A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: My boyfriend doesn't just flirt with women, he takes it a step farther by getting their numbers too. I take some of the blame for his behavior, I introduced him to a pickup artist book I was reading. Since he has read that book he has made it a mission to pickup any woman he wants. I am upset about this, I am an extremely jealous person and vindictive by nature. I've asked him before not to do it and if he does feel that he needs to, in order to feel adequate, please don't tell me about it. I would retaliate, but I think that making your mate unhappy is one of the worst things you can do in a relationship. I just don't know how to make him see that what he is doing is not only disappointing but it is also phsychologically damaging to me. Any advice?
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reader, Ponungalungb +, writes (10 April 2007):
 Why don't you get him a book about treating your girlfriend with respect. I'm sure there are at least one or two books on the subject somewhere. Getting phone numbers of other women is just wrong. He sounds like he's either not that into you, or he's ignorant. In either case, I'd be getting some phone numbers of guys if I were you. . . and not to retaliate, but to find a new boyfriend.
Good luck!
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