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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I don't want to lose our friendship, but I have fallen for my good female friend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

22 April 2007 (?) - i have a very good female friend. i like her so much. she is shy, and hasn't been in relationship for years due to it. it's come to a point where i'm thinkin about her all the time! i want to know if she would consider dating me? how can i do this? i've asked a few girls... (124 words)

I want a 6 pack!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

22 April 2007 (?) - I really really want to get a 6 pack! I'm 16 weighing 8.10stones and 5,11feet tall. What do i need to do? all information welcome. thanks,... (27 words)

The girl and I seemed to really hit it off, but seems like she also has another interest.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6421 days ago

22 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I need help. I met this woman a couple of weeks ago and to me, it seemed like we really hit it off. She had recently gotten out of a bad relationship so I figured I should take things slow. I got a phone call the other day and she told me that since it's too soon for her to ... (313 words)

I'm tired of my boyfriend's ex-wife's stuff lying around, including old condom wrappers. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6309 days ago

22 April 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, My bf and I had a huge row this weekend. We've been dating for a year and he's recently asked me to move in with him. I accepted and we were in the process of making room in his house for all my stuff. The problem is, his ex-wife's crap is all over his house f... (341 words)

I'm in love with my sister's boyfriend's daughter. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6421 days ago

22 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - what should i do? i think i am in love with my sister's boyfriends daughter and i think she feels the same. Nothing has ever happened i mean we haven't even kissed but there is just soo much between us. I think of her nearly every minute of the day and it's driving me crazy.... (55 words)

I'm friends with the girl who is cheating on her boyfriend, whom is also my friend. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

22 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a friend. Shes been with her boyfriend for five years. She has cheated on him a few times before(im talking more than a kiss). Recently shes been seeing a guy behind his back for the last three months. She has no intention of breaking up with her boyfriend anytime soon, ... (99 words)

Since we started dating, I feel she is scared of and she never flirts with me anymore. What's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

22 April 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Please I need help with my girlfriend. its nothing blatant - its kind of subtle but its killing me inside and I need to know what to do :(. Every since we started going out, I swear shes been scared of me. She kinda never flirts with me. Its hard to explain. OK example: (I know ... (192 words)

When I'm ready for a relationship, I want someone who is completely genuine.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6422 days ago

22 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, just a general question here. ATM i have no interest in finding a bf and atm im not ready for one but when i do get one i want one thats serious about me, doesn't use me for sex, loves me for who i am, doesn't go out using drugs and smoking like a lot of lads do these day ... (194 words)

I have signs of an alcoholic and I have kissed other women though I have a girlfriend whom I love very much.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5936 days ago

22 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - The last 3 weeks i have been going out with my mates and seriously taking drinking to another level. I feel like i am now bordering alcoholism. The reason i post this is that whilst i have been out i am being a really bad and different person. On each night out i have kissed ... (233 words)

Should I drop her or make it work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6422 days ago

22 April 2007 (M)

- Shall i go for make or break? theres a girl ive been talking to for ages, and im not sure how she feels, but i'm sure i can make her feel the way i feel about her if i can show her what im like away from the computer (we talk on msn, rarely see each other in person, and when we ... (169 words)

The long distance is driving further apart, despite our love for each other.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

22 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I need some advice. My girlfriend and I have been dating for over two years, but I have been away at school while she is back home. We are only about 45 minutes away from each other and we try to see each other as much as possible, but I feel that it's been really tearing her ... (207 words)

I'm involved with my boyfriend but I have fantasies about my teacher.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6421 days ago

22 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 17, im in a very long term relationship with my boyfriend everything was great up until a few weeks ago! Ive started having feelings for another man... slightly older men have always been my preferred choice, a major turn on... but i never thought it'd get this extreme!... (150 words)

I appreciate that all guys look at other women, but what if it is ALL the time and I never get any compliments!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6422 days ago

22 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I appreciate that all guys look at other women and I don't have a problem with that, but every guy I have known has constantly mentioned how hot other women are so much that I end up feeling really inadequate and invisible. My ex (who really really wanted to go out with me) ... (363 words)

My boyfriend wants to have a threesome with another woman, but I want him all to myself!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

22 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf wants to have a threesome with another girl! One of the reasons is because he says a wants to be with another every great once in a while, but is very much in love with me and wants to stay while me forever! We've been together for a year, and have amazing sex! What is ... (89 words)

My partner hates me and doesn't trust me because of some lies I've made in the past.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

22 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my partner just over a year now and things have changed, due to me telling him white lies! he says he hates me and doesn't trust me. ... (32 words)

I don't trust my boyfriend at all because of some lies he made to me in the past.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6422 days ago

22 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been togther for 7months, and when I met him he had two male lodgers. During our relationship they both moved out and around 6weeks ago he has replaced them with two others....one of which is female. He never talked to me about it before telling her she ... (418 words)

I said I wasn't sexually active at the doctor because my mum was with me and I'm only 14! Should I tell the truth?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6419 days ago

22 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey. i have a lump on the lip of my vagina. I have been to the hospital and the doctor asked me if i was sexually active. My mum was there so i said no even though i have been. I couldnt tell him i was cos im 14 and my mum would go mad. He said ok then i think its a cist. Do ... (90 words)

I'm still bleeding 8 days after giving birth.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6420 days ago

22 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I had a baby 8 days ago. I am still bleeding, like I am on my period. Also, I feel swollen and like all my insides are pushed out in my vaginal area. When does the bleeding stop, and when do you go back to normal? Do I really have to wait 6 weeks to have sex again? My friend ... (69 words)

We've been together a long time and now I just feel no desire from my GF towards me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6422 days ago

22 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been going out with my girlfriend for a long time now and I'm beginning to feel undesired. We do fun things together: Dates, events, ect... Lately she has spent a lot of time with different groups and clubs doing things with her friends (boys and girls). She always ... (108 words)

Why do my guy contradict his actions with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

22 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with this guy for like 10 months or so, we've been living together for that long, but seeing eachother for about a yr. And we were friends for like 6 yrs. before that. I'm 25 and he's 32. Anyways, we had a baby about a week ago, and when we were at the hospital a ... (618 words)

My high sex drive and my BF constantly turning me down have led me to say no to all sex! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6422 days ago

22 April 2007 (F)

- I'm so confused about sex right now. I've been in a relationship for 2 years and am just sick of the silly games. They're not intentional games, it's just getting complicated. I have a very high sex drive but it's not a physical need for sex (as I don't have an orgasm with a... (265 words)

Annoyed that I didn't get her phone number at the wedding,,,but what could I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

22 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - when you meet a person at a wedding and you don't have your mobile with you, no pen or paper , how do you take the person's number to contact the person again? i was stuck in a situation like that at a Wedding. the inivitation said no mobiles and no cameras. do yo... (102 words)

Is he really looking forward to seeing me or only because I got in an accident?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6422 days ago

22 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - ok so heres the thing , last year in the summer i met this really nice guy who i really got on with and we would chat and talk and go pub , so anyway we decided to be sexual and we started to have sex , so anyway i started to fall for him after 5months of this and told hi... (263 words)

I thought we'd be a couple and then he met Natalie! If he didnt want to go out with me then why would he tell me, he loved me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6420 days ago

22 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i need help the guy i really like was dating my friend tiffany and friday me her my other friend sarah and dylan and 2 of his friends went to the movies i sat by dylan because he wanted to talk to me i knew it was going to be bad and i was happy but kind of mad then i wasnt ... (356 words)

We've been together 6 years but I am so suspicious of his cellphone!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6307 days ago

22 April 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - How can i trust my partner when he always has his mobile on silent, takes it everywhere with him (even to the loo) and has PIN numbers on it, so if anyone does pick it up they have no chance of using it. Sometimes I catch him "texting" but he always says he is doing his "to ... (283 words)

He tells me to get over him one minute, then wants to kiss me the next! What is going on with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6421 days ago

22 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Well i've been talking to this guy for about 5 months already. During that time I started to have feelings for him becuz he is a really nice guy i've never met anyone like him. He called me a couple of days ago to tell me that i should get over him becuz supposely am liking him ... (197 words)

I had a one-night-stand with a 43 year old married man, now he says he loves me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6373 days ago

22 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Im 21 and a month ago on a night out saw this gorgeous older man we looked at each other and smiled i instantly was attracted to him. I went over and we talked. we then went back to his hotel and made love. he is 43 i asked him was he separted from his wife he wouldnt answer at ... (129 words)

My parents don't approve of my boyfriend but I really need their support!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6422 days ago

22 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 21 years old my currently ex bf is 27. there is no problem with the age difference, it's my parents. We were engaged to be married next year and everything was going fine until he proposed. after that we stopped doing any thing and i felt that i came second in his life to ... (128 words)

I'm 23, married for 2 years but I don't enjoy sex with my new husband so have started an affair!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

22 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi i am 23 and have been married for 2 years and a few months. I have not been enjoying sex with my husband and i dont know how to tell him, I ve been extremely sexually frustrated as its been more than 3 years since we ve been together, thought it would get better over time ... (90 words)

We have a new baby on the way but my husband of 14 years has a major drinking problem!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6421 days ago

22 April 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband of 14 years has gradually started drinking more often. He has never been a heavy drinker but he is a regular pot smoker and he likes wine. For the past year he has been drinking a half to three quarters of a bottle of wine every night 4-5 nights a week. He says it ... (791 words)

I'm 13..is it okay to perform oral on my bf?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

22 April 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok Im 13 Years Old.and My Boyfriend Has Had Oral Sex Before Twice.he Asked If I Would Perform It On Him,and I Said I Dont Know.i Wanted 2 Know Is It Okay For Me To Perform Oral Sex On My Boyfriend?... (41 words)

He thinks I have a great personality and he likes shagging me...but he doesn't love me! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6422 days ago

22 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i met my boyfriend yesterday and everything was ok then this morning i woke up and he told me got to tell me the truth about him.. and he said i dont fancy you or love you i think you got a great personalilty and he would shag me but yet he still wants to be with me i do love ... (67 words)

If a guy ejaculates on your vagina...can you still get pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6422 days ago

22 April 2007 (F) - i have a question.. i have a friend whom i was going out with for a while and we broke up and we just had sex last saturday.. and i was wandering if a guy pulls out and cums on ur private.. could you still get pregnant? (no we did not use a condom) i know stupid... please help ... (61 words)

My boyfriend and I have just broken up because of his parents.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

22 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Me n my bf hav just broken up cos of his parents. he is the first guy i've had sex with n the only guy i hav ever loved should i keep fighting for our relationship or just give up. we were together a year. sum1 help!... (47 words)

My son starts school soon and I'm terrified he'll be bullied.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

22 April 2007 (M)

- my son will start school in september (he´s 5). I know I was bullied at school, and although it hit me really badly, I got out of it OK. But I´m scared that if my son gets bullied, he keeps it all in even if we tell him to tell us if he´s being bullied at school. Then it all ... (92 words)

I am seriously panicking about my exams and can't sleep or eat.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6422 days ago

22 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, im 20 and am in my second year of uni. problem is that im seriously panicking about my exams, i try to revise but cant, i cant sleep, and i keep crying all the time at the most pathetic things and most of the time i start crying for no apparent reason. i feel so so down and ... (83 words)

My vagina gets extremely wet when I'm doing anything sexual. Anyone else have this problem?

This question has 201 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

22 April 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I am curious if anyone has a similar problem? My vagina gets extremely wet when I'm doing anything sexual. An ex said he's never seen anyone get that wet before and he used to have to pull out occasionally during intercourse to dry me off with a handtowel. My current ... (98 words)

Does it really matter if I never have a partner?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6422 days ago

22 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Does it matter if I never have a partner? So here's the deal...I've only ever had one partner, and that was years ago. I'm 24 now, and so interested in my research, writing and subject that I don't feel that I'd ever have a need for a partner: all of my enjoyment comes from my ... (209 words)

Is it wrong to ask a man for his phone number?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6422 days ago

22 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi , is it wrong to ask a man for his phone number friday night i was out and saw this man i know from work hes a customer we was talking then we hung out with him and his mates when we was going i asked for his number i dont normally do that i always think men should do the ... (117 words)

He said he can't cope with work and our relationship at present.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6420 days ago

22 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - We're in love with each other but we can't be together... Me and my boyfriend Alex* split up this week. The reason we split up - he couldn't literally cope with the stress of work as well as the relationship. I told him that if he didn't love me anymore, then he should ... (250 words)

My long distance boyfriend has told me he has many female friends online. Would you consider this cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

22 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - This is for all you single/married ladies an gents out here. What would you consider cheating? I have a b/f, that lives abroad and he has recently told me that he has many female friends online. He says hes not the jealous type, i told him i am. So is this cheating? I dont know ... (138 words)

I am a 25 year old male virgin and have no desire for sex.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

22 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I have no desire for sex, does that mean I’m doomed to live a life alone? I’m a 25 year old guy, still a virgin, and I have never had the desire to have sex. However, even though I am happy to remain celibate because of this, has it doomed my chances of love? I mean to most p... (119 words)

How can I tell my rather strict parents that I have a boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

22 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ..i know this is kinda stupid but here goes! how can u tell ur sorta strict parents when it comes to guys that u have a bf..cuz i don't want them to think in the back of their heads that when i say i am out with my friends they'll thinkl i am out with him..or i am doing this or ... (71 words)

I feel fat and ugly and have never had a boyfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6420 days ago

22 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi..ok amm my life i have been fat but until recently i have decided for my self that i wanted to get skinny cuz no guy was looking at me i was 5.5 feet and weighed about 235 lbs ..ya i know heavy for a 15 yr old girl but now i am 16 and weigh 174 lbs and still no guy is ... (180 words)

What dress size am I as far as US dress sizes go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6422 days ago

22 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi there, i was just wondering, does anybody know this? i am living in lebanon and i am a size 31 here but my aunt living back at the states wants to send me some clothes. i have lost about 11 lbs since october that i have been there where i was ranging froma size 10-12(i have ... (77 words)

Why would he not put a close up picture up for me to see?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6420 days ago

22 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hello I have question i met this man on a dating site he put a picture of him and two ladies and they were far not close. i asked him to put a close solo picture he said he has many but he doesnt know how to upload them. cause now he has an internet phone his pc broke so ... (203 words)

We met again after 17 years and fell for one another again, now I've found out he's never broken it off with his old girlfirend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6421 days ago

22 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I met up with an old boyfriend after 17 years. I was going thru and divorce and he was unhappy in his current relationship with his girlfriend. We hit it off and fell for each other pretty fast. There was a long of drama in between, but bottom line, he lives an hour away and ... (146 words)

I love him but he got another woman pregnant!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6422 days ago

22 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i met a man 5 years younger than me 4 years ago we had a great relationship it was long distance but it worked out fine until one night he went behind my back, we had an argument but sorted it out, from then we had our ups and downs but coz i coldn't trust him we split up after ... (268 words)

My 29 year old husband has been seeing a woman of 64!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6415 days ago

22 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hello i was wondering if you can help me with this sensitive problem. i'm 23, my husband is 29 and we've been married for a year and together since we were 17. a good friend told me she'd seen my husband with a 64-year-old woman. she said she overheard him saying to th... (333 words)

Now it is difficult for me to find some person who can share this sense of loneliness inside me. I wonder what should i do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6422 days ago

22 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 25 yrs old guy and have had a bad patch of suffering from loneliness while i was in my final year of college. Then i met this girl online who seem to had similar issues. The difference was, that she was quite obsessive in her approach to meet her needs for loneliness. She ... (384 words)

Should I ask him to hand me his cellphone so I can check there is no one else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6422 days ago

22 April 2007 (F) age 41-50 - my bf texted me that im the girl that he wanted to live his life with that he encountered a lot of hardships just to win me and not even minding all of it because he loves me...im happy reading his texts, but the thing is am a little bit out of trust to him i wanna do this ... (100 words)

Are all my worries a sign that I'm not ready for a relationship or should I be brave and just go for it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6422 days ago

22 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, i like one of my friends and he likes me but i dont know if i want a relationship. I do fancy him but ive got so many doubts and worries that i dont know if its a sign that im not ready for a relationship. My problem is is it that im 19 (soon to be 20) and ive only have ... (249 words)

A girl offered my boyfriend a blowjob...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

22 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Heya..Me and my boyfriend Dexter have been on and off for about 2 months now and at the start of the relationship he said he would stop smoking for me then admitted it was too hard to do so he didnt stop.. i appreciate him telling the truth but lately he and his mates have ... (205 words)

I want to give him a blowjob---any suggestions or good tips?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

22 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm in a very strong relationship with a boy and we've decided to go a step further - not sex i want to give him a blow job. Have you got any tips and should i swallow or spit out the cum?? X..Layla..X... (48 words)

He asked me out---was he just joking and how do I tell?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6422 days ago

22 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - The boy i like asked me out yesterday but how do i know that he was being serious about wanting to go out with me instead of just joking and messing around?... (32 words)

I don't know how to tell him not to expect monogamy from me. Any ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6420 days ago

22 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 27, gay/bi, in a relationship with a guy two years younger. We've been seeing each other nearly two years, it was long distance for most of the time, until I moved to be with him five months ago. We aren't living together, he says it would be weird and he can't ever see ... (164 words)

Mom won't let me date this older guy! Do I go behind her back or try to convince to let me do it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6413 days ago

22 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - wow...i really really like this guy and there is a small chance we could date but my mom says she would never let me date him....do i have to stop liking him...go behind my moms back or try force her to let me date him if there was a possibility....she says its just cos he is ... (75 words)

Can't get over my feelings for my ex! Is this a sign we were meant to be together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6392 days ago

22 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ok..i went to movies with my ex....i realised i think i still have feelings for him even though i like someone else i always dream of him and think of him its like he is taking over i dont know what to do ...how do i get over him or is it a sign we meant to be back together. ... (98 words)

An assault that occurred in my past..still affects me! How should I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6422 days ago

22 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid,sorry if this is long. this is extremly hard to type so please please make it worth it...when i was 9 my best friend was going out with a 15 year old lad who was a total b****rd who cheated on her and i was scared of him very much. one day i was walking home from ... (364 words)

Worried that my friend will change more than her clothes!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6422 days ago

22 April 2007 (F)

- My friend has always had her own style, and she's used her figure to her advantage. (She's got super skinny legs, and then a large belly). But recently she's been copying of another girl we know, buying all the same clothes as she has, and whilst this girl is very pretty a... (97 words)

Everytime he puts a condom on he goes soft.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6419 days ago

22 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My man and I have just started to get intimate with each other, well try to at least. Everything is amazing but as soon as the condom goes on, he goes soft!! This has happens everytime and of course he can't get his penis in when its not hard so we haven't actually had inte... (129 words)

Am I wrong for wanting a normal bf??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6422 days ago

22 April 2007 (F) age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for two years now. In him I've found a friend in whom I can confide in, but not necesarily the boyfriend I wanted. I've been somewhat happy with him, but not thrilled because you see I'm not interested in getting married like right now but at least ... (921 words)

Working with this guy is driving me crazy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6422 days ago

22 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I wonder if anyone can help me. I'm very recently married but work very closely (daily) with another man and have done for a couple of years. Over the last year, my feeling towards him have spiralled out of control and he's mostly all I think about. I know he likes me too... (135 words)

I'm bi-polar and my bf blames me and says I'm crazy everytime we argue! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6422 days ago

22 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - First of all, I am bi-polar and pregnant! My problem is that everytime me and my boyfriend have and argument, he blames me and says I'm crazy! I am a very rational person actually and have even caught him making things up! When I defend myself, the fight escalates. He can never ... (81 words)

Has abusive relationships has made me unable to stand a man's touch?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6422 days ago

22 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - After being in an abusive relationship and having some very unpleasant dates, one of which turned into a stalker, I find myself unable to stand a man's touch anymore. It makes me literally quite sick. I still have a sex drive, but it dies around my dates. What's wrong with me? ... (55 words)

He finds it hard with my 2 kids around--is he wanting to end this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6422 days ago

22 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - dear cupid i so need ur help...ive been with my boyfriend 4 months. I have 2 children he has 1 which he see's every weekend...the problem is that he has been saying that he's finding it hard with my kids and he is saying he's used to his space...so do u think he is wanting to ... (95 words)

Had unprotected sex during pregancy, will it effect the baby?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6422 days ago

22 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm one month and one week pregnat, I just had unprotected sex with someone who isn't the father, what is going to happen to me and the baby?... (28 words)

Hubby masturbates 2 times a week. I'm lucky if I get 'it' once a month! What is causing this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6419 days ago

22 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I asked my husband how often he masturbates, and he said a couple times a week. Yet, I'm lucky if we have sex once a month. He says it is not me, but what else could it be?... (40 words)

Married 15 years, 5 kids, size 16 and hubby won't come near me! Why??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6423 days ago

22 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - ive been married 14 yrs and im size 16 in clothing had 5 lovely kids and hubby wont come near me why?... (22 words)

When I go out drinking I really over-do it to coincide with feeling out of control. It also helps me NOT to wear my engagement ring! Why am I doing this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6422 days ago

22 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello all! I was recently engaged a couple of months back and have been going crazy ever since. When I go out drinking I really over do it to coinside with feeling out of control. It also helps me NOT to wear my engagement ring. I am not sure with what is going on inside. ... (106 words)

I want him to keep his goth look but he won't do the same as me! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6423 days ago

22 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid, We are a gothic couple that has been together for 8 years and just engaged! Problem is when I met him he use to color his hair black, and be really into his "look." Now he is not and has not been in a couple of years. I personally think that this is false adverti... (147 words)

Ive struggled with Bacteria Vaginosis for 2 yrs! Antibiotics aren't working..anyone know of others ways to get rid of it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

22 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive struggled with Bacteria Vaginosis for 2 yrs now. it will come,the doctor will prescribe anti-biotics,it will go away for awhile, then it will come back! this is not my natural smell and Im sick of going through this over and over again. does anyone know of any home remedies ... (63 words)