badly that she is shaking and completley falls for him. ... (67 words)

Any tips on how to tell if a boy likes you?

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

2 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 15 and i have fancied a boy for two years now and i really love him, we are good mates, and he nos that i love him but he asks me if i do which i dont really like because i think that he is taking advantage of me because he knows i like him, its weird becaus he gives me ... (209 words)

I'm 22 and still a virgin. Can you tell if someone's still a virgin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

2 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Please, Please, Help me! I'm a 22 year old virgin and I'm about to have sex for the first time. My g/f has has a lot more experience than me. I'm a guy so of course I dont want to come off as incompetent sexually. I also dont want to tell her I'm a virgin. I think you can all ... (121 words)

Did I do something terribly wrong by lying when I know I did not have bad intentions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6472 days ago

2 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I have been seeing a guy for 2-3 years now, on and off. our relationship has been very rocky. lots of fighting, arguing and breaking up over silly things. we care an incredible deal for eachother adn love eachother very much but find that our relationship is also very ... (630 words)

I got so nervous I lost my erection!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6473 days ago

2 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi im 19 year old fella, I am a virgin and feel ashamed. My first experience with a girl was terrible, whilst we were about to have sex I got so nervous and lost my erection. Is this wrong? What should I do?... (50 words)

We didn't have actual intercourse but he came on the top of my vagina.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6394 days ago

2 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Recently i stayed over with my boyfriend and things lead from one thing to another, but didnt lead into sexual intercourse. We both weren't wearing any clothes, and he came on the top of my vagina and he kept moving his penis towards me. Can this make me pregnant? ... (49 words)

Is there such a thing as "Love at first sight?"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

2 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 13 and a girl from new zealand came in to town now ive known her for a while but i havent seen her since i was very small, i like her but she is about 16. Is there such a thing as love at first sight? even so a 16 yr old and a 13 cant hook up, can they?? ... (64 words)

How can we both learn to trust one another more?

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2 April 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm pretty confused about myself that is anyway, I don't know whats the matter with me. I have this amazing girlfriend that I love and have done for quite some time now but I'm worried that due to me being so insecure she may leave me, we're both very insecure and have tro... (112 words)

She ran me down with my car because she thought I was cheating on her! Should I forgive her?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6452 days ago

2 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 19 and i have a girlfriend that ran me down with my car beacause she thought I was cheating she is begging for my forgiveness. Now I love her but I may never use my legs again. Should I forgive her?????? please let me know!... (48 words)

I am a woman in my early 30's and am in love with a much younger woman...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6473 days ago

2 April 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My situation is draining me..I am an early 30s woman in love with a much younger woman. We met online, and well..we became very close friends and soon feelings started to develop and we fell in love. It was weird for both of us-I don't consider myself gay (I must be though, ... (315 words)

I have just found out my boyfriend of 5 years has been looking at pictures of naked girls.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6465 days ago

2 April 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I found out my boyfriend of 5 years is looking at pictures of naked girls does that mean he is cheating. does he still love me.... (26 words)

I really like this girl, should I give it a go and ask her out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6386 days ago

2 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I am currently 20...attending college in Southern California while the girl I am interested in, who also had been a good friend since high school is attending college in northern California. While I have always had genuine feelings for her and know in fact that there was a time ... (246 words)

I can't figure out how to have an orgasm! Any suggestions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6473 days ago

2 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am not being able to figure out how to have an orgasm while having sex and my husband can't figure out how to get me off. Any suggestions?... (29 words)

If talking to his ex gf means nothing to him...then why is he lying and hiding it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6473 days ago

2 April 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - okay. my bf and I made an agreement because of a huge argument we had about his old gf calling him and he calling her back. He promised that if she ever contacts him, no matter the reason that he would share it with me to avoid any arguments. Before when it happened I ... (207 words)

Are my concerns and questions about a potential, future gf, counter-productive to my recovery from the ex gf?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6473 days ago

2 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I am just getting into recovery from a break-up. The wound still pretty fresh and it's hard. It's hard because mostly the bond that existed between us and the connection were perfect. We were a perfect match but couldn't make it work right now because of external obstacle... (639 words)

If I try to speak to hubby about his daughters troubles, I am accused of being almost a cruel stepmother! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6469 days ago

2 April 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have just got married and desperately need some advice. My husband has a daughter who is now 7 and I have known her since we got together when she had just turned 4 years old. I try desperately hard to ensure that she is happy, comfortable and feels stable when she visits us ... (223 words)

I've been having strong sexual feelings towards my father ever since I saw him in the shower.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

2 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am almost 17 and recently I have been having some very strong sexual feelings towards my father. They started about 3 months ago when I saw him in the shower. Please help me, I dont know what to do. Do I say something to him or do I wait and see what happens?... (54 words)

He flirts with me a lot! Can some one please tell me whether he thinks of me as a mate and what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6443 days ago

2 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey well i am in year 11 and there's a guy in my form who i really like. We aren't really friends, we've known each other since year 7 but we don't know each other too well. However we've recently started talking more over msn and at school. My friend thinks that he might li... (299 words)

I feel my sex life is being ruined because of this.

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2 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i have been sexualy active for less than a year now. And in the beginning i used to get too wet!- i mean i could barely feel anything, even with very little foreplay. NOW its the opposite, i don't get dry at all!! im 17 and a couple of months ago i got chlamidia but treated ... (81 words)

Can a gynecologist tell if you had sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6473 days ago

2 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Can a gynecologist tell if you had sex ... (10 words)

I love my boyfriend very much but I'm scared to have intercourse with him...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

2 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I'm a 19 year old female and I am a virgin. I have been dating my bf for 6 months now and am very much in love with him. Everything is perfect between us except that he is ready to have intercourse and I'm not. I don't know why because I love him dearly. He keeps ... (172 words)

This friend at work has told me she fancies me and I feel it's spoiled everything.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6473 days ago

2 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - A new girl started at work about 4 months ago and we got on really well - we just kind of clicked, and I don't get that often, so wanted to hold on to it. We started meeting up outside of work, and everything was great - until she told me she fancies me. I'm so confused. I ... (191 words)

He asked me questions while speaker fone was on!!!!

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2 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i was with a boy (my ex) then he dumped me. a week later his best friend asked me to get with him, so i said yes. ( i have feelings for both of them) another week later I was talking to my cousin ( he's my bf and my ex-bf close friend) and he ask me if I still have feelings for ... (94 words)

He wasn't wearing a condom but didn't cum, could I be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6473 days ago

2 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im on the pill but on saturday night i 4got to take it, i didnt realise this until Sunday night and took it then, these boys came round and we all got totally drunk and i ended up havin sex with one of em in the early hours of monday morning, he wasnt wearin a condom but he ... (67 words)

I live with my boyfriend but I can't stop thinking about his friend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6473 days ago

2 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i currently live with my boyfriend, and i love him, but i cant stop thinking about his friend. ever since i saw his friend, ive been hooked. and i met him before i met my boyfriend, but i couldnt go for him because he had a gf at the time. i need to get him out of my head. what ... (63 words)

Is she trying to distance herself from me to leave me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6464 days ago

2 April 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello. My girlfriend and I met online a little over 2 months ago. We "clicked" instantly... in every conceivable way and were on the phone talking to each other within hours after first interacting online. At this point, we have not yet met in person. We have spent HOURS ever... (1045 words)

I'm sick of chit-chat conversations and I want us to open our hearts to each other to build something meaningful.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6473 days ago

2 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Lost. Confused. Anxiety ridden. Depressed. Contemplating ending a relationship with a woman a care deeply for. I have been on edge for months now about where my "serious" long distance relationship is heading. I care about her very much and i want us to be happy together, but ... (389 words)

I'm compiling a CD and I'm looking for a certain type of song.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6473 days ago

2 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend broke up about 3 or 4 weeks ago, and I wanted to make a CD. I have a few songs in mind but I can't quite think of more songs to put on it. I want songs that sort of say, "I'm the best woman you'll ever meet. No one will ever compare". Anyone have any suggestions???... (59 words)

Should I take the first step to at least regain our friendship ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6473 days ago

2 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, My boyfriend dumped me about three months ago, and even though it was quite a short relationship (a month), it ended extremely suddenly. One week everything was brilliant, and the next it was over. I didn't really handle it very well and even though we were good friends ... (166 words)

How can I avoid looking at someone who wears underwear or a bikini?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6473 days ago

2 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - hiya. I'm here agian I've a very confusing problem how can I avoid looking at someone who is wearing an underwear or a bikini??? as you know this happens a lot in the movies and commercial...etc. Please help me.... (39 words)

I'm 18 never worn underwear, Now that I need to I dont know how to its uncomfortable!!! Please please help!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6473 days ago

2 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Help Me Please Again. I'm a boy,18, and I've never wore an unerwear except when I was a child. So now when I want to wear I don't feel comfortable and when I do I can't control my lower part of the body. Please what should I do. and as you know it's diffecult for someone ... (85 words)

Dating 2 years, just discovered a pic on Bebo of him kissing another girl!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5989 days ago

2 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Bebo. Well my boyfriend has just become a member. My friend was browsing and came across him and was checking out his friends etc. She came across photos of my boyfriend at a girls birthday party (which i let him go to in January)and there he is kissing the birthday girl - it ... (153 words)

My friend is confusing me alot, does she like me romantically or not!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6342 days ago

2 April 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I have this friend who confuses me all the time, I really don't know how she feels, but as she is a friend don't wanna risk that either. We get on well and talk a lot bout personal issues she mainly talks I listen!!! The thing is I feel I am getting close to her and then som... (210 words)

My wife of 2 years told me its over and there is no one else, So why is she kissing her lesbian friend!!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6473 days ago

2 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my wife have been married for 2 years. she got a new job then about december time she started to go out about three times a week with work friends. They were lesbians. she has told me she has been unhappy with our relationship for a while as i do not show any more af... (252 words)

Do Europeans have problems showing their feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6459 days ago

2 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I´ve met this guy online some years ago (3 or 4), when he was coming to my country (my city included) and he needed information. I helped him and we developed some friendship, meeting up when he came here. We kept in touch and a year after, it was my turn to visit Europe and ... (236 words)

Married for 27 years, he cheated at 23 yrs, and now constantly flirts depsite me asking him not to! What should I do ?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

2 April 2007 (F)

age - I have been married 27 years and even though I keep telling my husband that it bothers and hurts me when he constantly looks at and makes comments about other women, he continues to do it and tells me to stop freaking out. I don't freak out, I politely tell him that it bothers ... (191 words)

We've hit a rocky patch at 7 years, but the problem is I feel like Im on death row waiting for him to leave me!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6473 days ago

2 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for 7 years now, and we have recently hit a low point in our relationship... We met and fell madly in love at Uni and have always felt that we were 'the one' for each other. In 2005 we got engaged, but a few months later, I began feeling very uns... (410 words)

Would getting some porn DVD's be a bad idea ?

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2 April 2007 (F)

age - I would like some advice, we have been married many years and my husband keeps requesting for us to get some porn DVD's to watch together, now I'm not so sure that this is a good idea after reading some of the stories on this site, and I don't want to be storing trouble up for ... (96 words)

Im 17, she wont be 16 for 2 months, she wants to have sex, should we or should we wait ?

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2 April 2007 (M) - I am 17 and my girl friend is 2 months away from being 16 and she wants to have sex. i think we should wait a while but she dose not want to wait. I am not going to lie I want to do. What should I do. ... (76 words)

My mum is desperate to meet my boyfriends mum at whatever costs, how can I stop her being invasive, worse still doing it behind my back ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6473 days ago

2 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi! I'm with my boyfriend for more than two years now. My problem is that my mother is desperate to meet his mother. His parents live more than three hours away from my parents and they have only meet twice at a party with a lot of other people. My mother wants to phone hi... (209 words)

Is it wrong to sleep with your first cousin ?

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 3235 days ago

2 April 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - i have left my husband and son and am sleeping with my first cousin,i have my teenage daughter with me and am living just a few yards from my husband and son.my son is very upset and thinks he and his sister will get a lot of bullying form other people.is it right to sleep with ... (73 words)

We broke up after 6 yrs, we still have sex, but he has a new gf and they are expecting! Im dreading it! I love him and we are so right toghether! Please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

2 April 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi there - please help After a 6 year relationship to a man I really loved I broke up with him a year ago as I didnt really feel he was comitted to me, I thought he really loved me but he didnt exactly beg me back or try to save the relationship, we live in a small town so it... (273 words)

Why didnt he mention to me that I snogged his mate on a drunken night ? Shouldnt he have been looking after me ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6473 days ago

2 April 2007 (F)

- Hay I know this is probably a silly question and i know i propably have the answer im looking for but i need help - i went out for a drink with my ex the othernight (we broke up a year ago but are still mates) well anyway we got talking about times we had been drunk and how ... (212 words)

Its only been 3 weeks, he has stood me up before and doesnt initiate contact, would it be wrong to expect more from him ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6473 days ago

2 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there. I am in a new relationship. It has been three weeks now. I have already got intimate with the guy.. well the issue now is that I am from a series of heartbreaks or being taken for granted by men. With the new guy I am always conscious. I have spent time with him tw... (521 words)

I would be angry if another guy ogled my girl, How would others react ?

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2 April 2007 (M) age 36-40 - Well this is a question to experienced guys. You are going out with your girl and someone oogles at her or stares at her. What would you do? I would become quite angry. What about others? Maybe today I will open that account and not be Anonymous, I mean what harm can it... (59 words)

When I start to give more importance to money, my fathers love decreases for me.... Why!?

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2 April 2007 (M) age 41-50 - If i start giving importance to money or make money, my father's love decreases for me, why this is so? Wonder When I will open that account.... ? I cant carry on writing Anonymously all the time..... ... (41 words)

From the age of 7 I have had sex with my brother!!! I now think he loves his wife more than me and its killing me!!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

2 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I had a sexual relation with my brother since 7 years at that time both of us were not married. I got married 4years ago and am having a child. my brother got married an year back and his wife too is expecting now. He stays far off from me and whenever he comes to my place I ... (186 words)

Everytime she goes out I wonder....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6473 days ago

2 April 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi I've been seeing my girlfriend for around 9 months now and we've had issues with trust and respect which I've sought advice on here before relating to her past. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-gf-has-been-very-graphic-about-her.html http://www.dearcupid.o... (208 words)

I made the mistake of staying in contact with a female friend and didnt tell my GF, shes hurt I lied and ended it! How do I get the trust back!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6473 days ago

2 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I met my girlfriend online and we've been together for about 3 months. When we first started going into an intimate relationship, sometimes I still hung out with another girl that I met online. I was not attracted to this other girl romantically but thought she could be a ... (393 words)

Somehow I've been turned into a wreck! I get Panic attacks and I worry my BF will go off me! Please help!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6474 days ago

2 April 2007 (F)

- Hi I really need some help I was a happy outgoing person and now iv been reduced to a wreck You might think this comes from having a nasty bf In fact my bf is lovely to me and we have such a good time I have been seeing him for nine months and its been great I do... (271 words)

Hes been chatting to other girls under a different name! He says its just friends, but my trust Is dented! Do I give him another chance ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6473 days ago

2 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I was seeing this boy for about a year and a half, we went out for 4 months but we broke up as we both were busy and that, but after all this time we are obviously very much in love. Sometimes we have silly arguments and have been trying to patch up together for qui... (157 words)

His back problem stops him from orgasming!! How can I talk to him about it without him feeling less of a man ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

2 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I just came across this site today and the advice here is excellent! Maybe you'll offer some of your wisdom to me? 10 years ago I started dating a tall dark and handsome/type a/workaholic/ivy educated/executive type. He's also a really good person. When we started getting ... (226 words)

Not sure if I could be pregnant with all this irregular Pill taking.. What do you think ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6473 days ago

2 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been on the pill for 4 months but missed my usual 11am pill on sunday so i took two when i remembered (12 hours later). i kept up my usual time but i kept forgetting because i traveled to a different time zone (but i always took them within an hour of my usual time). on ... (168 words)

He moved out in Jan and I cant move on, Im so empty, and I miss my extended family!!

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2 April 2007 (F)

age - I was with my partner for nine years, engaged for three. He moved in with me at the beginning of January this year with two of his children, with plans for us to shortly get married, then moved out at the end of January saying it wasn't working. He now won't have anything to ... (135 words)

My mans in the forces and I'm sick with worry about his safety! Any advice its killing me!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6474 days ago

2 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hay im going out of my mind with worry! my fellas in the forces, and he went away in feb, we talk on the phone once a week and try n email as we can... but lately he cant call as his jobs to stressfull, im so worried about him and his saftey, its killing me! to the point were ... (81 words)

My family dont like my boyfriend and hes been excluded from a wedding invite. Should I go to the wedding ?

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2 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have quite a close family and my cousin is getting married soon, I was invited to the wedding but my partner of 3 years was not, my family do not like him. Should I go to the wedding?... (39 words)

We broke up, but got back together as I couldnt bare to see her hurt, thing is I want to break up again, but I really dont want to hurt her! Please help!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6473 days ago

2 April 2007 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for 2.5 years now, and are now in our 2nd year of college. I felt like things werent working back around Christmas, and we had a confrontation and broke up, but it was the first time we were ever apart and got back together a couple weeks ... (237 words)

Is it normal for my hips to hurt for days after having sex ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6199 days ago

2 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - whenver i have sex w/ my boyfriend, it really hurts my hips- they ache for days afterward. is this normal? is there anything i can do? it doesn't matter what position- every position does it. i've tried stretching, too (not like warm-up for sex ... that would be weird ... ... (99 words)

His ex is making things so difficult for us, moving the kids, not allowing me to be anywhere near them etc.... Would I be stupid marrying him!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6473 days ago

2 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - my soon to be husband's ex wife is driving me crazy. let me start by saying that we started by just being friends do to the fact that he was married. he would talk to be about there problems and that was all it was, was a friendship, one day he called and said that he couldn't ... (576 words)

Is she being fair by breaking up with me because I cheated 2 yrs ago!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6473 days ago

2 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been dating a girl for a little over two years, she is my first real realationship and also my first love. Through out the relationship we have had problems with our communication, but more than ever lately we have been struggeling lately. Also in the beggining of the ... (201 words)

My friends used to always be there for me, I messed up a little lately and they ignore me! How do I get them back ?

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2 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - So here's the thing,my friends use to be on my side,used to support me and care for me. But nowlets just say that i messed up a lil(I couldn't control my emotions n i'm easily jealous) and they kinda ignore me now/ Which sucks. Please help.... (50 words)

He's okay to go out without me, but when I do the same hes gets offended! Is this just a phase ?

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2 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 19 and my boyfriend just turned 21 last month and he goes to the bar all the time and of course i can't go... plus he stays out all night sometimes and it drives me crazy. And if that isn't bad enough when i want to hang out with my friends all night long; he gets offended ... (79 words)

We are long distance, and I appreciate shes ill, But is she just getting all the benefits of a relationship without the mess!?

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2 April 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Have a relatively new girlfriend and it is a long distance relationship--only an hour by plane--and we have the opportunity to see each other every other weekend. To complicate things she is to have open heart surgery soon so there's a lot of stress and feelings of being ... (431 words)

I like this guy and his friend felt me up at a party when I got drunk! What should I do?

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2 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel really guilty and awful and i don't know what to do. I like this guy but i'm always to shy to let anything on to indicate this. On top of this i think he must hate me now because I got fairly drunk at a party and his friend started trying to feel me up (which i ... (236 words)

How can I stop biting my lips and the inside of my cheek!?

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2 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i am 20 i have problems with biting my lips and cheek i am on prozan called fluxotine but it still does not take away the thoughts of wanting to do it again how can i stop this stupid problem hope u can help samxx... (48 words)